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Huggybutt
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If we put it in it's most simplistic form, we are all here on DD for some type of human connection: commonalities, relationships, roleplays, acceptance, experiences, stories etc. Whatever YOUR reason I think the endgame is either to find that significant other out there or to add to the quality of your existing relationship.
What if I told you that I think a simple app could help with MOST of those two goals? Whether you admit it or not, we live in the age of the smartphone so yes there's an app for everything out there. I've come across apps that are a good starting point for what I hope this manifests to but not quite what I think we need in this community.
What is this app? Simply put, it's an interctive communication tool for you and your partner. I got this idea listening to a few podcasts this week. They talked about one trick for a long distance relationship is to have a sticker chart for good and bad behavior. Well the act of getting a sticker itself is pretty cool and possibly "little space" inducing.
One step further is a reward system for those stickers. I looked for some actual reward boards on the internet and got pretty excited about the idea of introducing this to my wife as a way to get what I want AND for her to feel spoiled and on a pedestal at the same time. I explained it to her and she was on board with it!!! I hadn't ordered a board yet because she wanted to try and make one first but all week she was giving me ⭐'s for little tasks I may or may not have been reluctant to do. She also took away "stars" for when I was a mean or complained about something. All the while my mind races on how many "stars" I had and what I could possibly use them on.
A physical board sounded very cool but wasn't too practical because I travel a lot for work and am not home a whole lot so I started researching mobile apps. Bingo! That was where the idea started to snowball. I have always struggled with communication of my needs in my relationships, how about I just type them in a list? Sounds pretty pathetic huh? So in the age where we would rather text than call, but you're still reading this right.....so I've got your attention this long. Lol
The idea is that it is custom. No matter your age,DL, AB etc. The caregiver/mommy/daddy sets up an account with administration access and sets rules and expectations (my wife likes to make sure I'm not adding extra stars), tasks or chores,rewards and point values are discussed together. The app is synced between the two phones, this was a feature I have yet to find in the apps I have tried so far (Android) which is essential. The little needs to know what their total stars are and what rewards they can redeem! For example, let's say your partner wants you to pick up the milk from the store, they can set the task up in the app with a point value and self discipline from there would take over. The reward is one star, and it takes 5 stars to earn a bubble bath drawn. Guess they better earn a few more stars huh? How about something as simple as giving your girlfriend a compliment, earns you 1 star and you are saving up to buy your first diaper? That's where the human aspect of communication plays because hopefully you have already had the tough talk about ageplay and now you just need a way to know your needs will be met in time, at her pace.
The customization is what makes this really stand out because each play partner, each dynamic in a relationship is different. If you are strictly DL it would have less AB themes and be more of a romantic tone. The app can be two-way for those that are switch.
Apps I have looked at but not test driven 100%:Starchores, our home, ireward chart (my favorite so far) an example of this app has some possible rewards I have set up.
Please comment on your suggestions and ideas, I'd love to hear them. If you have experience with creating apps, please get in touch with me! Also let me know if you would like an update on how this goes for us!
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Thanks for the heads up about Hulu. Yeah I remember that episode lol
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16 hours ago, stevewet said:
I used to deliberately wet my pants just enough to feel wet but hopefully no one noticed . I used to pee the last drop in my underpants before pulling up my shorts..
I started wetting my bed deliberately when I was about 11 or 12.
As a former late bedwetter myself, i find this interesting.
But for habits for me as a kid, I'd say not getting changed due to my morther being asleep most the day and me not really caring had a big part of it.
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21 hours ago, wetatnight said:
has anybody seen the Progressive insurance ads with and Adult baby
the tag line is act your age, get your own Insurance
Yes! And I find them very humorous but they do portray a bratty little pretty accurately.
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Our lifestyle can definitely be humbling but I think of that as a positive! We all judge at some point or another and as long as we remind ourselves "to each their own", life will be good ?
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1 hour ago, Alice said:
hey everyone I am having a problem,
Whenever my diaper or pad is a little full and I sit down it sometimes leaks at the sites because of the pressure. do you guys experience this too, and if so what precautions do you take in order to minimise leakage? do you guys have a particular way of sitting inconspicuous enough where nobody will suspect anything, yet doesn't put that much pressure on the parts which are used that the diaper will start leaking?
I'm with Stroller on this one, unless you cannonball into your seat, it sounds like a product issue. How long are you sitting before it starts to leak?
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1 hour ago, Kinky_Wheels25 said:
I’m looking to meet up with some local AB/DLs and maybe even form a sharing group that could meet and just discuss our lives in diapers together. That said, I’d rather have a genuine conversation on site before any face-to-face meeting. I also have a car, so if Westchester is not as convenient as some place else, feel free to drop a suggestion.
I'm just curious as I haven't lived in NY very long, is Westchester a town in NY or a county?
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33 minutes ago, suzuki2011 said:
anyone know any good abdl podcasts? im looking for some new stuff to listen to. and i thought there must be one out there somewhere
Only ones I know of are here: https://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?/topic/67878-great-advice-on-sexology-podcast/
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I've never met my dad and haven't seen my mom in over 13 years. Was told she had passed 6 years ago to cancer but don't know for sure.....so I guess it's complicated ?
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One of my first jobs was working at a grocery store. We had just gotten self checkout there and I wouldn't have had the courage to buy them without it.
I've been studying the incontinence section of my store when nobody was looking for months...I knew right where they were and every step it took to go get them. Finally! My last break of the evening I go get an accomplice item from aisle 4, chips! "Am I really gonna do this???" I'm saying to myself. "Now or never" as my blood pressure climbs I swing around two aisles over and grab a pack of depends tape on briefs in a green and orange package. Hauling them away like I had just caught a raccoon by the tail I double time it to the front of the store before I am noticed! Relieved to see no customers or employees in sight at the register.
I get them in the doubled up grocery bag before the upc even shows up on the register and pay with my card. One last look to see if I made it and now my anxiety turns to excitement as I head to my truck and place them in my back seat. Wow, I had the best last few hours of work I ever had. Smiling at everyone, just knowing what I had to look forward to.
On the ride home, I reached back and opened the pack to be 100% sure they were plastic backed....just like an addict testing the purity after the deal. Nowadays I just go and see Beth at the awesome local ABDL store with nowhere near as much anxiety but all the excitement ?
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Facebook knows too much already. I'd be hesitant as I only have my personal account and don't want an alias account but I do think more platforms are a good idea in general!
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I have used tinder and POF a long time ago with success from both. I honestly think that whichever platform you use, you need to prioritize what you want. If it's a serious relationship or just someone that's ok with diapers that you can be with.
Obviously if you go in search of finding someone who is into diapers, you will have a much harder time compatibility-wise.
In my personal experience, finding a wonderful person that met my basic relationship needs was first and acceptability for kink took a back burner. I was open and honest about it before the relationship got serious and she was accepting of me. I really couldn't ask for a better partner.
In closing Alex, listen to the Love in brief podcast. They have a few episodes on finding that one special person.
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I had a pack of attends that I had to get rid of so i put the remaining 8 on just to see what it was like. Just as expected, hard to walk and do a lot of other things.
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I haven't done it recently but there's just something about being in just a diaper, a t-shirt, and wearing athletic shoes that provokes little space and memories of an age when that was your outfit for the day. Anyone else feel the same way? ?? ?
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14 minutes ago, yadkinky said:
I really like the little builders diapers from tykables. They were hands down my personal favorite. The hook and loop tapes we're perfect for me, since I can't seem to get a diaper tight on the first tape. The absorbancy level was perfect for me. I wear 6 to 8 hours, so to get a full diaper feeling in the time allotted these were perfect.
The Tykable overnights are good but hold to much to get what I want out of them.
Cushies are good but I am not a big fan of the tapes, you have to be in the ballpark on the first stick, sometimes I am not great at this.
ABU is where I started and they have good dips but the plastic isn't as soft as my inner thighs like.
Anyone have any suggestions for a replacement to Little builders? I thought I read there was a level 1 replacement coming from tykables but no where to be found as of yet.
I'm in the same boat as you. I like the lil builders and until now, actually didn't even know they aren't available! Finding a replacement that works can be tough for sure. I'm sorry that I don't have any suggestions. Once I found the overnights, I stopped looking because the overnights have everything I need. Hope those don't disappear too.
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I'm very sorry for what's going on. *Big hugs to you!
Is there any way you can be there for her as an adult friend? It sounds like she is in need right now and showing your support could give you some happiness and prominent purpose through gratification. Perhaps she will see that and with time, will come back to you with open arms when the time is ready.
I wish you the best!
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5 hours ago, herb330 said:
The most annoying time is when my wife requires to stop the car at rest stops to have a diaper check. It normally happens during long car rides. She opens up the back of my diaper to check and feels the front. If it is not wet she will at least sprinkle a bir of powder in the back to keep the smell. She will also from time to time give me a baby bottle to relax during the car ride. It is usually filled with milk but sometimes just water or juice.
This sounds really annoying ?...I certainly wouldn't want any diaper checks, powder added, or bottles of something to drink. How on Earth do you survive long car rides in such loving agony? ?
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On 7/31/2018 at 8:27 PM, diaperguy said:
Who is your favorite worship artist or band? Who do you turn on when you listen to worship music?
I listen to Jesus Culture, Kim Walker, Elevation worship. If I am in a really awesome mood then its Planetshakers Newsboys or Mercyme. But for a true presence of God its mellow deep worship. Would love to hear what you listen to.
I don't consider myself religious, but I find meaning in a lot of Christian music. I just listened to over two hours of music.... Danny Gokey and Micah Tyler help me connect with my emotions in ways I never thought I would again.
This one too!!
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On 4/26/2019 at 11:08 AM, DailyDi said:
By request I have started working on an eye-friendly, darker theme. You can switch to it by clicking on "Theme" at the very bottom of the forums.
Oh God this is nice. Thanks a lot Mikey!
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Even though I won't be trying these due to the fact that regular flushable wipes work just fine and these do really nothing to enhance the "little" feeling for me, I'd say it's about time for more AB/DL targeted products.
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Very helpful at reducing the migraines! Thank you!
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9 hours ago, pullupsprincess said:
A little bit of background, I wear Pull-Ups/Goodnites/Underjams/Pampers and I enjoy messing, but as I'm sure many of you do, I hate the cleanup.
So today I'm just hanging out wetting my diapers, and I decided to put a tampon right below my anus (not inside it, I've done that before and don't recommend it) inside the diaper. It's the highest absorbency (ultra) and Playtex brand which is the most absorbent brand and expands the most. And obviously continued wetting once it was there.
The feeling is quite enjoyable to me... It feels like I messed. But I won't have to clean up! Plus the tampon doesn't feel "dry" when it's wet like the diaper does. And it adds to the overall capacity of what I'm wearing. I plan on experimenting more (without ever inserting one where it doesn't belong again) like with positioning them and trying more than one.
Anyway I just thought I'd share, first post on here, but I searched the subject and nobody seems to have posted about it before. Hope you enjoy as much as I am currently. It might not be as enjoyable if you're not wearing "kid" diapers just because they're so tight.
Welcome and thanks for posting your first post. I 100% agree with you. Just something being there triggers a "little" feeling. I've used foam objects before, like a mini sponge football that would retain water just so I can get that little bump in the rump to go right where it needs to be. Good times. Not to mention being plugged for most of us does give the feeling you've messed or are about to.
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36 minutes ago, lil_j said:
Love in brief, Crinkle cast, big little, and Dream a little are all fantastic. I am very impressed with how honest each episode for all of those shows are. Very much feels like you are sitting in the room with them having intimate discussions. Love love love them. They make commutes tolerable
Thanks for sharing! I didn't know that there were Soo many.
And you get a ⭐!
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This is the one that we set up last night to try. I like that it has the ability for me to give tasks to her. I'm not a big fan of the layout and color scheme bit maybe it will work just fine.