DLlover12609

honestly I was kinda just in the same situation. My bf is a DL, and at first, I will be honest, i was a lil freaked out by the concept. 18 years of learning that kind of behavior is wrong worked against me. However, I love him and didn't want to offend him. after a few months of me knowing about his fetish I have through my own expieramenting with AB/DL with his help, changed my mind on the issue. the AB/DL lifestyle really isn't that bad. He doesn't have anything mentally wrong with him and honestly I'd rather have him home wearing diapers than out doing drugs or committing crimes. I don't consider myself an AB/DL but I do wear diapers and suck on pacifiers for him because I love how happy it makes him and I'm starting to enjoy just playing with a pacifier in my mouth while doing work. Wearing diapers isn't that bad either I'm just not used to it yet and still get uncomfortable not being used to the feel. I understand where you are coming from and how it is a lot at once. I'm assuming you are though the initial shock since you are seeking advice. Everyone expieriments in some way with our sexuality. I guess the best thing you can do as a parent is never "attack" your son by telling him he's a freak or anything negative. by all means express your opinion but be open. I'm not saying you have to but don't knock it til you try it so to speak.I'm pretty conservative myself sexually and AB/DL is something I can handle. some people just like to feel young and cared for. there are far worse and dangerous things in this world. hope this helps

thanks guys it means a lot. I'm really trying to at least sort of see how he sees them. his aren't as comfortable for me but we ordered a new size for me and maybe that'll be better for me. Well we'll see how it goes!!!

well he has noticed that my taste in decor is very childish like rubber duckie bath mats and towels and such. I love to be cuddled and held and I also talk babyish at times and don't even really realize it. He tells me I pout which he claims is cute. I don't like drinking out of cups but will drink out of like water bottles or with a straw. I love anything pink and stuffed animals and anything soft. recently I started sucking my thumb and kinda wanting a sippy cup. I love cartoons and Barbie movies.

thanks diaperedandspanked for your advice. Like I have said I am getting more comfortable with it and I really just want to make him happen and really will ultimately do anything for him even if at this present moment I am not completely comfortable. I am appreciative that he does respect my boundries and doesn't push me further than I am willing at the time. Another thing is that he thinks certain behaviors I have could be those of an AB and I am begining to see as well that these habits that I thought was just me being me could be the characteristics of an AB but I never thought of it that way and still don't completely. Is there any way to really know?

My boyfriend is a DL and I love him so much. I know he was nervous to tell me about his fetish but he's my best friend and I know it is a big part of his life and want to make him happy. I am completely ok with him wearing one or even wetting on while he's just spending time with me. I am not a DL but have worn for him a couple times in various circumstances but am still not entirely comfortable with me doing it. Over time I am becoming more comfortable in diapers but I wanted to know if there was anything to make this easier because I want to see him happy. I can tell how happy he is when I do wear I just feel like I can't sometimes because of my own mental block and I also see his disappointment. Any Advice?