Baby.stacy Posted August 13, 2010 Share Posted August 13, 2010 Why are some ppl so mean? Do ppl like to make me cry? I'm just a cuddley and lovey person who wants lots some daddy to talk me. But then he is so mean when he sees me alil chubby but me cute. I'm never gonna b appected. Hope u all don't hate me I just wanteds some friends who wood play with me. I'm just loneys and loser bye ppl. If anyone feels like me plzzz message me we b friends and text. 1 Link to comment
Guest Baby-Toa Posted August 13, 2010 Share Posted August 13, 2010 I've been treated that way before. Though i learned to just take it and get back up when others would have failed and given up. I told myself i will help others as much as i can. Link to comment
KittenAB Posted August 13, 2010 Share Posted August 13, 2010 Going into psych mode for this one: It's a feeling of neglect that is overwhelming you. One thing you do not do when feeling like this is look for people. Let them come to you. Also, online or even on the phone too many people are wearing masks (which I find offensive personally) and you have to meet them in person to get to know them. At first contact, expect nothing, and don't tell them too much about yourself. Let them drop their mask, and if you wear one online drop yours to. If they leave remind yourself that the internet is not reality, it's another world to most people. Sometimes being alone is great for the soul to, so you can give up on searching and just learn about yourself instead. There's always more to one's self to learn. Hopefully this feeling will pass and you will again find more important things to focus on in your life. 1 Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted August 13, 2010 Share Posted August 13, 2010 All I do is wait on my little and get next to nothing in return, so I know how you feel. Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted August 27, 2010 Share Posted August 27, 2010 wow, I sounded whiny. I mean it's the truth but whiny much? Link to comment
underwhere Posted August 30, 2010 Share Posted August 30, 2010 Believe it or not, a person's true self does show online, although you need to be a discerning person to see it. People who pick on others online probably do so in person as well, so these types should be avoided. There is a certain amount of banter which occurs online, but it should never be a viscious variety which hurts people if the person is truly kind. Flirting is not the same as attacking. Always look for inconsistancies in a person's online demeaner. They are usually not too hard to find if there are any. I have spotted a number of fakers this way. I don't need any more drama in my life than already exists, so people who want to deal with me will deal with me honestly. I always deal honestly with others. I expect the same in return. Baby Stacy, you might also find that you have unreasonable expectations of other people. I learned a long time ago to expect people to hurt me. (I was always hurt when they did ineviotably anyway, so it is simply a protection mechanism for me now.) Therefore, for me, its is always a surprise when I meet a genuine person. They can be hard to find, but they are well worth the search. Good luck in your search for genuine people. 1 Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted August 30, 2010 Share Posted August 30, 2010 Believe it or not, a person's true self does show online, although you need to be a discerning person to see it. People who pick on others online probably do so in person as well, so these types should be avoided. There is a certain amount of banter which occurs online, but it should never be a viscious variety which hurts people if the person is truly kind. Flirting is not the same as attacking. Always look for inconsistancies in a person's online demeaner. They are usually not too hard to find if there are any. I have spotted a number of fakers this way. I don't need any more drama in my life than already exists, so people who want to deal with me will deal with me honestly. I always deal honestly with others. I expect the same in return. Baby Stacy, you might also find that you have unreasonable expectations of other people. I learned a long time ago to expect people to hurt me. (I was always hurt when they did ineviotably anyway, so it is simply a protection mechanism for me now.) Therefore, for me, its is always a surprise when I meet a genuine person. They can be hard to find, but they are well worth the search. Good luck in your search for genuine people. What underwhere said though I don't expect to be hurt, I just expect that people aren't going to care much until they get to know me better Online you have to read between the lines to know someone Bettypooh Link to comment
Darkfinn Posted August 30, 2010 Share Posted August 30, 2010 Why am I smelling a troll? One of their first posts, poor grammar, etc. Seems fake to me. Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted August 31, 2010 Share Posted August 31, 2010 It's an ABDL site, bad grammar is to be expected. The problem is people by nature are mean and selfish, you have to learn to deal with it. Link to comment
Darkfinn Posted August 31, 2010 Share Posted August 31, 2010 It's an ABDL site, bad grammar is to be expected. What does being AB/DL have to do with grammar? I know plenty of AB/DLs who can type just fine. 1 Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted August 31, 2010 Share Posted August 31, 2010 What does being AB/DL have to do with grammar? I know plenty of AB/DLs who can type just fine. ^^^^^^^ this Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted September 1, 2010 Share Posted September 1, 2010 I am not advocating the poor grammar, I was just indicating that it is quite common here. Link to comment
KittenAB Posted September 1, 2010 Share Posted September 1, 2010 To Bad Grammar: It's a web forum, bad English is expected, considering most of the world doesn't use it all the time. Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted September 3, 2010 Share Posted September 3, 2010 I'm not feeling well today and thought of something goofy to make everyone a bit more chipper. I swear my farts aremore musically sound than this guy. Link to comment
SKIP Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 Why are some ppl so mean? Do ppl like to make me cry? I'm just a cuddley and lovey person who wants lots some daddy to talk me. But then he is so mean when he sees me alil chubby but me cute. I'm never gonna b appected. Hope u all don't hate me I just wanteds some friends who wood play with me. I'm just loneys and loser bye ppl. If anyone feels like me plzzz message me we b friends and text. Baby stacy the ppl that make you cry losers they are probably miss out on meeting a very nice young lady So don't cry smile and think about this Link to comment
bignappybo Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 It is sad but true there will always be people who want to hurt us,but i think they are the people who are most in need of help. It might be hard at first to do it,but just ignore what they say to you,just remember sticks and stones,it cn be hard to do it but you will feel better when you can manage to do this trust me on this one. Link to comment
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