Findingacceptance

Awesome Sauce! My Little and I are about to move to Gaffney in the next week or so. Also, awesome Drizzt reference in your screen name. You sound like my kind of people.

We would love to meet you both. Send a message and see if we can set something up.

Hi all! My babygirl and I are looking for friends in the community. Ideally, we would like to meet some people or couples to hang out with. Anything from going out to eat to just letting the littles play and color together. Not looking for anything lewd, just wholesome play time and friendship. If there is anyone interested in the Upstate SC area, message me.

Hi all! My babygirl and I are looking for friends in the community. Ideally, we would like to meet some people or couples to hang out with. Anything from going out to eat to just letting the littles play and color together. Not looking for anything lewd, just wholesome play time and friendship. If there is anyone interested in the Gastonia area, message me.

Sent you a PM

I'm moving to Spartanburg in August and I'm trying to find some friends before I go. Anyone out there still?

I'll be moving to the upstate in August.

Each of us have our own journey, and I understand that. Some here are able to reconcile their Littlespace with all or many aspects of their lives, and I admire that. If im honest, maybe even jealous of it. My own experience is the feeling that wanting and pursuing Littlespace puts me at odds with God's plan for me. And I feel that way because after praying for guidance and open doors, opportunities and gateways to the community, chances at expression are denied and closed off. I have no choice, in my understanding, to think that this is God's plan, that the lifestyle is not for me. But I still desire it, and ive even thought about what I would give up for it. One thought in my heart was/is that I'd give up my faith since it was causing my heartache in the first place. Then I felt bad about that. But, understanding that we shouldn't have anything before God and im already wrong for wanting something more than my relationship with Him, could this be should this be something I must deny myself for the sake of glory, and what does it say about me that if it is, I'd rather be Little? Am I obsessing too much? Am I venturing out too far? Am I creating a false idol incapable of what I want from it?

Littles of Faith, I have a question to put before the group. Jesus said that if anyone would come after him, they should deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow him. While we might not like it, has anyone thought that maybe denying this part of ourselves is just part of our walk? This is an issue I am truly struggling with and would like to consider voices from inside the community.

I would like to clear up a couple of things. Our impasse right now is not my wanting to be an Adult Baby. I like taking care of adult babies, and that is what she objects to. I know that this is probably a semantic argument, but the truth is that this is the impasse. If she doesn't want to be my Little, then I have no choice but to give up that idea. This isn't about me wanting to wear, only. Yes, I did a stupid thing. Yes, I genuinely apologized. The initial argument was not about my texting someone, but my hiding it. I told her that I thought she didn't want anything to do with my ABDL conversations, even just talking to friends, no funny business, and so I was hiding it from her. She was upset about my hiding it, but it's not what made her consider leaving. When she said that she doesn't mind my interest in it but she can't participate, I told her that I thought I needed some participation. This was the line in the sand, so to speak. In truth, it has nothing to do with another person, but everything to do with what I perceive my needs to be right now. I feel like I need to participate in this, that I can't just keep it inside. But I have no available options to do that. I have tried to go slowly, to take baby steps so to speak, but we've come to this ultimatum where I either choose her or I choose my fetish. I am trying to make things right. I have apologized, compromised, scourged myself with emotional whips, and been upfront about choosing her over everything. But I don't know if I can keep that promise because my wife and fetish become mutually exclusive, then I don't know how to split myself like that. So now, she tells me how broken and hurt she is, how untrusting, how I'm going to have to woo her back, but I don't even know if she wants me to succeed. When we first met, I knew that she liked me, and I liked her. But now, I don't know how she feels and I'm not shown or told which makes it difficult.

I wasn't sure where else to put this. it didn't seem to fit anywhere else. Friends, I am looking for objectivity here, and I don’t want this to just become an echo chamber for what you think I want to hear. I have a dire relationship situation. I have always fantasized about ageplay, both giving and receiving so to speak, for years. I have suppressed it for years also. I’ve shared my story here other times before, but here’s a summation: when dating, wife said she would baby me. First child conceived, and now I’m surrounded by baby stuff at all times. I bring it up, and she tells me that she thought I was kidding. That first conversation happened about 6 years ago. Since then, she has tried to get into it. We played once. A couple of weeks ago, she got drunk and told me about how she’s tried so hard to be everything that I wanted and it hurt her that she couldn’t, and I decided that it wasn’t fair that she would have to work that hard at something so I decided to try and give it up. I started distancing myself from the community, deleted my podcasts, and tried to delete my FetLife, DD, and other accounts. Two weeks ago, I get a message from a user who saw my post about being a non-sexual little. They were curious and new to the whole thing, and I, being someone who has been in that situation, offered to help. We started talking more, and more, and then we started to RP. She had a boyfriend, I had a wife, but no one knew how to take care of us the way that we wanted to be. We started talking a little more seriously, and then tried to figure out way to still stay friends because we were uncomfortable with the sneaking around. This girl matched me in every way as far as our ageplay interests. We were switches. I liked to be the CG more. She liked to be Little more. We started talking about other things: big relationship things. We even spent an entire day sharing all of our dark hidden parts and everything looking for some incompatibilities. We found 3. She likes to hunt, and I can’t kill an animal. She doesn’t like country music while I like a few songs. She doesn’t put things back in their place and I do. In everything else, we clicked. It was totally different from my current relationship where i worry constantly about making her happy and i cant get into deep topics because my wife cant follow. She seriously made me consider leaving my wife. Still does. My wife found us texting and, long story short, issued the ultimatum that it’s either my fetish or it’s her, but one of them is going away. If I leave, I have no where to go. My family would disapprove of choosing ageplay over my wife. I would have to leave all vehicles and my home behind to ensure that she and my kids had a way to get back and forth and be taken care of. I’m willing to give up all of this, but I am afraid that I won’t be able to hide my unhappiness with it. Both women want me to be happy, but I don’t know how to be. More so, I’m worried that if I stay, my body will betray me in that I won’t be able to be intimate without ageplay, or at least the feelings I get from it. If we are not clicking intimately, if she is unwilling to go to counseling, if I am not able to peacefully give this all up, if I need to completely cut contact with someone who has become a close friend and confidant, what should I do? Do I leave all of this behind and fix my relationship at the expense of a part of myself, or do I leave my current life behind in favor of complete uncertainty but at least I’ll be whole. Please do not reduce this down to choosing the LIttle or my Wife. I am in pain right now, and I am looking for complete objectivity. If I’m an ass, tell me so. If I am in the wrong, let me know.

I'm all over the place. I live in Horry County but work out of Marlboro County. except right now obviously. But once this is all over, a local munch may be in order.

I dont know if anyone is on Fetlife, but I've started a group there called Myrtle Beach Littlespace. I'm wanting to create a support community here and looking for people who want to participate. I'm wanting to find people to go do some fun things with like bowling, minigolf, and also going out to eat whether it's a fast food meal or a sit-down deal.

A few weeks ago, I completely nuked my sole connection to the ABDL community. Long story short: there was a fight in my home between me and my wife concerning my behavior and I realized that I was too weak to control myself there, so, I felt that for the sake of my relationship, I completely obliterated all connection to the server. I asked to be banned. I deleted the account. I deleted the apps. And I thought everything would be fine. But it's not. In the interim, I've realized that I NEED other Littles to talk to. Not just for fun, but because I truly don't trust any friendships outside the community. I've had so many connections burn me emotionally in painful and long-standing ways. Politics has been a part of every job I've had, and the cutthroat nature does not agree with my trusting nature. I need Littles because, since I also consider myself part of the community, they are the only ones I feel I can trust because regardless of whatever differences, we still have that in common. I've been trying to find local people to speak with. I'm trying to talk in the chat rooms. But I still feel adrift and disconnected. And I don't know what to do about it. I feel like I've made a huge mistake, and I'm worried that I won't be able to find a community like that again, or if I did, would I still have the same problem: getting myself into situations with people that want more from me than what I do. I would love to have an honest non-sexual experience as an Adult Baby, or at the very least talk to people and be a part of the community that knows and understands that. Does anyone know of a non-sexual ABDL community?