I buy from cvs, and target, i'll get depends adjustable, cvs adjustable, and i'll get some pampers goodnights or pampers size 7. Almost anything will fit on a 30 inch waist now a days. lol I won't tell your wife. I'm 18 and i don't really want to get in the middle of that. lol Or you can order from online and have them shipped to a PO box. my email is (terrorking96@yahoo.com) Sorry about the scary name, i got click happy. ^^;