Diaperfox792

Well, dlover49, I really don't want to take that route. As I posed earlier, it would then be a barrage of questions and multiple trips the the doctor's to find out what is "wrong," and having to wear 24/7 which I don't really want to do either, etc. Besides, not that I'm a neat freak by any standard, but I really don't relish the idea of wetting my pants (unless they're of the absorbant variety of course), or my bed, or what have you. I know some people have tried this method and it works for them. Kudos to them for having the guts to wet/mess on purpose to get what they want! Thanks for the reply, though. Good thought. Hmm. Well, if my family weren't the overly-caring suspicious type then maybe I could get away with it. Or if I lived in my own place I might be able to excuse the diapers that way. But saying "I'm having a little problem," to my parents would be opening myself to a 3d degree inquisition of epic proportions! LOL! Wearing thick Abena X-pluses isn't exactly subtle either, even if I'm wearing jeans over them. I'm sure my VDL (visible diaper line) would spark a controversy. I think it would be more practical to propose the wearing of diapers somehow before I start wearing them around the house. I could probably get away with wearing something more subtle like a pullup, but really? Those aren't, in my opinion, diapers, they're more like dinner napkins.... I could maybe manage a small piddle in them once if I was really careful and controlled the flow before I had to change! But thank you also for replying. This is a difficult subject I think that many of us have to face at some point in our lives. How to get what we want without upsetting our relationship with those we love.

Hmmm... Diapers are great because they fit into all kinds of fetish scenes. I'm kind of a switch (meaning I like to top and bottom) so the following list includes both sides. I think some of my favorite fetishes would be medical bondage; mummification; rope bondage; steel and/or leather bondage; straightjackets; and full-body restriant suits in leather, latex, or pvc. I also love penis gags and leather or latex hoods, leather or rubber muzzles, chastity devices of various types, forced wetting (in diapers of course), being "forced" to wear diapers 24/7, etc. Anal toys. Steel collars. I like some pain stuff like flogging and whips or paddles. (Paddling on a diapered bum, mmmmm!) But I'm not into any severe pain stuff. I probably have a dozen or so other fetishes/fantasies but I can't think of them off the top of my head so let's just say I'm open to a lot of stuff! Ahh... so many fantasies, so little time!

Sounds like you have a great supportive family! Welcome to DD!

Hi, welcome to DD! I'm sure you'll find lots to read and discuss here. Have a great time!

I love happy endings! It's such a dream come true for so many of us to find a loving and understanding partner! You could try explaining that the onesie would help hold your diaper up when it gets soggy. Tout it as a useful tool rather than a "baby-ish" thing. Appeal to her logical side. Maybe she'll come around. One the other hand, she's already accepted your DL side to a fantastic and wonderful degree. Maybe you shouldn't push the onesie issue? Or you could tell her you're going to get one because you want one but you'll wear it when she's not around. There's many ways of satisfying our desires without bothering the ones we love. Hang on to her though. She sounds like a gem!

Any way to e-mail that person in the photo and ask where she got it?

I've tried a bunch of diapers over the years. Started with the store brands (shudder!) until I got my own P.O. box and then ordered some online. I've tried Molicare, Dry 24/7, and Abena M4. My preference now is the Abena M4 with a full-length booster pad. Fits me perfectly and is very thick! Love it!

I have two very close friends who know. At one point I kind of regretted telling one of them because he claimed that he spilled the beans to his girlfriend's father (she is also my best friend of almost 30 years so I know her dad pretty well) but my best friend and I eventually figured that it was just "drunk-talk" from him and he didn't actually tell. Why the heck he would tell someone is beyond me when it's not his fetish and really not his job to be outing me. I told him not to ever do that for real because that would mean the end of our friendship. He took me seriously because he never mentions it any more. I wear around these two on a regular basis. I have not told my family for fear of rejection/disaproval/disappointment by them. Also I have another friend who would never understand and she has no need to know. It's kind of funny in a way though because she has had problems in the past with "leaks" as she likes to say and has herself had to wear diapers to bed before. But she would never understand/approve of the DL part and I really have no excuse to wear around her if she should find out. She's on meds now that take care of her problem and wouldn't understand why someone would want to wear diapers instead of taking a pill to "fix" that kind of problem.

LOL! I love it! Great idea Wet Knight! I can just see their jaws hitting the floor! I doubt I'd ever have the guts to be so blatant though. That and my family and I don't go on a lot of road trips... I'd have to wait for a long time. Still, nice plan!

I've tried the Priva and they ripped at the seams with the first wear even though they were the correct size. Don't waste money on those. I ended up going with a brand called "Leakmaster" that I ordered from Amazon. They have both pullup and snap-side versions. They are more expensive than the Priva but you definitely get what you pay for. The material is very rubbery-feeling and soft and reminds me a lot of the old Gerber-style plastic pants. I went with the snap-side ones for easy changing. They seem very durable to me. The only beef I had with these is the leg cuff stitching kind of chafes my tender thighs but I think now they may have a style that has covered stitching so it won't chafe.

Well, 2sail2, I've thought of doing simmilar things like that but I don't really like the idea of faking incontinence as it were. Besides, I doubt I could just go a little in a pad. I tend to flood when I wear a diaper! (Bad DL, no self-control, oh, wait....that's the whole point! LOL!) All joking aside, I believe that road would just lead down to seeing one doctor after another in the search for a "cure." I've come to the general conclusion that, as others have said, wearing diapers for convienence is frowned upon in this country and by most who are not AB/DL is considered an absolute last resort for people whose incontinence just can't be cured yet by modern medicine. But thank you for your considered response! I love hearing everyone's different perspectives on this subject. You've all been very helpful! I also love that I get to have some place to talk about my deepest desires without riducule from anyone. DD is a great forum.

Thanks everyone for your imput. Maybe I guess I have to decide what is best for me at this time.

Thanks for your perspective poopy_dipes! My thinking is, it's OAB, not incontinence. I could explain that I don't leak but want to wear diapers just so I don't have to go to the bathroom all the time. It would be a convienence thing. In such a way, I would be able to wear going out and such or to work but not be expected to wear 24/7. I'm curious, did your situation of your mom finding your wet diaper put a kind of rift in your relationship afterwards?

Welcome Baby JJ! You're wife sounds like an awesome lady! I hope you guys have fun exploring the lifestyle. As for the hypnosis stuff, I think it is all up to the individual. I've never tried them myself but just from reading dozens of posts from other people who have, I think the general conclusion is that if you want them to work then they will. If your subconcious isn't really with you on the diaper-train then they probably won't. Also I think it depends on the quality of the recording. You can try some of the downloadable files out there on the web but I would think that a more "professionally" recorded CD would be the way to go. Good luck and happy diapering!

I know the topic of telling others about desire to wear diapers has been raised before but I have a couple of questions that I don't think have been covered in some of the other topics. What I am looking for is a way to wear diapers around my family whenever I want without them actually knowing about my DL desires. For financial and other reasons I live at home with my parents who are retired and, aside from the occasional day trip, are almost always at home (sigh). The only real opportunities I have to wear for long periods of time are at night in bed and whenever they're away (which isn't often). Lately I've developed a kind of "overactive bladder" where I urinate at least ten to fifteen times a day. I chalk this up to the medication I'm on and also because of dry-mouth caused by that same med I tend to drink a fair amount of liquids daily. I sigh to myself every time I go to the bathroom (especially at work or when I'm out of the house) because I think it would be a lot more convienent to just wear a diaper. I don't leak, though, so I'm not sure if my kind of "overactive bladder" can be used as a "valid" excuse to wear them. I also don't want to fake any "accidents." I've been pointing out to my mom lately that I'm going a lot and it's kind of inconvienent but I have not gotten the courage up to mention the D word. I'm kind of waiting for the perfect opportunity to just slip it into the conversation. I don't want her to have any inkling that it has to do with an actual desire to wear diapers. I also don't want her to insist I go to the doctor's to get tested for problems. In my imaginaton I conjure up a conversation where I'm complaining, once again, of how annoying it is to have to go to the bathroom so often and my mother says, somewhat jokingly, "Maybe you should wear diapers," or something to that effect. Then I turn to her and say, "Well actually, I did consider it, but I didn't know how you and dad would take it so I didn't say anything cause it's embarassing." The conversation would go from there where I would eventually convince her that I was going to try diapers and see if that helped with my "problem." Yay, the end. Then I could diaper whenever I want, still be in control, and not have to fake being incontinent on any level. I wouldn't have to hide my diapers any more. On the other hand, I'm afraid if I mention it I'll get the dubious look from mom, the silence, then the disbelieving, "You don't need diapers! Those are for babies/old people! You can't sit in your own pee all day! That's gross!" Then I'd be doubly afraid to wear diapers and it would just be awkward between me and my folks from then on. So...with that horribly long explanation: What do you all think? Is non-leaky OAB a "valid" excuse to wear diapers? Should I bring it up to mom directly or wait for the "perfect opportunity" that may never arrive? Please let me know your thoughts, observations, and if any of you have used a simmilar excuse with close family members, please let me know how it went. Thanks!

Boy do I wish I could sleep easy in diapers! I tend to fall asleep fairly quickly but when I'm wearing I usually wake up two to three times a night/early morning, not always with the need to pee. I wear to bed every night for a couple of weeks straight and then give up because I have such a hard time urinating while lying down. My ideal would be to be able to wear diapers to bed, sleep through the night, and wake up wet without any concious control. As it is I have to kind of "distract" myself with my mp3 player to un-concentrate on trying to wet my diaper lying down. I have no problems peeing standing up and can usually manage while sitting but there's some kind of mental block with the lying down part. I've tried meditation, repeating affirmations, the mp3 player playing a thundering rainstorm, etc. It just takes a huge concious effort to let go while lying down for me and I seem to only manage it once, usually before I fall asleep, which means I'm in a wet diaper all night. I wear good diapers, not cheap ones, and logically I trust them not to leak if I should flood, but I think my subconscious is telling me otherwise because holding it all night is "normal" for a 33 year old! Don't get me wrong, I don't want to be incontinent per se, but my diaper desires have recently been taking a near 24/7 or "as often as possible" turn for me. Peeing while asleep would, I think, get me over the hump so to speak as far as my fantasies go.

Hi blu4! I kind of agree with the other posters. I think your husband was just thinking ahead and saw you were almost out of a needed supply. You could talk to him and tell him "thank you for buying my diapers for me but I would feel better purchasing my own from now on." Tell him you felt a loss of control when he took this action away from you. Maybe there is a deeper issue here? Could you and your husband sit down and discuss some boundaries regarding your diaper-wearing and your relationship as a whole? Remember, if it's not safe, sane, and consensual then it's not roleplay anymore.

Thanks Repaid1 but you don't have to do that. I'll keep my current account. It will be easier for me to remember this time. And Sigma117, I hope I don't go through that again too. I've been trying to moderate my binge/purge cycles and I keep telling myself that it's a-ok to be who I am. Thank you too, Bettypooh for the warm welcome back!

Ok, it's fantasy time! I will ALWAYS prefer to be the diaper wearer rather than the diaper appreciator. However, like many people have already said, I want both! My ideal would be to have a husband who is into wearing and using diapers and wants me in diapers too. We would wear together; diapers would be part of our 24/7 life. We would occasionally change each other but for the most part take care of our own changes. We would also make love centered around diapers and bondage. Alternately I would accept a guy who doesn't wear but loves to see me wear and use diapers and occasionally "forces" me to wear them 24/7 for extended period of time, perhaps using some device to make it impossible for me to take off my diaper. Unfortunately, I am currently unattached...

Thanks Wetste!

Wetste, I think maybe you should have a chat with your wife and make sure she phones you to give you the heads up if she's bringing home guests, especially ones you don't want to have see you in your nappies! I live with my folks who don't know I wear diapers and sometimes they say "Oh, we'll be home late tonight," and end up coming home like an hour or two before I expect them to. I used to have some pretty close calls but I'm more cautious now. So far I haven't been caught wearing. I can only hope they have as good a reaction as your mother-in-law if they ever do find out! I'm glad everything worked out ok for you.

Hi everyone! I am back after a long hiatus. I started posting here around 2009 and after a while just stopped. RL got in the way and I was going through a major guilt/purge cycle. I used to be just Diaperfox79 but I forgot my password and the e-mail I associated with my account is no longer in use so I signed up again! I've been reading the current activity for a few weeks and hope to start posting some of my ideas/discussion starters soon but I thought I'd start here.