[Would you have become a DL if there were no internet?]

I was DL long before the internet 

[It seems I got caught wearing!]

I highly doubt anyone noticed a diaper.  On fleeting glance it just looks like someone has a weird butt. No one but a diaper wearer knows why the butt looks weird.   Like you said, they were laughing at their own conversation just as you walked by, but it had nothing to do with you.

[Would you attend diaper party?]

On 10/31/2022 at 1:35 AM, ValentinesStuff said:

If you don't want to that's fine, I never said you should. My point is that your argument that diapers are "underwear" is a reason that I have always found to be silly, because, for the most part, those that raise that argument never complain about exposed lingerie or men's briefs, or swimsuits that hide virtually nothing.

Ok what i read was ....if you don't want to that's fine but here let me keep hounding you all the same. 

This is my last response to you @ValentinesStuff please stop trying to continue this discussion with me.

[Would you attend diaper party?]

19 hours ago, ValentinesStuff said:

Tell that to all the people I see walking around with their pants hanging so low, they have to use one hand to hold them up. Or the guys in speedos so tight you can tell if they're circumcised. The women with bra straps hanging out, or other exposed lingerie.

 

I'm not advocating going to Walmart in just a diaper, but at a private party, does it really matter? I've certainly seen more exposed skin.

It matters because opinions were asked on a public forum & I gave mine. No where did I read that this was a forum only for people who agreed with every thought of the OP.  You can tag me until the cows come home with whatever scenario you can imagine,  & it will not persuade me to change my mind on this. My answer will always be, no I would not attend a party were people were walking around in exposed diapers.

While you're out & doing your best to do you, there has to be room to allow me to do me. That's what living in a respectable society is all about.

[Would you attend diaper party?]

On 6/17/2021 at 7:12 AM, ValentinesStuff said:

Diapers do a better job than most swimwear in hiding the naughty bits. 

It's not how much they cover.

Diapers are underware. 

You don't parade around in underware. 

 

[Chat Room Issues]

2 minutes ago, DailyDi said:

That’s not a bug. The history was erased. You will need to reblock people. 

Oh ok. Thanks for responding so quickly.  It will actually be kind of nice to block people twice ?

[Chat Room Issues]

On 9/27/2022 at 12:04 PM, DailyDi said:

We upgraded the chat room this morning but are currently dealing with a few bugs:

1. User List is not showing all users, and is not updating.
2. Some images are not showing.
3. Disable PMs is not working.

We are awaiting fixes/advice from the software maker. Please bare with us.

 

May I add one?

I noticed people I have previously blocked are visible again. 

[Transgender Policy]

11 hours ago, kasarberang said:

Have the users responsible for this whole thing not been banned? If that's what you're saying, then I agree with you, those users should be dealt with. But we should not convict users just for their thoughts/views/opinions if they have not actively caused any problems.

Yes. That's what I mean. People witnessed a problem. To say keep your thoughts to yourself from now on, is not enough. If those who spoke, do not amplify the message that this site wants to represent, then they need to be banned. Banning people for inappropriate behaviour is NOT the same thing as being the thought police.

[Transgender Policy]

21 minutes ago, kasarberang said:

What you are advocating for is literal thought crime, and is thankfully impossible to enforce with current day technology. Like Mikey mentioned above, it is impossible for someone to make trans-individuals or other LGBTQ+ people uncomfortable if they keep it to themselves. Since you'd literally never know they had such views.

Except we know who they are. 

[Transgender Policy]

On 5/6/2022 at 2:31 PM, DailyDi said:

 

Anyone who disagrees with that is required to keep it to themselves while on this board. 

That's not enough imho.

 

Anywho who makes our trans friends or any person in the LGBTQ+ community unwelcome or uncomfortable, should be banned from the site, without warning.

[Fell down. Police called]

They see people wear less than that

[Be honest, what do yall think of diaperfurs/babyfurs?]

I think they are cute.

 

But like all other fetishes ... there is a time & place for everything.

[questions I always get. so I thought I'd start a thread. how to find a partner]

10 hours ago, AwakenEvil said:

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10 hours ago, AwakenEvil said:

If all you have to offer is being in a diaper and pissing/shitting yourself in your parents basement odds are you'll be single for a while.

6. Stop coming off as creepy

Louder please. There are still a few who don't get it I see

[Girlfriend is accepting What can I do to help her along]

On 3/1/2022 at 9:44 AM, AwakenEvil said:

I see way to many ABDL guys(especially) stating they want a (insert relationship type) and offer nothing in return, and wonder why they are single.

But but they bring penis.  You mean that's not enough? ?

[Hey everyone im new]

Hello fellow Canadian. I am in Ontario. Welcome

[New Fursuit]

Ohhh so cute

[Girlfriend is accepting What can I do to help her along]

It might be nice for a female to jump into this thread, so hello.

Don't make every date, or every moment the two of you are together, about you and your diapers. She knows, she has shown some acceptance, be thankful & don't push. This will let her know that you understand this relationship isn't one sided.

Now that it's out in the open, don't try to hide things, ask her for input. This will help you learn where her comfort level is. Find out her limits. Is she ok with you wearing around friends? Is she ok with you wearing to bed? Is she ok with exposed diapers when it is just the two of you at home? This will let her know that her feelings are valid and her curiousity is welcome. That's really important. Sometimes vanilla folk don't understand that it is ok to ask questions.

The biggest thing to remember is women aren't fantasy dispensers. You likely won't get the person in those stories so many people write. That's fine. But communication will help both of you get something wonderful. If dialogue isn't welcome. That teaches you something too. That teaches you, this isn't the one.

[What Do Cats See?]

Ghosts

[Word Association]

Medals

[Superhero personas: Which members would you like to see made into “superheroes” to represent the community?]

Could I use my mittens??

[Do you make room?]

3 minutes ago, Little Sherri said:

Interesting question. In general, I would immediately move my feet and make room for them. Usually, before they asked. An exception would be if, say, one of my kids decided that they wanted to sit on the couch I was occupying, while the other couch, equally serviceable, sat unused. Then, I might ask if they could sit there instead, because I'm enjoying my current position. If it were, say, my mother-in-law, or someone older, I'd move right away. 

Same. I move right away without them so much as asking. 

And like you, I would probably say what that empty spot over there not good enough for you?

 

But ya, I move if someone else needs a spot, no need for them to say may I sit here? I've done it on the bus, in lecture halls, and even if I have room at my table in a bar.

[Do you make room?]

You are chilling at home, feet all up, cozy, someone else walks into the room. There is no place for them.

Do you move your feet to make room for them?

Only if they say please?

Does your answer depend on the age of the person who entered the room?

 

[Condition Critical]

Giddy up.

[Word Association]

Pine Tree

[Fetish issues]

Post in the Meeting Place forum