shoelessjoe

My wife is fantastic. Being able to share my secret with someone who loves me is something I worried I'd never find. If you're looking for a partner that will accept you it can seem impossible sometimes but don't give up. There are more kinky people out there than you think. That's my motivational speech for the day.

Can the official rules for being an AB/DL, Adult Baby, Infantilist or kinky incontinent person include: Though shall not write letters/emails to Pampers requesting they make adult baby diapers. Pretty Please, Joe

These were the first diapers I had the chance to steal when I was 6 or 7.

I believe that you can be in a successful relationship and still have a diaper fetish, as long as you're either attractive or have a great personality. If you're ugly and an asshole you'll probably die alone in a leaky diaper.

I'd like to take back my endorsement of The Experience Project. There are a lot of creeps on there, and that's coming from a guy that wears diapers for fun. There also doesn't seem to be any moderation, it feels like the wild west populated by a bunch of perverts. With some exceptions of course. Joe

Things got so bad when I was in school I could only afford Depends. Oh the shame.

I read that the mediums were bigger than usual so I got them instead of large. Wish I hadn't. I have a 36" waist and they are tighter than I'd like. Also no landing strip kinda sucks and it seems like the tapes are too far apart. The padding does seem very dense which is great. All in all I'll try the large next time and see if the fit is better.

I think I'd like to be around a large group of accepting people while wearing my diaper completely exposed. If you've ever gone to an event or party where you were openly dressed as a baby I'd love to hear about your experience.

Field of Dreams and Benjamin Button did it for me.

What's your experience with combos for stuffing baby diapers inside your adult diapers using Pamperchu's method? I really like the extra bulk and absorbency you get without having the gel leak out of the baby diaper. So far I've had the easiest time with a Secure Plus + Walmart's Parent's Choice diapers.

Usually I'm lucky to get two or three hours uninterrupted to wear my diapers. That's not enough time for me to get as wet as I'd like, so I'm left with no choice but to add water. It's tragic, I know.

Anyone else too busy to wet your diaper the old fashioned way? I'll usually wet once or twice and then use the spray nosel on the kitchen sink to get really wet. I'd prefer to wet myself till I'm soaked, but can't wait long enough. What's the point of wearing a diaper if it isn't soaked and droopy?

I think what you wrote is more like an idea for a poem than a poem. Try writing more about why you feel like you have to hide who you are and what scares you about society judging you. Take your time and try to share more about how you really feel. I hope that I'm trying to be encouraging comes through.

I see a lot of people ask a lot of the same things frequently on here. In my infinite wisdom I thought it would be a good idea to start an official guide to being an AB/DL. This is not the guide itself but a thread for people to add information they feel would be helpful. My contribution: 1. You are weird, but that's not a bad thing. 2. There are tens of thousands of people that are like you. 3. The best diaper is the one with the most pages in the Just Diapers section of the forum. 4. If you want to find a partner, look for someone who is very open minded sexually and let them know about your fetish as soon as you think you might have a future with them. 5. Be excellent to each other.

Where did you find that one at? It looks massive.

Nice story, you have a really interesting perspective.

300,000 would be about one out of every 1000 people in the US. I think that's reasonable.

I was going for someone past the average age of toilet training, but I guess someone that's old enough to identify themself as an AB/DL is probably better.

I've been on The Experience Project. It's not targeted towards AB/DL but I've found it works pretty well because you kind of get bleed over from the edges of other fetishes.

What are your estimates on how many AB/DL's there are in the US. Don't get hung up on the exact definition of what AB/DL means. Let's just say people over the age of 3 that either enjoy wearing diapers or being treated like a baby. My guess 150,000.

Ask and you shall receive, maybe.