If you wet in your sleep you can't help it either. I hate secrets they are way to hard to keep. When I was younger everyone knew I wet the bed growing up. My sister and the mothers mafia made sure of that . When my bedwetting came back my wife told our close friends and relatives. I had to tell a close friend a few years back when we travelled the four corners together as we shared a room. He wasn't the slightest bit phased. His reaction was simply "Well you always pissed your bed every night when we were teenagers it wouldn't have surprised me if you always have."