Hey,
I've been reading this thread for a while and I've been having the same problem, except for me, it's mostly the PM's in chat. I'm not exactly sure what us girls have to do to get through to some of these guys...It drives me nuts.
One person even PM-ed me a week or so back saying "So, have you ever thought about us, you know, having fun in our diapers?" when I only talked to him casually once or twice in chat (you know who you are)...I mean, what in the world?
Because of all this crap, I've put a statement in my signature plainly stating what I consider to be unacceptable PM ettiquite, hence what not to do if you want me to talk to you, and if you disregard any of my PM-ing rules when PM-ing me, you'll get ignored. Yet people still PM.
Someone even said "I don't understand" after I told them to read my signature for my PM-ing rules. Guys, is it really that hard to just ask before PM-ing and stay away from lewd, crude, and unpleasent conversation, especially in the beginning of a private conversation? I wouldn't think so, but apparently for some it is. Please, get it through your heads. We girls want respect...not to have to deal with your horniness 24/7.
For reference, as plain as day, here is the PM ettiquite message in my signature, in case no one looks at signatures anymore...
~ Please don't PM me in chat without asking, and please don't PM me asking questions such as "A/S/L?", "Are you wet?", or rude questions such as those. I'm taken and asking me those kind of questions, as well as PM-ing me without prior notice, will get you ignored. Also, PM-ing multiple times after getting ignored by me won't get you anywhere. These guidelines apply to board PM's also. Please respect them. I'm a girl, but that doesn't mean I'm fuel for any of your desires. Follow these guidelines and you'll have a better chance of getting to make friends with me. ~
Is this clear enough? Or must I make it more simplfied?