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rubbersheetmike
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On 3/12/2024 at 3:48 AM, nappyboymids said:
This article in a UK paper has some ideas. Pity they didn't suggest going back into nappies and enjoying a good night's bedwetting ...
I read the article. I suffer from 'intermittent' nocturia. It's a hassle and I'd rather not have to wake up during the night to pee. I've learned some of the techniques to deal with it and especially not to drink liquids after about 7 pm. It's a bit like going back to my younger years when my mom would tell me not to drink anything after dinner or I'd wet the bed but the advice works for nocturia as well.
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On 3/11/2024 at 2:15 PM, WBxx said:
It was/is exactly the same for me. My first love was the rubber sheet. But my now smooth crinkly vinyl protective sheet is winning me over.
I had a rubber sheet on my bed until I was 17. Fond memories for sure.
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On 2/15/2024 at 6:24 AM, stevewet said:
11 years now since my bedwetting came back.
For me it started again about 15 years ago but its off and on. Nothing for days sometimes and then back again.
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On 1/11/2024 at 4:23 PM, ken2988 said:
That was very similar for me. She made sure she showed her friends the wet sheets whenever she had the chance. She would also come into my room with her friends when I was still sleeping or in bed and point out that I was wet.
My mom first just let me wet the bed and would wash the sheets (rubber sheet over the mattress), but in the last 2 years of my wetting the bed she got a job and started to put me into diapers because she didn't have the time to wash my sheets. Being put into diapers after dinner really sucked since I was in the diapers for a few hours before bed time, and my sister was really good at pointing out to her friends that I was wearing diapers.
Why were you put in diapers hours before bedtime? I grew up in a big family where there were four bedwetters including me. One of my sisters who didnt wet the bed used to be very vocal about my and my older brother's bedwetting with her friends and others in the neighborhood. And back then moms including mine often talked about it with other moms in the neighborhood so I was aware of several other bedwetters just by overhearing my mom talk on the phone. And back then few used diapers for overage bedwetting and a lot of people in my area didnt have automatic washers and dryers so I could tell where wetters lived just by driving around on my bike and looking at the laundry on the clotheslines.
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On 12/14/2023 at 8:01 AM, bluediaperboy said:
Not only have I done it, myself and several friends wore diapers to a bar in Seattle multiple times. It was a gay bar that was fetish friedly and would have pup, ab/dl, and bondage events every month.
I've been at fetish events at gay bars, mainly for watersports or s&m, and you can usually get away with it then.
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On 12/30/2023 at 4:57 PM, Spanky said:
The belt definitely gets the job done.
I got the belt a few times from my father in my teens. It certainly gets the message across.
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On 9/6/2023 at 1:41 AM, zzyzx said:
@stevewet: I'll be hard pressed at the moment to pull out the statistics to back up what I'm going to say.
Back when occasional secondary nocturnal hit me the TriState (NY area) incontinence resource site had some data on this, including a graph about incontinence and age (so not specifically bed-wetting in that graph). The low point in the graph was around 18-20 years old, and a large part bed-wetters that never dried up (or were secondary during youth). Site has been offline for years, and I don't remember enough of the URL to find it in the Way Back (Internet Archive) machine.
In my reviews, there are two articles that my mind held onto. One was the report from Israel where everyone is required to provide service to the country, typically 18 to early 20's. And the bed-wetting numbers for them were around 2% (and not specified more accurately). Given a 2 to 1 male vs female ration that is typically found for this, that would mean about 3% of the males were in that category (or take it at the 2% for overall). The second article is one one out of Asia, I believe Singapore, and listed it at 2.3%. This was the first one I found listing it above 2%, and the type of study was such that the number was probably "under reported". I think the report from Israel was fairly accurate number. I don't know if / what options some one that is a citizen of the country has as options that could have kept them from becoming part of the statistics of that report (for when it was done). I believe both of these reports are over two decades old. Don't remember if I managed to find these via research at a local university's hospital library where I was able to perform online (keyword type) search the available medical literature and then bring up the specific papers to review.
And the low point is around 18 or so years old.... Then incontinence issues start increasing again. First for women (child birth impacts?) and later for men (prostate impacts?).
I think the Israeli stats are probably the most accurate because it's my understanding based on what a guy who lived there one time told me that almost everybody except for those with specific religious exemptions has to register for military service. That gives them a pretty good sample group. As for the 18 to 20 "low point" my guess is that a lot of overage bedwetters get their wetting under control by their mid to late teens are probably less diligent about it when they move out on their own. I had a rubber sheet on my bed until I was 17, although the my frequent bedwetting decreased in my early teens. When I finished school and moved away from home at 19 (I failed a grade so spent an extra year in high school) and started working in construction I also started going out drinking a lot and pretty quickly wrecked a mattress. Then I started using a vinyl mattress cover. I stopped drinking in my 20s mainly because it made it easier on relationships. But the bedwetting started again a couple decades later.
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Most of us who have OAB didnt and wouldn't choose it. And nighttime symptoms which is called nocturia and wakes you up three or four times to go to the bathroom even when you dont really have to go is a real drag because it reduces the amount of sleep you get and you feel constantly tired. During the day I can no longer fully control my bladder and that leads to being 'wet down there' more often than you probably want to be. When I go out anywhere nowdays I pretty much have to wear daytime pullups. Hey, Ive had a pee fetish since puberty. But I like the flow to be on my terms and these days thats not always the case.
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On 12/24/2023 at 5:56 PM, sjaeger said:
1200ml+
Wow, that's a lot of pee! More than a litre. I think the most my bladder can hold is maybe 1/4 of that at best and usually I feel like I have to go before my bladder is full. Thats one of the disadvantages of ageing.
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I use them for peeing mainly so I don't have to get up at night because I have serious mobility problems. I can wear a wet diaper for quite a while but can't wear for long if I dump into a diaper. Even when I'm hospitalized I make the effort to get up and go to the toilet for No. 2.
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8 minutes ago, WBxx said:
Curious, when responsible for your own laundry did you have to wash your sheets every time you wet? Ask because once I got a place of my own I often wet multiple times before cleaning up. Strange as it sounds, I enjoyed (still do) sleeping in pee stained sheets.
When I was living at home I had to wash my bedding and pjs every time I wet the bed. The only thing I'd get in trouble for was not putting them in the washing machine in the morning. My mother would later transfer them to the dryer. Once I got a place of my own I was much less disciplined about it. My first place I got when I was 19 was a small furnished apartment. I didn't take my rubber sheet from home but should have. I ruined the double bed mattress in a few months. I used plastic garbage bags but should have gone out and bought a waterproof mattress cover. Eventually my landlady who was an older Eastern European lady replaced the mattress and bought a fitted waterproof cover that she put on the mattress right after it was delivered and set up. She never said another word about it to me.
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On 10/6/2023 at 3:05 PM, chomper said:
For me, Incontinence desires came much later. I was first drawn to diapers and the idea of wetting them in my early teen years. It was only as an adult when I had the resources/privacy to actually start wearing them when I think my desires to be incontinent started forming.
My guess is that your fetish started forming in your early teens and that you only acted on them when you had the resources and privacy later on. I acted on my fetish earlier by continuing to wet the bed during and after puberty even when I was usually waking up dry more often by then. But I didnt use diapers for it until several years later when I incorporated them into my fetish.
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On 11/6/2023 at 10:34 PM, Drownedinp said:
I wasn't a bedwetter growing up, my next door neighbor had a son my age and a daughter 1 years younger. About half a block away there were 2 brothers, one about 3 years older, than us the other was my age. That wet his bed Next door to them there was a sister of a friend a few years older than us that wet her bed. That was 5 on our block that were bedwetters. Since then I had a friend that was a fostor kid, that had a younger fos tor brother that wet his bed. I worked with a lady that admitted that she had wet her bed until almost 18 years old. I wonder how many people I have known were bedwetters growing up.
We're fairly close in age so probably had much the same experiences. Back a few decades ago it was harder to hide bedwetting. There were few if any disposable products (that we knew of anyway) and I grew up in a fairly poor area so a lot of the wet bedding and pjs were just hung out on clotheslines for anybody to see. One of my more vivid memories was having to pick up a box of used clothes from a neighbors place that my mother was going to take to a church rummage sale. The neighbor's husband had died about a year earlier and she had two sons, one, 'Matt', a senior at my high school who I think was 16 and a couple years older than I was and the other who'd entered the military after he graduated at the end of the previous school year. When I got to the house I called through the screen door and Mrs. G., shouted from upstairs telling me to come in and that she'd be down in a minute. I was impatient so I bounded up the stairs and ran into a room with the door open at the top of the stairs. There were football and other sports posters on the walls so I figured it was Matt's room. But what caught my attention was the heavily peed single bed just to the left of the open door. I also noted the crumpled wet pjs that were partially pushed under the side of the bed on the tile floor and the folded clean bedding and pjs that had been neatly placed on the desk to the right of the door. When I looked at the wet bed the outline of the vinyl or rubber mattress protector was pretty obvious. The neatness of the otherwise wet bed was also interesting. The wet bedsheet was barely wrinkled, lying almost completely flat on top of the mattress cover which made me think Matt had to be a heavy sleeper who seldom moved in his sleep. When I heard Mrs. G. come out of a different bedroom I quickly walked back into the hallway and I think startled her. She told me the box for the rummage sale was in the kitchen so I followed her downstairs to get it. But whenever I saw Matt after that the first thing that came to mind was my discovery on that warm spring morning and I always got the feeling that he knew that I knew.
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5 hours ago, TellMeAStory said:
Like anything when it comes to kids, nothing is a straight solution for all. From what you're saying, I think there was more to it than that, but your parents were trying. What I am saying is that some parents let kids do whatever they want, and then they're surprised or punish the kid when they wet the bed. Sometimes, kids don't know that drinking lots of fluids before bed is a bad idea.
I suspect 'better safe than sorry' is a good approach most of the time. My parents imposed the no liquids after dinner and 4 am waking routines as a response to overage bedwetting that wasnt controlled. They tried other things as well including spanking that didn't work. Eventually, because there was already protection on our mattresses we just had to do our own laundry in the morning once we were old enough to do it which was around 12 or 13. I think that taking reasonable precautions like limiting liquids after dinner in addition to using disposable overnight products is probably the best approach.
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7 hours ago, zzyzx said:
@rubbersheetmike: If you haven't yet, get your prostate (size) checked.... Probably along with your PSA (and possible Free PSA) number(s).
Thanks. I had it checked. The problem turns out to be a rare muscle disorder that affects many of my other muscles as well including reducing my mobility. My muscles are spastic and contract and release on their own. At first they thought it was MS or palsy but eventually they found out its a rare gene condition. I take a powerful med to counteract it but its not entirely effective.
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On 11/28/2023 at 11:05 PM, foreverdl said:
I have a hard time peeing in any restroom even at home. It has has gotten worse with age in the past 5 years . I just have learned to make sure I have one of my nite rated pull-up on most every day, and carrying extra diapers. I am going the way I want as to peeing in my diaper when my inside is ready, and I don't have any notice of it, I just have to try to regulate the flow,,,,,, so I don't have a flood.. So I do say I have had shy bladder all of my life , as even yrs ago I would do my best to wait till I got home to pee. But back then I could hold my pee....
For many mean the older we get the harder it is to have a full stream pee. And when I go I don't fully empty my bladder. I've been diagnosed with an underlying muscle condition thats probably the cause. Sometimes I get up two or three times during the night and even after trying to go I still feel like I have to go which is really irritating. I go back to bed and pee in my sleep sometimes.
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On 10/4/2023 at 2:23 PM, babykeiff said:
That question is discriminatory and totally disrespectful to all people in the human race.
I only asked the question because I recall that when I was young other young males who found out about my bedwetting sometimes called me gay usually using some of the more derogatory terms for it. And then later when I was older and wet the bed after drinking heavily somebody again asked me about it. I actually considered myself bisexual and was taken aback by the question. As I say in my original post, I don't think there's an actual connection but it seems odd that others sometimes seem to associate the two. Personally, I don't think either bedwetting or being gay/bisexual is bad or weak.
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On 11/1/2023 at 9:56 PM, foreverdl said:
I started this, but I can't believe there's not anyone here that will enjoy the pee plastic humping , mattress of any kind...
We've messaged before. I'm a pee play fan as well. A lot of people on here though are more into diaper and age play. I have more of a pee fetish than either a DL or AB fetish although I do like diaper play sometimes. I've kept a fitted vinyl cover on my mattress for over two decades. I change it every couple years to make sure it's fresh. It gets lot of use. These days it seems I have a difficult time getting aroused without pee play of some kind being involved.
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On 9/2/2022 at 8:24 PM, Ralph said:
Cant believe you never heard of spanking paddle .my mom had one forever
Different implements are popular or common in different places. My folks used the back of a hairbrush or when I got older the belt administered in both cases to the backside. At school in Canada we got the strap on the hands instead of the paddle.
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On 9/18/2021 at 10:37 AM, WBxx said:
Parents punish for bedwetting because they think the child is doing it on purpose or at the very least not doing their best to stop. It’s no different than your pants wetting.
The big difference in how this was treated is probably related to age. Those of us who grew up in the 50s, 60s or earlier 70s dealt with a different view of bedwetting. My parents thought of overage bed and pants wetting as a discipline issue. Today that wouldn't be very common I suspect.
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Bare bottom spankings for wetting has always seemed to me to be a bit naughtier. Especially with the back of a hairbrush.
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This happened to me when I was 14 after I begged my mom not to tick the "bedwetter" box when filling out the application. The fourth night into my first week I completely soaked my pjs and sleeping bag and right through the thin mattress on the wood cot. The story ended fairly well but I'd like to hear others role play what they think could or should happen in such a situation.
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An interesting start but you need to fill in a few details to get this going.
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Better to wear and wet a diaper than to get a fine for public urination. I got fined for it about a decade ago. When 'caught short' and not wearing a diaper I have since then peed in my pants.
Is this real Bedwetting?
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I don't think your offending anybody on here. We all deal with the same issues. It looks like you were a bedwetter into puberty and in my opinion and my own experience you could have developed an interest in it back then thats continued since then. Even when my bedwetting pretty much ended by the time I turned 13 and I only had a few real accidents after that I had a psychologic need to keep the rubber sheet on my bed which I did until I was 17. I used to wet the bed on purpose sometimes to show I still needed protection on the bed. My interest in it continued during my life. So dont worry about it. If your still wetting the bed in your sleep there are ways to deal with it, including diapers. If you have an accident in your pjs and sheets it's just more laundry to do. Just keep protection on your mattress because they are expensive to replace.