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Hey Chris and everyone else. Happy whatever you celebrate. Chris, I forgot to say congrats on the Subaru. I'm a go fast kinda person, so I have a couple of cars. Daily is a Genesis G70, but also have a low k's XR6 Turbo. I hibernate over the holidays, but wish everyone the best.

I would agree. I will be ordering a box of Trest Elites when I need more. Only ordered one pack and three Megamax in my last order cos I was a little unsure. But will make sure I order large next time.

Not quite sure if I understand this correctly. In saying "size up" do you mean, the sizes are bigger or, you need to order a size bigger?

I'm used to Megamax which a sized a bit bigger. The Trest are a bit smaller, so a wee bit tight for a fat fuck like me in Medium. Having said this, overall the are brilliant. They hold a stupid amount of fluid. Read some reviews saying they ball up in the crotch when wet, but I haven't had that problem. I also mess, and haven't had any leakage problems of any sort.

Great to hear Chris. What did you buy? As for me, still struggling health wise, but I'm happy. Currently sitting here padded up in my new favourite diaper (Trest Elite) having a quiet beer watching Supercars on the Gold Coast. Good not having to get up to pee, given I pee A LOT.

Hi all I started this thread but then had a period of really poor health and disappeared. I have had contact with Chris previously, but am genuinely delighted to see others in the area and surrounds as well. I am starting to get back on my feet so, Aussiekink a meeting up of everyone would potentially interest me. I'm very much an introvert, but would be nice to meet up with likeminded people. Chris, in answer to your question. I wear every night in bed and use modern cloth with plastic pants. I use one terry insert and two bamboo and only issues I have found with them is, they are only good for so much so, if you use them overnight and then want to laze around in them in the morning, they will leak. Also, I made the mistake of ordering one with a minky outer. Absolutely useless. If, however, I intend to wear for a time (6 - 24 hours) I always fall back on my Northshore Mega Max disposables with plastic pants over the top.

Hi guys, apologies for long time since interacting, had some health issues that took a while to sort. During the period I was unwell, I began to notice something I had not been conscious of before. Whenever possible I will diaper up but, even when not diapered, I am really reticent to use the toilet. This has manifested in me going in weird and varied places. Never in public and, never somewhere that can't be cleaned up easily and hygienically but, I will go anywhere I can but the toilet. Anybody else noticed this in themselves or, am I just the weird kinky thing I think I am? ?

Fortunately I was working from home, but even I wrinkled my nose up at the wafts coming from below. Something really upset the apple cart. Very cathartic though, whatever caused it. Feel like I've lost 10 pounds ?

So, I wake up this morning with a rather upset tummy. I wear modern cloth overnight but do mess them fairly frequently, so just let it go. Big mistake, poor thing overflowed and I knew more was coming. I also have to log in to work, so I'm wondering how to manage this. Pulled out the big guns megamax disposable and popped it on. Been working all morning, attending meetings etc and shitting myself about every 30 minutes. Very convenient, and I'll leave it on until the worst has passed, then get cleaned up. Thing I'm enjoying the most is not having to worry, or organise logistics. Belly cramps, just let it go and get on with what I'm doing.

I never poop anywhere but in my diaper so it depends on the day. During the week I get up, poop while having coffee and then get showered and ready for work. On weekends, the same in that I poop while having my coffee, but then I stay in it for as long as I can until it starts leaking. I love the squish of sitting in it, and quite often masturbate so I have pee, poop and cum in my diaper.

Update - So I've now had a chance to try cloth and as most have said, I will not be going back. I did choose the fancy ones with the multiple snaps for different sizing, but I love them. They fit exceptionally well, are snug and super comfortable. Was a little concerned about how absorbent they would be but using a bamboo insert on the bottom and microfibre on top works a treat. Have just ordered two more pairs and some extra inserts so I should be set moving forward. ?

Thank you @Moochie and @square_duck. Bought some liners as well so we will see how it all goes. And yes @square_duck I can see some badges of honour in my near future ?

Anyone using reusable Diapers? I have just ordered a couple of pairs with both microfibre and bamboo inserts. I always diaper up at night cos I love not having to get outta bed to pee (older man thing ?) so thought it may save some dollars to use cloth. Having said this, I have no doubt I'll take a dump in them cos that's what I do. Very interested in others experiences if you have any. I decided to try them not only to save a bit on diapers, but also because I genuinely enjoy messing in cloth.

Thanks Elfy

I won't link it here cos it depends how you are accessing Reddit (Browser or app) Just go to Reddit and search r/abdl_irl

Found an interesting and funny abdl sub on Reddit. Full of memes related to the abdl and dl lifestyle. I've also learnt two valuable things from it. Always the bottom tapes first and, diaper sales will nearly always arise commensurate with the savings you have, i.e. when your savings are at their lowest, diapers will be on sale ? I have nothing to do with this sub and only suggest it as entertainment r/abdl_irl

Thank you all for your responses. It does mean a great deal. The reason I asked the question is that whilst this is my kink, I am not ashamed of it. It is also not something I would yell at just anybody. Conversely, if someone I feel comfortable with had an idea and asked me outright, I very much doubt I would lie. I suppose it's a bit like my sexuality. I come across as an alpha hetrosexual male but am actually bisexual. This is not hiding anything, it's just me. My family and friends who I feel comfortable with know I'm Bi and to me it's no issue, it's just part of who I am. This just feels a bit different to me. There may be some insecurity, or maybe because there still seems to be some taboo. All I can say is - again, I am very grateful for everyone's responses. Not only because you provide insight, but because of your honesty. Much love to you all.

Although I have found a lot of joy and comfort in my love for diapers, I have also been thinking about the fact that I truly have nobody in my life that I feel safe enough to share this knowledge with. I have seen posts from other members who have significant others who either know, or share in your love of diapers. Also a few who have let close friends know. I am certainly not ashamed because at the end of the day it all comes down to how I feel about myself. Am interested though how others feel about people in their life knowing about their diaper love ?

This Sunday past. I had no idea when I felt it starting just how epic it would be. Did my new normal on a weekend which is get up, wet again after wetting during the night and have coffee. Even though I was pretty wet I decided to leave my diaper on until I had pooped. When I started to feel a bit uncomfortable I stood up and just relaxed. It started slow but boy did it gain momentum. It just kept coming, nice and soft filling the back of my diaper until it was quite stretched at the back. Once I thought I had finished, I sat back down. Normally it will squish forward but this one went both ways. New experience for me feeling it squish up the back as well, was a really great feeling. About half an hour later I felt the need again. Same thing, stood up relaxed and just let it happen. When I eventually went to clean up, I couldn't get over how much poop there was. Was so impressed I took pics. It was the most glorious poop I think I've ever had.

I seem to like going potty anywhere but the toilet. If I'm not in diapers I sometimes use a camping portable toilet. With the quality of chemicals these days it doesn't get stinky and I will use it exclusively for a week. Makes me feel naughty and I love it.

Like a few other commenters here I used to poo my pants before I found diapers. Been doing it since I was a fairly young man. I suppose I have a scat fetish too cos I love watching others poop. It can be without clothes, panty pooping or diapers. All of it is sexual to me.

I too generally only do it at home. I will wear incontinence pants sometimes when I go out but like you Three Rivers, I generally only use them when needed. It's Friday night where I am. Once I logged out of work, I diapered up and have been having a few quiet beers catching up on shows I watch. Tonight is dedicated diaper night. I will change into a fresh one when I go to bed, use them during the night and finish with a big mess tomorrow. Good, relaxing start to my weekend.

Looking to see if there are any DL's around the Albury Wodonga region. I love a good chat but would be nice to chat with someone in my area.

I'm new to the site and have really enjoyed reading the different threads and comments. I've always had a fascination with poop and have been fortunate enough in my life to have had a couple of partners who were either into poop or, indulged me. I'm happily on my own now and am really enjoying the freedom it gives me. I started by occasionally pooping my pants and then progressed to incontinence pants but found those a bit limited as they don't hold enough wee, and poo tends to squish past the edges and down my legs if I sit. So I have just ordered the biggest, baddest diapers I can find. I've thought a lot about why I like wetting and messing myself, and I think I know why. I have an incredibly stressful job and at heart I'm an introvert. I can do the people thing expected of me, but I find it exhausting. Then came out current woes of the world and I'm working from home. Wearing diapers and using them is really relaxing to me. The feel of a diaper is comforting and using them relaxes me. I can be in a meeting remotely, discussing corporate policy, changes needed to our behemoth IT systems, client outcomes or, staff issues and when it all starts getting too much, I just let that big load I've been holding back ease its way out into my diaper. I love the warm mess, I love that my voice doesn't change, or my facial expression if it's a video meeting. Nobody knows but me. Maybe it's a regression thing back to when my life was simpler or, maybe it's a big f you to all the self important, narcissistic dicks in my organisation. All I know is I'm swaddled, warm and feel safe. When I feel like that, all the other stuff is immaterial. Be interested in others thoughts.