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On 4/14/2024 at 11:59 AM, ValentinesStuff said:
I was going to say not to this, then I thought about it and I really couldn't say either way. If it hasn't swapped over to more in diapers than not, it will soon.
I wore diapers for the first four years of my life, and a little bit into the fifth year. I went all the way to 24 before I ever wore another one, and then only sporadically for the next twenty years. That's a lot of years of wearing underwear in public.
For the last 10 years, I'd would say I've worn diapers in public far more than underwear (although I do wear boxers over my diaper).
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Emma has me fascinated as a character. She presents as an absolute miserable self-absorbed young teen, but she let Hannah join them, she tried to remind Hannah about her potty watch, and she gave Hannah her water bottle. She is way more complex than simple than a 12-year-old who is hanging out with a same-age cousin who is 'special'. Remember- she doesn't know what Maddy is thinking, and she has keep up appearances.
Hannah reminds me of student we had in the FLS class (highest level of mod/severe class. We had evacuation drill, and we were supposed to line up on football field based on our class. One of us didn't pay attention to where we supposed to line up on the football field, the other lost her class but recognized me a responsible adult. she found me, and never left my side (even if I didn't know WTF I was doing). I choose to stay where I was and let her class find us. She's has 2010 hardware, and trying operate Windows 11, doing the best she can.
PS- your genius of character development is letting Hannah school the two middle school soccer stars.
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1 hour ago, MegaChar said:
Interestingly, they seem to be the ones who do all the talking and when someone else has a different opinion those folks get shut up. Humans are freaking hard to understand.
You mean like you are doing all the talking when somebody has a different opinion than you.
FTR- we don't know if she is wearing diapers (I don't see it). We do know that Greta is very serious about climate change and started at a relatively young age. It's just my opinion, but I think getting all twisted and horrible over somebody who expressing concern for climate change is pretty stupid. The reality is, whether you're willing to admit it, is that we aren't doing enough to combat climate change. It's manmade, even if that fact upsets people.
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For somebody who people accuse of being an attention whore- she is does a great job getting their panties in twist. People making those type of disgusting comments should be embarrassed for yourself.
I don't think there is anything diaper-related to in the picture, and it's become an outlet for people to behave like immature kids who need a time-out.
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Emma is not a very nice person. That typical for kids in middle school, they are awful people. They are mean, self-centered, narcistic monsters (a bit like politicians).
When I was teaching middle school, I heard a theory that middle school is like another version of the terrible twos. They are ready to take on the world, but still think they are the center of the universe. FTR- by 10th grade- kids stop being mean- they are just stupid.
I think you've shared that you're writing Maddy as a bit on the spectrum. She doesn't appear to be neuro-typical, but after 23 years in biz- I'm not sure what neuro-typical means. It just some students less typical than others.
Based on how you've written her, I don't think she would have an IEP, but she is not like Sarah (AMR) either. She strikes me as a C+/B- student. FTR- that was me. I got an A in Geography (I'm a bit of savant) the 1st quarter, and my dad said "why don't do that all the time?" I made sure not to make that mistake again. I was OK C's, My dad wanted B's. I shot for a B, but aimed low. By my senior year- my aim was really good. I had that C+ dialed in.
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I don't see it.
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22 hours ago, Cute_Kitten said:
Lady is way over reacting IMO. As long as the ABDL event is kept seperate from the kid playtime I don't see a problem. And the article made it clear it was kept seperate. 🤷♀️
From the lady's viewpoint. I'm not shaming their kink, but something that happened when I wasn't there and know nothing about disgusts me. I'm almost certain children do far worse things with those ball than the adults will. Very few would put those balls in their mouth, but little kids might.
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On 3/30/2024 at 5:59 PM, ValentinesStuff said:
They were advertising playing on the front porch and in the yard, walking trails in the adjacent forest, access to a nearby beach, shopping, and trips to that local park as things to do. While inside might have been private, at lot of the activities were not.
In that case, I agree. If it is visible in public, then it is not private.
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14 hours ago, horrorfan said:
From what I saw poking around online, it looks like that spa was shut down or will be.
Keep your clothes on in public, dress normally in public, don't draw unsolicited attention (bad publicity is bad), and don't give people reasons to be wary of us. Acceptance is earned, not a right.
AFAIK, it was in private. It's a spa, which is private.
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I have a sense that Maddy wetting the bed after taking the pills will give it away that she is doing it on purpose. I'm not 100% certain, but I think those pills suppress the function of the kidney so that you can't produce as urine overnight. It's a powerful drug. I think Maddy's hopes of getting put in Pull-ups are looking bleak.
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The parents strike me as one of those who will do anything to avoid going to d-word. Sarah's mother would have put Maddy in diapers by now, but Maddy's parents aren't going for it.
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Maddy had an interesting realization about peeing her pants.
BTW- why haven't her parents contacted a doctor yet? I mean a sudden change is not normal.
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3 hours ago, ~Brian~ said:
I Second what @spark says! I am disabled, and through school, I had an IEP that basically laid out things that I was supposed to do, and it also laid out what the school was to do to help me succeed. They would always have us use "passes" to go places, and that also means when you use the bathroom. They would INSIST that the pass be returned by the person who used the pass last, and we used to get in trouble if we went without that stupid bathroom pass.
I also agree that students are usually on the run from about 5AM in the morning until maybe 10PM at night. Throughout the day, they have to get ready for school, and try to eat something, and then go through 7 HOURS or more of school, then do work or practice, then homework, and then it repeats. You basically are busy from early morning to late night, and that is a challenge in and of itself. Most students that attend school want to follow the rules, and they want to be able to do the things that their peers do, like their peers do it, but sometimes that is not possible: because of the limitations they face, and even with those limitations, I try to do what i CAN do, and NOT worry about what I CAN'T do: The problem I had in school was that I was WAY behind because of having to understand things that the same pace as my peers, and most times I was trying to make my mark on the wall, but some fool would ERASE the mark, and that made me have to redo and relearn everything at least twice. It is hard work to get through the school day, but even harder when you have to do things over and over, or when you just don't get it, and you lose your cool: I've done it myself, and I can tell you it is awful to have that happen, and have people laugh because you don't understand, or THEY don't understand why you don't understand. That's what makes school harder for those who have challenges: but, you learn ways to cope, and I am very fortunate to have friends that helped me, and I am grateful for that
As @sparksays, there is not enough time between classes to be able to even GET to the next class, let alone the time to be able to use the bathroom. I figure if a kid is not responsible enough to be able to move about the building and USE the facilities or be TRUSTED that he will be where he is supposed to be when he is IN the building, than he should have to deal with the consequences of those misdeeds. This should NOT take rights away from students to use the restrooms or any other place in the school. Appropriate sanctions can be fashioned so that you are NOT taking rights away - Everyone needs the bathroom. and as spark says, he will go to the restroom for a breather, and it does NOT matter whether you are Students, Staff, or Faculty: They all need the bathroom!
What they should not do is to control when a kid can use the bathroom. Schools that would do things like putting up locking gates, or anything placed there to stop the use of that bathroom are, in my mind, VIOLATING the Law! You cannot deny children (or adults) the right to the bathroom, and you cannot ignore when someone needs the bathroom when you are teaching: The ADA protects the disabled, and I am quite sure that in America, NO ONE can do this to a student. Also, being a former IEP student, I know that you basically can add/change/delete things to your IEP after a meeting with those on your team, and your parents and teachers.
I am not sure what other countries laws and rules and regulations say, but I would LOVE to take these rule making people, and MAKE THEM have to do a whole day without using the bathroom once. I'd go one better to have them use a wheelchair like I do, and live a month in it, and use the bathroom with aides and help, and/or use diapers during that month: IF these rule makers could NOT use the bathroom at times it may be needed, and they were inconvenienced because they had to use the bathroom and couldn't and used a diaper instead, they'd understand that you CANNOT deny that we have to use the bathroom. I taught that lesson to a couple friends when I had to be in a wheelchair, and they were saying how "cool it was to be able to ride in a chair, and all this....." I reminded them that I have friends that have to use chairs, and they need assistance in bathing/toileting/dressing,etc. When I said that they wore diapers, they QUICKLY change their tune, and they then understood that others have challenges too.
My Point: when you are disabled, and have mobility challenges, you have to do things with your classmate and friends: When you have to worry about a stupid PASS to return BEFORE you can use the bathroom, it adds an UNNECESSARY step to the process. It became a problem when I had to RUN to the bathroom many times WITHOUT the pass, and then would get PUNISHED for doing it, because I was expected to HOLD it, and that was a problem a few times: I wet myself a couple times in school BECAUSE of these insane rules, and the school was MAD, but I TOLD them that "When I SAY I have to GO, I MEAN I have to GO!" I had to get my case manager, my teachers and support staff to listen to me and my MOM who said EXACTLY what I said, and I actually had to have it WRITTEN into my IEP that I could go to the bathroom when I NEEDED to go, without fear of punishment, without the pass, and without question.
I already understood that I had a responsibility to myself, and I was NOT gonna deal with a bunch of foolish idiots that thought I was lying or trying to get away with something. With the help of the IEP Team, they "educated" my teachers that a pass is NOT always required, and that sometimes, rules like this can and should be modified or not enforced. Me wetting OR messing myself in school is and was embarrassing, and it takes time away from me being able to get stuff done, and so, I am glad that when I was RIGHT, I pushed it, so that I had what I need.
The idea here is NOT really to start issuing diapers to those who don't need them BUT for this ridiculous rule that makes bathroom usage and availability at the discretion and whim of the administration. I say that this is WRONG and is a violation of rights! Who the hell make rules like this?
Kids do what kids do: They will do things that are illegal or things that peers push them to do, they will do things that are good, they may do things that are wrong, but if they have an appropriate role model, they usually do OK. You also have to use your HEAD: If you know what is RIGHT and what is WRONG, you do your best to stay clear of those issues, and you always TRY to help others steer clear of them as well. I'm not saying that all kids are troublemakers, but the vast majority of them are good kids, do their best in school, and they follow the rules, and are role models for others to look up to. I had a few friends that I looked up to, and i still do that today - we all have challenges and I have had mine too, and I have helped many work through them, but I always knew that my friends always had my back
Brian
I have a few students who have bathroom privileges written into their IEP, and for the most part it not a problem. The good ones will usually tell me why they took a long time, and some of them just need a break.
We're not supposed to let more than one kid out at a time. My classes are so small that it shouldn't be a problem, but it does happen. I once had a girl ask me to use the bathroom, but I told her wait because one kid already out. The kid who was away got lost coming back to my class and was out for at 15 minutes (it's a big campus). In case you wondering, getting lost is a euphemism I use when a student goes galivanting around the campus. To be honest, that kid being out of the classroom was perfectly fine with me because I didn't have to deal with him for those 15 minutes. My inner clock told me to let the girl go to the bathroom, and she went, came back, and asked me if she could wait in my room for the first part of lunch because her mom was going to pick her up. I didn't ask what happened because it's none of my business, but whatever it was- I don't want it to happen on my watch.
It didn't happen in my class, but one of my SPED colleagues (SPED have the best stories) had a student away for 40 minutes. He came back with Chipotle and then got upset because he wasn't allowed to eat in class. FTR- I don't know how he made it to Chipotle, got his food, and made it back to class by the end of the period. If you could do that, why did he choose Chipotle?
Here is the thing: there are natural consequence for missing 1/2 of a class, and if you constantly do stuff like that and still do well in class, we're wasting their time. I get the idea that some kids don't care about the consequences, but if they don't care about the consequences, they don't care about school. I can't make them care about school. I can help them care, but not if the environment is so toxic that it looks like a prison. Sadly, some of those kids will get that eventually, but that doesn't mean we have to do it for everybody.
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14 hours ago, Little BabyDoll Christine said:
I get the "why". By age 8, you should be able to hold it for a full period if nothing is wrong. Also, kids can find a way to use such a break for making trouble and it is a good idea to learn to hold it. However there may be times when you just gotta go and most kids, at least when I was in grade school, did not abuse the practice but schools are now required to accept some pretty crazy disruptive kids. Also, maybe if parents did their job this would not be happening. Even in high school I had to VERY occasionally hit the head during a class. There are two sides to every story unless you are dealing with a self-absorbed rotter. Then too, back in '62, we did not have drug deals going down in the john, let alone in middle school. Smoking in the boys' room meant Windstons, Marlboro or Pall Mall; not blunts
Here is the problem with that attitude: there are a lot of kids in a high school. The high school I teach at has almost 3000 students, and kids don't have enough time to use the bathroom during passing period. Especially if there are a lot of students trying to use the bathroom at the same. Ok, some kids abuse the privilege, but I'll let you in on a little secret. I frequently head to bathroom when we have a professional development, and it's not always that I need to use the bathroom. I do it because I need to get up and stretch, and need a short break from the boring stupid stuff that they are trying to teach me. I'm an adult and professional learner, so I shouldn't expect my students to do better me.
FTR, students are no worse today than they were when I was in high school. They less self-reliant, which is because we don't foster independence in our students anymore, but kids did bad stuff in the bathrooms when I was kid and they still do.
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3 minutes ago, littlebopeeper said:
You have managed this issue very well in your own work, but there are others writing here that do not measure up to your standards.
That is always a delicate line when writing stories, especially with a kink genre. The best thing for an author to do in that case is to ignore the 'suggestions' and write the story that they intended. The fortunate thing is that if the story goes to far, but stays within the guidelines of the board is to just stop reading the story. This isn't HS, so nobody is making you read a story that you don't want to read. HS teachers are the worst😁
For me, I start losing interest in a story when the protagonist is regressed to infancy, or even pre-toddler stage. I don't mind if the character is temporarily regressed to an infantile stage, but not if they are permanent
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11 minutes ago, ValentinesStuff said:
I've been doing this for years, I started because old diapers couldn't handle a fast complete bladder emptying. So to cut down on leaks I peed slowly and more often.
The only changes I've noticed are a full bladder is very uncomfortable, it's very uncomfortable to try and pee fast, and it takes forever to fully empty my bladder and I don't often do it.
That's what I've been doing for years as well. I've noticed that even when I do use the toilet (which I do when I need to get longer in my diaper and can't change), my stream is weak and short. Occasionally I get a strong void, but it usually just a weak void.
At first I tried to wait and let myself pee my pants naturally, but that I found that it was harder to go with a very full bladder. I then decided to put a timer and pee every 15 minutes. Eventually I was so used to peeing in a diaper that I didn't think about it. It's the way that diapers are designed.
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I have a somewhat different situation with a story that I started but put on a long-term hiatus. I still plan on coming back to the story, but I've got other things to write.
Here is the case: @MinnesotaWriter started a story called "The Girl Who Wanted Diapers". It was abandoned, and I started a story called "The Boy Who Wanted Diapers". There were very few similarities in the stories, but the titles were similar because it is a good title. I abandoned it, and MW resurrected his title with a different story. If I start to rebuild my story, I'm going to need a new title. PS- I suck at titles.
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On 3/6/2024 at 12:40 AM, SpectrumDiaperBoy said:
You're absolutely right, most people are far too absorbed in themselves to care what kind of undies someone else is wearing. Most of the time they're busy staring in to the nightmare rectangle
It is also true that most people don't care enough to pay attention to stuff like that.
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On 3/14/2024 at 4:17 AM, AbabeBill said:
It’s too bad about her MS. But she has guts, not easy to talk about it, and to make light of her having/needing to wear diapers is brave. No one would have talked about that just a few years ago. I’m sure, it helps others to more normalize having to wear diapers.
I knew about her MS, but I didn't know how it progressed.
I firmly believe that celebrities have a right to privacy. However, I think MS is progressive, and it's hard for a public personality to hide the symptoms. I'm sure there is a reason that she chose to share her diagnosis. I appreciate how she chose to share this because it wasn't necessary. Nobody would ever know that she wears a diaper, but the way that she shared it will likely help a lot of people accept their condition and deal with it positively.
Maybe it's just me, but she feels too young to be dealing with that. She was the dumb pretty girl Kelly Bundy when I started college. BTW- I remember her making fun of Bud for bedwetting and wearing diapers a whole bunch in the early years.
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Maddy is gutsy. She has a good thing going with Grace, but snooping around her room is a good way to find your persona non-grata with her older sister. I'm wondering if she will work up the courage to tell somebody. I never did, so I don't think. But I never faked wetting the bed either, although I admit I considered doing it.
I didn't notice the ADD/Autism tendencies in Grace. She seems a bit aloof and obsessed with getting Pull-ups, but that's not unusual for me to see in students. But, my students are with me for a reason. She strikes me more on the ADD level, especially girls. FTR- and this is not true with every case, girls with ADD don't tend to be rambunctious, but they literally can not shut up. They talk all the time, usually very fast, about whatever is in their brain. I've noticed this is especially true when kids are nearing puberty. Maddy also seems to be immature for her age. I call it being a 12-year-old in fifteen-year-old body. Maddy seems to be like a nine-year-old in a 12-year-old body.
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21 hours ago, JustaFoxGirl said:
I can only imagine what her plan is, but it's nice to see the family being so supportive for what they think is a real issue.
I think she might give away her plan if she does it every night, but she is going to need to learn how to pee on command
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Her secret is no longer a secret
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On 8/27/2022 at 8:14 AM, safeandhappy said:
I managed to find some clips and this film is amazing. The cinematography and acting are superb. Ada is a really special character.
I checked for a blu-ray/DVD release but didn't find any information. I'm hoping for a quick release on Blu-ray in region 1.
I just watched it on a flight I took. The incontinence scenes are mild. The movie is artsy. The plot isn't straightforward, which is extra difficult when dealing with subtitles. The scenery is beautiful. The problem I had is that I never quite could figure out the motivations of the characters. For instance, little brother jumping in bed with Ada is a cringe-worthy scene (it works in the plot), or big brother (most complex character, other than Ada) trying to keep Ada from telling dad about Akeem. I'm assuming Akeem (dweeby boyfriend) is Muslim, while Ada's family is Christian, so that might play a role in the story that I didn't fully comprehend.
Overall, it's short, and you get kudos for watching a film with subtitles.
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2 hours ago, carsfan said:
This might sound counterintuitive but my advice would be to wear more. Yes you're wearing more but in my experience the distraction of wishing you were diapered or think about them is made less.
It is is counterintuitive, but true. It is a big reason a lot of AB/DL go 24/7. Once you wear diapers, that thrill is not there, but the comfort is.
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Tori Spelling
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As somebody who enjoys my alone time, I don't understand this. I don't mind other people, or even peeing around other people, but that's one of those things that I very much prefer to be by myself when I do it. I don't poop in my diaper, and I don't like pooping if somebody is in the stall next to me.