DLK

Oh man, that must have sucked! I'm lucky enough to not have been caught. Like that anyway DLK

1) European Attends Special Care 3) Vintage Attends with waistband, blue tapes and shiny crinkly plastic Got a dumb question, will goolge it, where do you get European Attends and are they plastic. DLK

favorite diapers: 1. Attends 2. Abena xplus extra large 3. dunno I want to try Secure Plus, Tranquility, and Prevail. I've heard many say that they don't like Attends. Why? They are the most comfortable to me because the of 6 tapes. Every other diaper I've tried only has 2 per side, not as comfy. I also love the plastic and the elastic waistband. Although, the older proctor and Gamble diapers w/blue tapes were better. abena abriform rock because they are so thick , only 4 tapes though. Oh ya the louder the plastic the better. DLK aka mrcrinkles

Well, that is a very interesting situation. I had a similar thing happen to me years ago. That chick ended up marrying a friend of mine, we still hang out. She was always curious about what my fetish was. I never told her because it was none of her fucking bussiness and I told her that. However her curiosity was sorta a turn on, I often wonder how she would have reacted. I understand that you didn't want to blow her off, but you could have told her to drop it. I agree that her laughter was rude, and I would have been pissed off too, and would have left right then. But hey, look at the bright side, you may hook up with this girl, if not, no big loss. Gotta admit, I'm curious, let us know how it goes if you want. DLK

Um, I don't use a nickname on this board. But on other boards, I finally came up with one that I like which is mrcrinkles. It's because love the crinkle my diaper makes, and because I like plastic in general. DLK(aka mrcrinkles)

Hi Baby D, First I'd like to say I'm kinda suprised/disappointed, that none of the ladies have responded yet. In my very humble opinion, as a guy, I haven't a clue as how to tell a guy from a ladies perspective. All I can say is this, guys like sex, they like to talk about sex with women, at least I do. So, it should be very easy to tell how open minded a male is, I know being an ab isn't all sexual, if at all, I hope you all understand what I mean. But lets be honest, if it were me, it'd be cool because I'm very open minded about sex and abism. Thats only because I'm a diaper lover. If I wasn't I doubt I'd be comfortable with it. So if a guy is into bdsm, or anything else that is considered "deviant" by society, your chance for acceptance in much higher, remember this is my opinion. I have a buddy who is such a straight arrow, that I don't think he likes his wife to see him naked, 1 of these types will probably freak out and run. Here's the paradox, you could very well fall for either type. Remember, if he has kinks, he is much more likely to accept your's. I'll try damn near anything with my wife, yes I'd go ab if she wanted that, even though I don't have any desire to do so, for me its all abour diapers. Just food for thought. I hope the ladies respond to your post, they will be much more knowlegeable then we men could ever hope to be. DLK P.S. I would love some feed back on this post. I wanna see how far off base I am, if I am.

Age: 31 Sex/Gender/Inclination: Male/Male/Heterosexual Diaper Experience: I am not really 100% sure what attracted me to diapers. Am diaper lover with no AB aspirations. Just always fixated on them. And honestly nothing would please me more than being part of a study group to discern if there are more or less women into this. Diapers are sexually arousing to me. I'll clarify that, baby diapers do nothing for me. Attends do! My wife knows, she's not into it. Pretty sure my whole immediate family knew, however nothing was ever really addressed, thank God. I think being studied by a mental health professional, is sort of a fantasy. Not therapy, but a clinical study on ab/dlism. I would sign up for that in a heartbeat. DLK

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I don't see anything wrong with it either, as my other post stated, I was just nervous about getting complaints. I see now, that the members on this board are way too cool to complain about this topic. I can't tell how grateful I am about that. My wife doesn't like it much becuase I think it makes her feel like she not doing something right (insecure). In reality, it has nothing to do with that or with her frankly. When I'm masturbating, its about ME. She has those issues because her parents went through a very ugly divorce when she was little, and I think she and her sister both have security issues. This is a topic for another time. DLK

Wow! Thanks everyone for the response. I wanted to address this subject because I end up doing that in my diaper everytime. Man, nothing except actual sex turns me on like diapers. My wife and I have experimented with various toys and none of them even come close for me. I am extremely happy that I didn't get any negative or angry feedback, I was a nervous about that. I didn't want to be bashed for being a pervert. Its just that diapers, (especially attends), are a raging fetish/toy for me. Thanks again for the feedback, and I look forward to seeing more post's on this. DLK

Hey all, first I would like to apologize to anyone this might offend, I did check with the admin. I have been a member for almost a month, and having done alot of reading through previous post's, have not seen any mention self induced pleasure. I must admit, this is aimed more at the dl side, I am a little nervous about the feedback I'll get or not get. As you all know, I am a dl only, I don't get to wear as much as I would like. So every chance I get, I always have a strong urge "to tame the beast" as it were because it turns me on so much. It probably wouldn't be like this if I could wear my diaper everyday. Just wanted to get some feedback on this subject. I hope I didn't offend anyone's sensibilities (sorry about the spelling). DLK P.S. This is kinda aimed more at the dl's out there, but I would love to hear from anyone. I think I posted something similar but not as in depth a while back.

I live in dayton. Don't know if I can make it or not, don't hold breath. dumb question, I-270 goes around Columbus right? DLK

Don't be so hard on him. If I lived in California, i would have a hard time being positive about people too. DLK

Look man, if she's cool with it, then there is nothing to feel guilty about. The only way that its selfish in my mind is if you use your diaper to satisfy sexual urges instead of having sex with her. But if there is a balance between diapers and any other aspects of your romantic relationship, then everything should be cool. DLK

Amen sister. DLK

First, my sister-in-law wouldn't tell anyone else, because of the reprisal she'd get from my wife (not me). Whether or not she might say domething to the wife, I couldn't say, but I doubt it. In fact, since then I haven't so much as mentioned the word diaper. I told her that she wouldn't hear about or see diapers anymore. She has been very receptive of this. However, SHE has mentioned this site and related things several times. Anyway, I don't know where this new trend might lead, and I'm not going to worry about it. DLK

That sucks! you could try the urine clean-up products for pet stains. They work, even for cat piss, and that is just about the most pungent. And drink more water, your pee won't stink at all hardly. DLK

That sucks! you could try the urine clean-up products for pet stains. They work, even for cat piss, and that is just about the most pungent. And drink more water, your pee won't stink at all hardly. DLK

Ya, I know. I was a total dumb ass. It's just that when I have 10 different things on my mind, i just forgot. However, something is different about the diaper thing with her, I think everything will be ok. Oh ya, you are absolutely right from a cleaniness viewpoint, at least it was wrapped up con that it didn't leak. DLK

Nothing remotely creative, my initials. DLK

This morning I woke up and had some time before work as usual, I was in my diaper. Anyway, I used it and then took it off, put it on a chair, and got dressed for work. I went to work, and left the damn diaper on the chair like an asshole! My wife calls me around 4pm, says I need to be more careful. I ask why, then it hits me, the diaper I left on the chair. She told my that her sister had been there and that she didn't know if her sister had seen it. Suprisingly though my wife wasn't that mad, for those of you that have read any of my post's, you all know that my wife doesn't like diapers. Thats why it was unusual for her not to be really pissed. Who knows, maybe on some level, she liked finding it. Ya right, I'm just wishing there. please tell me what you all think, and if you have ever done something so stupid. DLK P.S. I have been thinking, and I really don't care if my sister-in-law saw my diaper. I was actually more embarassing having my wife find my wet diaper.

It's threatening to women because of sexual prejudices and possibly the fear of failure or trading a boyfriend/husband/wife relationship with a mommy/baby relationship. Many women think men who love to wear diapers (but are not incontinent) have some deep seated need that they are unable to meet. I think both you and Morv are right. Especially when you mention that women may feel threatend by it. I 100% agree with that because in my experience, women seem to be insecure. Before everybody starts bashing me about that, let me just say that I'm not trying to make a blanket statement about all women. It's just what I've had to deal with. I think that many women internalize this instead of just taking it at face value. Hell maybe more men are into being diaper lovers because our physiology naturally makes us easier to stimulate. As far as the AB thing I have no comment because I have no idea about that. DLK

I gotta agree with you somewhat. She didn't have to get mad like she did, but you could still be a little more open, especially if she's hot. I'm not trying to brag, but if I'm reading something in public, I prominitely display my wedding band. That keeps all single women away from me. DLK

middle until my younger brother died when i was 11. no abuse. Good stable family. DLK

18, the following weekend after my highschool grad. She was a 32 yr old who looked a little like Cheryl Crow. It was fun, but you know, if you loose you virginity to someone you really care about, it is much more personal. I mean I was drunk and stoned and got my brains screwed out. Like I said, it was fun, but cheap. no 21 is not old. And no, you are not being too picky. I can't stand stupid women either. DLK