Im On Diapermates

[depends4me]

Okay, I hope I don't embarrass myself in asking this question. Twice now while logged into DiaperMates, I was contacted by other users through a built-in, web-based IM. How is this done??? When viewing the list of logged-in users, I see the popup with options like Contact, Befriend, Get Email, but there's no option for IM. In the last incarnation of DM (just a few months ago?) I think there was a "Presence" area with an IM option, but I don't see any such option now. I even did some reading on Dolphin, in the hope that a tutorial would include a picture of the IM button, but no such luck. Perhaps this is a pay-only feature?

[DailyDi]

IM's have been disabled due to spamming attacks.

[depends4me]

IM's have been disabled due to spamming attacks.

Thanks, that wasn't the answer I expected, but it certainly makes sense now. And yes, I've noticed that Diapermates and security haven't always gone hand-in-hand. Perhaps IM's might make a comeback sometime in the future?