Need Some Advice....

[DLlover12609]

My boyfriend is a DL and I love him so much. I know he was nervous to tell me about his fetish but he's my best friend and I know it is a big part of his life and want to make him happy. I am completely ok with him wearing one or even wetting on while he's just spending time with me. I am not a DL but have worn for him a couple times in various circumstances but am still not entirely comfortable with me doing it. Over time I am becoming more comfortable in diapers but I wanted to know if there was anything to make this easier because I want to see him happy. I can tell how happy he is when I do wear I just feel like I can't sometimes because of my own mental block and I also see his disappointment.

Any Advice?

[diaperedandspanked]

My boyfriend is a DL and I love him so much. I know he was nervous to tell me about his fetish but he's my best friend and I know it is a big part of his life and want to make him happy. I am completely ok with him wearing one or even wetting on while he's just spending time with me. I am not a DL but have worn for him a couple times in various circumstances but am still not entirely comfortable with me doing it. Over time I am becoming more comfortable in diapers but I wanted to know if there was anything to make this easier because I want to see him happy. I can tell how happy he is when I do wear I just feel like I can't sometimes because of my own mental block and I also see his disappointment.

Any Advice?

Well, the fact you have worn a couple of times for him is a big step. But remember, it's not something you have to do everytime your together. Sure, you want to please him but you also have to just be yourself sometimes. Take things slow, this seems all new to you. One way to get over your mental block, just remember that diapers are really nothing but another form of underwear, in time you may find it's really not that big of a deal to be wearing one. Best of luck to both of you, a lot of members here wish they were in his shoes, to actually have an understanding girlfriend or wife that would at least give diaper wearing a fair chance of being part of their relationship.

[DLlover12609]

thanks diaperedandspanked for your advice. Like I have said I am getting more comfortable with it and I really just want to make him happen and really will ultimately do anything for him even if at this present moment I am not completely comfortable. I am appreciative that he does respect my boundries and doesn't push me further than I am willing at the time. Another thing is that he thinks certain behaviors I have could be those of an AB and I am begining to see as well that these habits that I thought was just me being me could be the characteristics of an AB but I never thought of it that way and still don't completely. Is there any way to really know?

[:gremlin]

just talk it over with him. try the things you think you mite like. let him know if it makes you unconfortable. find out what he likes and what you like. there mite be a middle ground you and him can live with. the things that he has seen in you just mite be you tend to be a little girl and not a ab.

[diaperedandspanked]

thanks diaperedandspanked for your advice. Like I have said I am getting more comfortable with it and I really just want to make him happen and really will ultimately do anything for him even if at this present moment I am not completely comfortable. I am appreciative that he does respect my boundries and doesn't push me further than I am willing at the time. Another thing is that he thinks certain behaviors I have could be those of an AB and I am begining to see as well that these habits that I thought was just me being me could be the characteristics of an AB but I never thought of it that way and still don't completely. Is there any way to really know?

What sort of bahaviors and habits do you have that seem to relate to being an AB? Is their any one thing that makes you feel uncomfortable in a diaper? It's good that he's not pushing you, it's better to take your time until you can sort out your feelings. Just keep an open mind and don't feel guilty about any of this, your not hurting anyone, just trying something different. And like anything new, it takes time to adjust to it.

[DLlover12609]

What sort of bahaviors and habits do you have that seem to relate to being an AB? Is their any one thing that makes you feel uncomfortable in a diaper? It's good that he's not pushing you, it's better to take your time until you can sort out your feelings. Just keep an open mind and don't feel guilty about any of this, your not hurting anyone, just trying something different. And like anything new, it takes time to adjust to it.

well he has noticed that my taste in decor is very childish like rubber duckie bath mats and towels and such. I love to be cuddled and held and I also talk babyish at times and don't even really realize it. He tells me I pout which he claims is cute. I don't like drinking out of cups but will drink out of like water bottles or with a straw. I love anything pink and stuffed animals and anything soft. recently I started sucking my thumb and kinda wanting a sippy cup. I love cartoons and Barbie movies.

[diaperedandspanked]

well he has noticed that my taste in decor is very childish like rubber duckie bath mats and towels and such. I love to be cuddled and held and I also talk babyish at times and don't even really realize it. He tells me I pout which he claims is cute. I don't like drinking out of cups but will drink out of like water bottles or with a straw. I love anything pink and stuffed animals and anything soft. recently I started sucking my thumb and kinda wanting a sippy cup. I love cartoons and Barbie movies.

Well, those actions definitly seem to fit in to the AB lifestyle. I can see how he could easily feel the same. My advice, just be yourself, add that diaper every now and then and go with the flow. The more often you wear, the more comfortable you'll learn to be in it. A diaper, sippy cup and stuffed animal, what more could a girl want when her inner child needs attention. Being an adult is hard work, nothing wrong with taking a step back in time to get away from the stress life can throw at you. Slow down, relax and enjoy the time when you can feel like a kid again, and if that kid happens to be diapered...all the better.

[DiaperLover84]

Hey,

I guess all you can do is just take it slowly.. You don't want to be rushed into anything, and besides if he loves you he will understand. It doesn't make you a bad person if you get into this fetish, it will only make your love for him between you two stronger. Just see how it goes, and take it slow, and be up for new things. I guess play with the ideas and never be afraid to admit that you like something. And don't be afraid to try new things really. Everyone has fetishes. I guess just go as far as you can go, and just enjoy it while you can. The adult life to come is a long and defficult so enjoy your younger years while acting as a baby and or wear diapers. There are more people that are into this then you realize!

[NappyHappy]

Just be yourself, if you enjoy diapers you enjoy diapers. The fact that your so willing to help him delve into his fantasies shows how much you care already.

- Stay Diapered!

NappyHappy

[DLlover12609]

thanks guys it means a lot. I'm really trying to at least sort of see how he sees them. his aren't as comfortable for me but we ordered a new size for me and maybe that'll be better for me. Well we'll see how it goes!!!

[comfyjohn]

hi.

ive been , one by one reading everything in this catagory (friends and family).

i love how consistently supportive you all are .

just nice to see this and maybe its like a reverse brainwashing for me.

i need a love soaking very badly lately.

i need to be F***ing marinated in love and kindness.

thank you to the 3rd power (mathy joke).

too much stress and no money to go "have fun"

depression is a spirit fucker.

sorry about the language.

thank you again,

its been 3 years ago that i read something abdl erotic related, and found it a turn on or just got curious.

went to a grocery store away from my neighborhood late at night to not be recognized and got aa package of their store brand diapers.

happy new year.

-john

<img src="http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid="" border="0" alt="smile.gif" /> thanks guys it means a lot. I'm really trying to at least sort of see how he sees them. his aren't as comfortable for me but we ordered a new size for me and maybe that'll be better for me. Well we'll see how it goes!!!