[24/7 - toileting, toilet training and so on]

I never wanted to untrain, and also found I have less bladder anxiety because I know if I wet it's no drama,,,

My choice didn't change, but I am trying other diapers beyond Tena Silhouettes,,,

I'm still discrete, but not bothered so much about others knowing, I don't like to advertise but less uneasy about people knowing,,,

[Northshore Care Supports Autism Speaks]

8 hours ago, BabyBooBoo93 said:

Northshore responded to another user's emails and has said they are no longer supporting Autism Speaks and will do further research into good charities. I and at least one other person have directed them to the Autistic Self Advocacy Network.

Thanks for that Babyboo, boycott duly lifted,,,

[Northshore Care Supports Autism Speaks]

Autism speaks does not speak for me,,,

Northshore duly boycotted,,,

[Buying Diapers Discretely]

Go into the store with a note and ask a staff member for help in finding them, it looks like you're buying for someone else then,,,

[Do you remember the time and occasion when you told your partner?]

I claimed that I needed for medical reasons initially, but later on I disclosed that I really enjoyed it, she asked if she could "borrow" a pair of mine, I wear Tena Silhouette btw, and she loved it!, when we go out now, we are both wearing, it's kind of a bonding thing, if that makes sense,,,

[What is like sleeping in diapers]

Wearing pull-ups in bed and nothing else is very relaxing,,, 

[New Tomboy on the Scene!]

Hi Scout!, nice to see you here, dinosaur toys sound great,,,

[New here]

Hello, what a wonderful post!, so much reminds me at least of how lucky I am, I'm not offering pity to Tori, she is such a brave little girl!,,,

I would very much like to PM with you, is it ok to message you?, if not I won't be offended, you are welcome to PM me btw, I'm male, 55, in UK, DL and mostly vol IC,,, 

I'm starting to explore the world of AB,,,

[Genuine Accidents]

If I go out in the evening I usually wet myself on the walk back, don't even bother trying to hold these days,,,

There aren't any toilets available on the walk home, I pass by a couple of twittens which are fairly discreet, but just can't be bothered to hold until I get to either of them tbh,,,

[Stress and wee?]

Before I was wearing 24/7 I used to get stressed about having access to a bathroom, now I'm much more relaxed about things, because I know if I can't hold on there won't be a problem,,, I feel much less of a need to go than before I was wearing 24/7,,,

[buying diapers]

I used to write down what I wanted and asked an employee, as if I was getting them for someone else,,,

or you could buy female IC pants, staff would assume they are for someone else, nobody is that bothered anyway, easy for me to say at my age when I've given up caring what others think, I would have been nerve wracked at 18, so you're doing really well!

 

[My girlfriend is not understanding of this fetish and it kind of sucks.]

• It seems to me the lady isn't trying to stop you wearing, but doesn't want anything to do with it, just be discreet about it, erm, perhaps just keep things to yourself if that makes sense, and not mention wearing, it seems the lady feels a bit threatened by the whole idea, good luck with finding a quiet compromise, it seems she is kinda ok with putting up with it, but doesn't want to be reminded of it, hope that makes sense,,,

[How open are you about ABDL?]

2 for me also, only two friends know I wear, can't see the point of advertising my preference/need to wear, 

[Favorite thing to do in a wet/messy diaper?]

watch tv/movies, just love wetting when everything is done for the day,,,

[What's your 'diaper size'?]

Anything medium fits well, but I find it's also fun to wear "pajama pants" for age 8-15 as padding under normal briefs, I have to tear them at the hip, but the psych benefits are lovely,,,

[Favorite Disposable Diaper?]

tena for me, either silhouettes or pants plus, 

[Favorite Diaper Brand]

tena for me, you can get them anywhere in UK, I'll def look into abri now though, 

[How old were you?]

On ‎7‎/‎28‎/‎2018 at 11:24 PM, Newbee said:

so im obviously late coming to this does anybody have any ideas why now 

I was 52ish when I started wearing, although I always enjoyed wetting since I was about 12 or so, it would be fab to PM with you about discovering the joys of wearing later in life, but I'm not offended if you don't want to, I guess if you're a bit older it's easier to "get away with it",,, 

[Dealing with hair down there]

I get my entire intimate area waxed every six weeks, if you're anywhere near Brighton UK, let me know and I'll send details of my clinic,,,

[Could we, or should we, use the phrase ATDL?]

Imho, of course you can use it if you want to be more specific, AB is not really correct if you identify with being older than a baby, the more the term is used the more it becomes established vocabulary, I identify as DL/IC btw,,,

[Summer vacation plans]

I'm 24/7 so it's business as usual for me, will plan on disposal when I get there, usually tie up wet nappies in a plastic bag then tie up the binliner provided in advance of the maid arriving so they don't have to observe what I've put in it, I'd only do this with the bathroom bin though, 

 

[I'm So Mad I Could Pee My Pants!]

In UK you can get an official warning notice against uninvited callers, it's a criminal offence to ignore it,,,

As for Jehovah's Witnesses, just contact your local branch and ask them not to call, they will happily comply, and probably apologise, I know a few JWs and they are for the most part really nice people, but perhaps can be a little enthusiastic about their faith at times,,,

[Autscape 2019]

more info here   http://www.autscape.org/

[Autscape 2019]

Anyone else on here going?,,,

Might be fun to meet up,,,

[Favorite thing to do in a wet/messy diaper?]

Watching TV or surfing are the only things I enjoy when wet,