NewMommy2

My boyfriend is a DL and we do have a nursery that I helped him decorate. All I can say is be open and talk about it as much as he wants so he opens up and feels safe with you.

Well, I have not been on here in a while, but we would still like to meet some couples.

Myself and my little one,

I agree with Darkfinn, honesty is better sooner rather than later. You keeping this to yourself will start to eat you up more and more the more you keep it in, and the closer you get to saying "I do". It will be hard at first, but like BettyPooh said, guys take it a lot better than girls do. For some reason, we girls are more judgemental than guys. It sucks, but it is true. Good luck!

Any couples in the DFW area available the weekend of July 20th for a get together? Let me know and we can set something up for bowling, movie or something!

We are not far! Let's try and setup a bowling night!!

leesee, as a 'mommy' to someone that is a diaper lover, I can see where you are confilicted. But he really needs to understand your side of things. To be open with you was hard for him and I understand that. But you have feelings too and deserve to be heard. If he cannot respect your side of the issue then it is not worth continuing. The relationship has to be 50/50 give and take. You have been very patient and accepting, and him telling you was not easy. But he has to respect your feelings and concerns as well. Communication is the key to every relationship, especially in one that involves this lifestyle. Feel free to PM me if you just want to chat.

We are in the S. Dallas area but travel within the metroplex.

I have talked to a lot of you couples out there but still have not had a chance to get together with any of you. Are any of you couples still interested in getting together for dinner or drinks?

Welcome and hope you find what you are looking for. Everyone is nice on here and from what I can tell, no one bites.

Welcome and hope you find what you are looking for!

Welcome and pax is right, we don't bite!

Welcome and hope you find what you are looking for here! I know I have.

Hi Cookiemonstersmommy! Welcome! My bf and I have been chatting with cookiemonster cause we live in the same area. Glad you finally decided to join. If you ever want to chat, just send me a pm. NewMommy2

Welcome! You will enjoy and get lots of good information and meet new people.

Not a cry for attention, like DailyDi said, they have no clue. They just got them for a relative or what not they are helping to care for.

Hi Blu, My baby/bf and I are always looking for friends to socialize with where we can all be ourselves. If interested in chatting and getting to know each other, send me a pm.

Baby Hollywood, My baby and I are always looking for people to socialize with. So send me a PM if you would be interested in meeting up sometime for coffee or something.

BabySammy, My baby and I have met Lonelydaddy24 and he is a good guy. Do if you haven't found what you are looking for yet, contact him. NewMommy2

You need to be completely up front and discuss your concerns with him. There are plenty of couples out there that have children and maintain the ABDL lifestyle. i completley understand the whole not wanting to be a "mommy" to someone, but I have learned that I actually like it. My boyfriend is the one who introduced me to this lifestyle and he never thought that he would like to be on the other end, but has found that he does like chaging diapys. I don't wear often, only when I drink too much or if I want him to be the grown up and not me for once. The good thing is that you have tried it for him, tried to understand it. I have a hard time just going pee pee, and messy diapers are not tolerated. If he does get busy and has a messy diapy, he takes a shower and cleans himself. I will put a diapy on him afterwards. Hope this helps a little, if you want to chat more, feel free to message me!

Hi cookiemonsterbaby, Neither do we. PM me or SoakedinTexas if you want to chat or know more about us.

Well, ok, any DFW people out there looking to meet new friends, not going to be someone elses mommy cause I have my one and only baby. But we like to get out and socialize, SoakedinTexas and I don't bite, promise.

confusedmommy, you are starting to get a good response. If you two talked and he actually listened, that is a good start, let's hope he keeps that up and not just a one time thing. Make sure you keep pushing your wants and desires on him so he can give back. I know it may be hard sometimes, the whole feelings thing, but you have feelings just as much and he has to repect you as well. Send me a message anytime if you want to chat!

CautiousMommy, I became a mommy in May 2011, I know how difficult it is to understand at first. And just like some of the other replys, it is very important to talk constantly, he will tell you what he wants. But it is also important to take it slow. I have found for us, that the best thing in the world is the 50/50 give and take that we have. I know that if he expected me to be mommy 24/7, I would not still be here with him. We talk all the time about everything, both of our needs, mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually, etc., and he not only listens (or pretends to listen) but he also responds. I love this site and have gotten very good information from it. There is no one in my life that I can discuss this lifestyle with, so I come here a lot. I also chat with other mommies to get ideas and advice too. Feel free to pm me if you would like to chat. NewMommy2

And feel free to send me a message anytime you need to talk!