When You Told Your Spouse...

[gnarley9t]

disposableonly, I know it doesn't seem like it now but someday you are going to realize this is one of the best things to ever happen to you, because now you have that chance of finding that the woman who will love you completely.

I haven't read this entire thread but I have checked it off and on throughout the months and I have read enough to know that I have had similar experience with my marriage. To keep it brief, me being ab/dl was a major contributor to my divorce from my un-accepting ex-wife. Well you know what? Sure, I was pretty fucked up about it for a while but fuck her, cause I ended up meeting a girl a year later who for a straight year was the mommy of my dreams. Unfortunately, there were other circumstances that brought that relationship to an end but the point is disposableonly you are a free man dude, anything is possible with another woman from here on out dude. Sure, there are some times I miss my ex-gf who not only willingly played my mommy but truly enjoyed it, but because I have met her, I know more than ever that it's very possible to meet another woman who will love me just the same.

So yeah man, you are a free man, the woman of your dreams is now possible for you, you're going to be alright dude.

[feathergirl]

disposableonly, I know it doesn't seem like it now but someday you are going to realize this is one of the best things to ever happen to you, because now you have that chance of finding that the woman who will love you completely.

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So yeah man, you are a free man, the woman of your dreams is now possible for you, you're going to be alright dude.

[ksdl]

Since my spouse discovered my situation..

[BabyBoyCliff]

I had tried to tell my then girlfriend that I love to wear diapers but every time I tried something told me not to. I would try to bring up other fetishes to see what she said. She had a friend in college that watched porn nonstop and saw it all. I asked what the strangest one was and of course it had to be mine so I neglected to tell her. So we address now married and she and I are cleaning or bedroom and she sees a couple of my pull ups. She was like "why do you have these?" I didn't know what she would think about my fetish so I began telling her that I wet the bed till I was in my teens. Then I told her I like them to wear and have even worn them to bed. She had never noticed. Kinda of Port back she asked why Ihad never told her but asker was very understanding about the whole thing. I am sorry that so many have not had such an understanding spouse. She does not want me to push it on her or to change me but she is OK with me wearing and on most night I am diapered because occasionally I still wet the bed, but with diapers on. Be honest as soon as possible don't Waite as long as I did most won't understand. Stay diapered everyone!

[Jock1892]

I didn't have to tell my spouse! He knew!! Considering that I met him on diaper-bois.com!

[BriGuy]

My first wife left me for another man. The day our divorce finalized they were engaged. I was heart broken, angry, depressed, even suicidal. I took a turn for the worst. Started making poor decisions, drank real heavily, blamed everything on everybody. I was no fun and completely miserable.

As time went on the pain lessened, and I started thinking better. A quote by David Lee Roth started to crystallize everything around me. "The best revenge is living well." I started living for me and doing the things that made me happy. I threw myself INTO my kinks instead of hiding them. I became more proud of my Abdl side instead of ashamed and more open about it. If I went on a date with a girl and we had a connection I would tell her about my Abdl side. If she reacted negatively I moved on. Generally by the second date they knew. I had one night stands where I was wearing diapers even. The crazy thing about all of it was with my confidence and positive outlook on it all I wasn't denied or turned down.

One step at a time it will get better my friend. I am sorry for your hurt and pain, and it's going to hurt like hell for a while but I promise things will get better. I am a stronger person and more convicted about being who I am today than I was before my first marriage. It's paying off too. I eventually remarried, my current wife is more than I can ask for. She is an amazing person inside and out. She promotes my Abdl and we rejoice in our kinks together. (She isn't Abdl) we found each other through the BDSM lifestyle.

If you need a sounding board, or someone to cry to pm me I will listen. Your mourning a loss and these things hurt like hell. I wouldn't wish divorce on my worst enemy.

Know you are not alone and things will start looking better. We are all here for you.

[Jock1892]

So good!