CautiousMommy

Yeah, I think mine tends to get kind of over excited and then I get a little scared. But I think he's beginning to realize that we need to go slower than if he was dating someone that was a pro at it. But I think it's getting better. Your guys' comments have really helped a lot, and I will be sure to PM both of you soon, lol. I just haven't had much free time lately, so I promise that I'm not just ignoring your comments. Thanks, guys. <3

Thanks everybody, I'm glad that there are people out there that know what they're doing, because I sure don't. I think it will be kind of new for me to talk about my feelings so much, but I think that it will be good for both of us to be so open about things. Thanks again, lol. I'm happy to feel so welcome here.

Alright, thank you so much for your advice and for responding... I think that my major problem is just that it is so new to me... and it's very new for my boyfriend to have someone that accepts him the way he is, so he may be a bit overeager as well. It does make me feel loads better to know that there are relationships out there that have worked... I do think I'll stick around on this site just to have people who are in the same type of situation and I'm very happy that I found it.

I feel a lot better reading a lot of these topics and knowing that people feel this way... and honestly I think that I could be okay pretending that my bf is a 'baby' sometimes... but I just don't know if I can be okay with some of the things... like diapers. I don't know, just the idea of him wetting the bed and having me change him doesn't appeal to me at all. And I want children of my own someday, and I just don't know how my boyfriend being an adult baby will affect that, or his relationship with them, if at all. I mean, I know that he can be an adult sometimes, but I'm just scared that if I do accept him and this part of him, that it will be hard for him to differentiate between when I want to be mommy and when I just want to be his girlfriend. I mean, is it normal for there to be just 'baby' times, and then 'adult' times?

Hi, I'm new to all of this... I just started dating my boyfriend and he came to me and told me that he likes to wear diapers and pretend to be a baby... I really care about him and I don't want to lose the relationship, so I came here hoping that I can get some advice on how to make a relationship work being a mommy. I'm not sure that I can really be the kind of person that he wants me to be... like, I think I could be nurturing and motherly sometimes, but I know that at the same time I will get tired of it if he wants me to be the mom all of the time. Like, I know that I'll want him to just hold me and be the 'man' sometimes as well... I mean... is this something that might work, or would it be better for me to just let him find someone that will be a better mommy for him?