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i think it is cute :-)

aww, that is awesome!!! congratulations, you have found a woudnerful girl.. don't loose her and always treat her well.. she sounds like a wonderful girl

where did I say present yourself as someone who has not done any research on it? I am pretty sure I said you can tell people that you are aware of this because of research you have done.

i don't mean defend the people on tv, i mean adult baby's in general..telling people that based on your knowledge, that people like stanley don't represent what adult babys are like. its almost like people don't read my posts they just take certain spots out and forget the rest.

Honestly nobody has ever even questioned that about me, and I have a very open relationship with my friends, like we share a lot of details and are able to ask each other stuff. But it really is in how you word it.. I only encountered people talking about adult baby's like twice in my life though, it does not come up very often at all. But what I was saying about defending was that if someone brings it up, and trashes adult babys.. we as adult babys should defend it, you can do that without exposing yourself. Obviously if you bring up the subject people will question, but if you just say it in a confident way that you read about this in your spare time before.. it should not create any problems honestly your friends shouldn't even judge you that you looked it up on the internet out of interest.. if they do, then you have shitty friends..it's time to meet some new ones.

Just by defending something, it does not mean you have to expose yourself. That is two different things.. I know it's not the same thing as being black, muslim or homosexual.. those are just other examples of groups that are criticized but the mob mentality allows it to happen even though it is cruel to generalize any group.. that is the point i was making. thought I was clear.. I guess I was not.. I never said anything about exposing yourself.. I have defended ABDL quite a few times without ever exposing myself as an ABDL. If someone says, what are you an adult baby too? Just say you aren't but you have done enough research on it to know what it is and what it isn't.. simple as that.. If people ask why you researched it just say you are interested in psychology, fetishes or that you spend a fair bit of time on wikipedia Nobody is saying for you to do what Stanley does either, and I highly am against that - that just worsens everything.. I am just saying, if you hear people talking about it and people are giving out wrong information about it just correct them on it.. there's articles on wikipedia even that give a much milder and less sensational version than what is on shows like Taboo

I think Stanley was just hoping to redeem himself on this show, I have not seen the show yet, but I get the feeling that is what he is hoping for. he does realize the first show went bad and he learned from it, this time I think he is hoping it will not go in that direction.

Then you are just as much part of the problem as society and because you remain voiceless you have no right to disrespect stanley. I have heard negative stuff about Stanely and to people where I didn't want to expose myself to, I would just say that I have read a fair bit about the ABDL communtiy and I know that he does not represent what the ABDL commujnity is like, that it is television and would obviously try to be as sesationalistic as they can, if it was just your average joe who happened to wear diapers or have some baby things, it wouldn't make interesting TV now would it? It wouldn't get the media attention and the bloggers attention if it were just your average joe. After telling this to people and explaining my understanding of ABDL they took back their words, and never once suspsected me of being an ABDL.. if you remain silent while a group gets attacked, whether it be ABDL's, homosexuals, blacks, muslims.. and you just sit there quietly while your friends express their ignorance on the subject, you are just as bad as they are.. you might as well join in the ignorance.

sadly this is not the case :-( some people and i don't want to sound too sexist, but especially "men" ( at least it seems that way) seem to lack this part of their brain.

i picked 1 - 3 diapers.. but i generally use 3 - 4 diapers a day.. 1 is way too little and 6 is way tooo much lol more accurate classes would have been, 1 - 2, 3 - 4, 4 - 5, 5- 6, 6 - 8, 8+ what i will do is wake up, and pee in my nighttime diaper (which not always, but often is already wet from the night.. i usualyl wake up in the middle of the night and have to pee but i am so out of it and so not aware of what is going on.. i just pee my diaper without even thinking of it lol). i will stay in my diaper for a ilttle bit then shower and put on a new diaper.. by around 10am. i will stay in that diaper from about 10am - 6pm. then at 6pm i will change and wear that diaper until midnight. then i go to bed and put on a fresh one.. so that is three diapers but somektimes i will need another one in there somewhere sometimes i wake ujp in the night and have to change my diaper i pee very frequenrtly but little bit each time.. i think it's mujch healthier that way too! :-) i wear tranquilty ATN for now.. but waiting on b4ns.com to get their stock and then i will be wearing bambinos!!!!!! :-) i can't wait

I think they are like 13.99 or something like that they are only in packs of 12 so they are not that much the shoppers drug mart home health care i get them from knows me really well as I go there every week - very friendly people :-)

i will donate then! as long as it takes paypal! :-)

I still have yet to see this epsisode, is there anyway anyone can post it online?

i do have have a hard time controlling my bladder as it is.. but when i am in a diaper it is automatic that I go. i am not sure if that is how my brain associated with it, since i have been wearing diapers for many years now (i am 27.. started wearing very often since i was 17) i wet while shopping all the time - makes life so much easier

These are what i wear most of the time, they are the easiest ones I can get right now. I live in Ontario Canada and I am still waiting for b4ns.com to get bambinos in again.. and since i can't order bambinos elsewhere i have to wait but for years i have been wearing tranquility ATN - i am very close to 24/7. I don't have any bowel incontinence but I have an extremely weak bladder (I pee very often, but not a lot each time) so wearing is a huge convenience for me and tranqulity atn is pretty much all i wear. They are sold in Canada at Shoppers Home Health Care stores. I don't like the tapes as if you don't get it on right,and you try to adjust them, they will not stick again and you have to use tape.. other than that, it is a great diaper and I find I can get away with wearing only 2 or 3 diapers a day (with only going pee, not number 2) like i said I wet frequently but they are in smaller amounts - but these do hold quite a bit for an easy to get diaper.

yeah but they will think that if you wear diapers you must be like babybrett.. it would be really nice if there was a documentary that showed the casual wearers, but would they want to out themselves? I'd have to think about it

yeah! no worries! it is constructive criticism, i agree on what you were saying - you are not critiquing the author's creativity at all, you are just critiquing the bad habits the author may not know they have. it's constructive criticism. - and i'd hardly call it criticizing.. more like suggesting.

Stanley, this is a really bad idea. First, the only way a good documentary will be made is if it is made by ABDL's (and it would have to be very professorial looking; the creators would have to remember that it is a documetnary to educate people, the target is non-abdl's.. i can picture some ABDL's not anyone specically, but them not understanding this concept.. a lot would though) a good ABDL documentary will show the wide variety of ABDL's - interviewing the many different ones, the manufacturers of bambino, ab universe (they'd get free advertising) they could talk about how busy and how much business they get, it would also cover the many sites, nanny services etc, not to sound sexist, but it would have to show some really attractive women (sex sells, it's a fact.. lots of fetish documetnaries have very attractive women in them, they aim to get the hottest chick to speak on their behalf, because they know it sells), it would also show what ABDLs are like in their normal life.. when they are not doing this, show them how functional they are. second, the reason why they are picking you Stanley is because once they release to the media (including talk show hosts, howard stern etc) it will be free publicity for them. it will attract media attention.. allowing them to get their documetnary public attention and they are hoping more people will watch it I don't think that will get many people to watch it, unless it is on tv.. However, someone that will watch it.. and this brings me to my third point.. someone that will watch it, and i am sure a lot of your many haters will send him a copy is Senator Tom Coubrn. he will be looking for anyway to try and prove you are not disabled. This will just attract negative attention for all of us.- it will be bad for our community. It's not necessarily your fault Stanley, National Geographic made a biased documentary about you, these people always will, until an ABDL makes one.

There is one a few blocks from my house :-) I bet those people see all kinds of stuff come in - they probably have seen everything lol

This is good to know! @ jinxed, do you have to have an account with them first? and pay monthly? or can I just do a one-time fee of $5 per delivery?

actually I would like to change my name - I don't know what I want it to be, but I will request once I think of one! I just thought there was a simple setting that we could change it with?

however i do think it is a great idea

I am saying no i would not like to contribute because I am being honest.. I have dealt with trying to start many projects everyone wants to talk about how a great idea it is and say they will help but whnever it gets time to actually start working everyone bails out

Not to be rude.. but this has been discussed so many times http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 http://www.dailydiap...rk&fromsearch=1 each one of those is to another "do any you wear diapers to work?" / "how do you make your co-workers not find out?" not trying to be rude here i'm sure that the original poster is new but at least these links can help you out if anyone else is sick of being asked the same question

Doesn't Dr. Phil have a tone of marital problems? He is not perfect.. If they are happy living that way, why change it? If the girl is not happy that way, why not meet halfway? why not alternate every second night for a while and see.. I only saw the clips on the dr. phil site, have not watched the full episode yet - but dr. phil is a quack Joe Rogan said it best in his comedy act... why should women take relationship advice from someone they don't want to fuck!? loll