RambleLamb

Well @Elfy I'm glad that you agree with us at least. And I know I'm not an admin, but if I may throw my 2 cents in to help our case:

I get Zero Tolerance. But that sorta breaks down when the content one cannot tolerate is loosely-defined. Now, you would think "sexual content involving minors" would be pretty easy to define, but apparently that's not the case if this is even being debated!

The scene was not sexual. Period. But if you try defining it as sexual simply because there was a kiss, that opens up a whole can of worms you don't wanna open! In one of my RPs I had to spank a 12-year-old girl. Is that sexual? Wouldn't any diaper change scene be considered sexual since it involves touching someone else's privates?

Of course not! But if you rule that any kiss is sexual then you must also take those other extremes as well. And I know that's not something anyone wants to do.

Again, just my 2 cents. Take it as you will.

I'm about 50/50 on it to be honest.

I've mostly just posted the "evidence" to the admin section to get other opinions I still don't know what to think.

I didn't intend to have this story be a hot button issue and I certainly don't want it to be a catalyst for actual inappropriate things to be allowed or waved by, I simply wanted to write my story true to the way it needed to be written and I did that, so whatever is decided beyond that is what it is.

For the record, I don't think this is a slippery slope issue and I don't believe that my story will be a thing that inspires people to point at it being allowed as proof that you can have sex with kids in your story, but I don't make the rules and I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. 

@Elfy How about this, I'll post it as is and tag you and if you feel it needs to be deleted then so be it, people can find my story elsewhere. 

For the record, I wholeheartedly believe that there is absolutely nothing wrong or inappropriate about the kiss and it doesn't have any sexual connotations. Does it give this girl an idea that she likes girls? Yes, but it's not as if she, in the following chapter, goes looking for another girl to make out with.

Do I disagree with you? Yes. Do I respect your ruling whatever it may be? Also, yes. Do I hope when I post it that you see it's nothing to warrant any kind of corrective action? Again, yes.

When I was a kid, I really really liked another little girl,  I was about 6.  I didn't kiss her, I never thought about it.  But what did happen, is I would feel an unbelievable tightening in my chest where I could hardly breathe when I thought about her.  I had 2 boyfriends at the time, but they were just cute, no feelings like that.

At the time, I didn't understand it.  But I never realized at that age, I liked girls alot.   Later in my teens, I had figured that part out sort of.  But it was only recently, going back in thought that I realized I had a serious crush on this little girl at that age.  No realization at all then, just what is this feeling?

I've hinted at the feeling that there is a stronger feeling that isn't understood, I use butterflies in the stomach, and that allows for us to get a sense of what's really going on, but the character doesn't have any way of knowing what these feelings mean.

The reason why this is even addressed as "being gay" is because the narrator is recounting the past and has future insight as to what these feelings eventually turn out to be. I think I handled things in a very delicate and respectful way, but we'll see what happens.

I would be glad to beta read the beginning if you'd like?

I'm very reserved when it comes to my works in progress. Part of it is the show woman in me that doesn't want too much to be revealed before the prestige, and the other part is my stubbornness when it comes to personal hurdles, I'll fall a hundred times and still refuse an offered hand.

I'll get it and it'll be good, I just need to have that aha moment.

Well, if after that 101st hurdle you change your mind I'm always right here. ?

I'm glad you're finally starting to see just how talented you are, Lamby. Of course that won't stop me from constantly reminding you. :D

Whoa there, buckaroo, I never said anything about talented, I just said I'm happy with the work I'm doing. We've got a lot of work to do before I'll see talent, but by all means, keep reminding me.

I agree. Wait a day or two. And I'm not just saying that because I'm busy tonight and couldn't read it till tomorrow anyway.

That assumes people pay attention to such things....

Is signal boosting a thing here? People sharing something to benefit a single person?

I like it, but you may have to put limitations in effect cuz I may ask for a story about what happened to the Anasazi, but realistically, I'll think on it.  

*shrug* I'm not above looking things up to win the challenge. It might make me look stupid but that's nothing new.

All suggestions are welcome.

...except fan fiction

Challenges can be made here or via PM if you prefer to keep secrets from everyone. In the case of multiple people suggesting the same/similar things then all parties will be credited.

No, we need more friends here

Don't do that Lamb.  Stay positive and keep your head up, just like you've told others here.  Whatever is up, take a breathe and come back when you want.  There's a cookie emoji at the end of the rainbow.  

Service has been restored, everyone, crisis averted. Thank you all for ignoring my request to be forgotten, I was being overly dramatic and I'm sorry for worrying you all. <3

... Nothing. 

That's cool, I can get it out of you when you're huddled in a corner trying to avoid the wrath of the beast.

Fair enough.

This goes back to what I was saying about "laziness" earlier. You taking the initiative to worldbuild when others would accept the shake and bake "there's this dimension" as a green light to just leap into suddenly crazy robot nursery with tentacle arms all over the place without even trying to explain it. I know that this dimension has all these bonkers things and rules, but what if I didn't? What if I was a first time reader of ABDL fiction and the first story I read was "Rando Girl of 'Normal' Aesthetics in the Diaper Dimension" and I started reading and it's all bleeps and bloops and nonsense because I didn't know I had to read the prologue books first. 

The DD is not Westeros or Middle Earth, but it should be treated as if it were to some extent. I would be one hundred percent more interested in DD stories if more people treated it like you did and tried to build it into a thing that existed "for real" instead of just being like "lol, it's so hot that adults are babies in comparison to these other giant adults"!

Now that my rant is done I obviously need a nap.

I'm so not content with the "shake and bake" that I started going into the tax ramifications of Little furniture in an Amazon world, ha.  I can't not think about the underpinnings and economics of a fantasy world.

And I love the fluff out of it! It's like every person in Westeros has a family crest and family history and it's so detailed and immersive but never feels excessive. Knowing what the people in the DD would do when faced with tariffs and trade embargoes on diapers and Little kibble is something I didn't know I needed in my life...

DD CSPAN confirmed?

Oh I can finally reply! Thank goodness... I'm so sorry about the delay it seems there was some kind of software error and I was locked out of all posts for almost a day...

Thank you so much for the encouragement! It means a lot. I'm honestly just pretty gutless plus I don't even see myself getting in a relationship at all... Nevertheless I'll take your words your words to heart. Thank you my friends <3

Trust me, I felt exactly the same way before I met Jaden. I felt completely undesirable. Then she reached out to me, grabbed me, and wouldn't let me go. She changed me, saved me. I'm a complete different man now than I was before I met her.

And if it can happen to me, it can happen to anybody!

Hehe I see. It is a nice story