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lilstevie

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  1. It depends on your size ,,some disposables are cut different ,,fit different . I`d go for the premium type disposables and try samples first till you find one you really like . Lately I ve been ordering these plain white ones (Forsite AM PM Maximum Adult Briefs Medium) amazon prime

  2. Sorry this has happened. being outed can be a terrible thing.

    Agree with Spokane Girl, putting a real life photo of yourself out on the internet unless you`re already "out" with family and friends is asking for the inevitable to happen. You played the odds no one local would see you and lost.

    You have options on fet to make personal photos only viewable by friends.

    There`s also the option of edited out your face .

    Personally i dont feel i have anything to gain by posting a face pic anywhere on the internet .But ,,, thats just my feelings on that.

  3. I like babykins too. I have quite a few pairs of the 10300v http://www.babykins.com/store/adult-plastic-pants/kins-vinyl-pull-on-adult-plastic-pants/, they are lightweight ,cool in the summer and cut very roomy for cloth and still only ten dollars.Yay ! Some are over ten years old. Ive recently tried the vinyl encased elastics they have http://www.babykins.com/store/adult-plastic-pants/kins-encased-elastic-adult-diaper-cover/ and like these too.($15) although the legs seem a Lil tight.

    Like Angela said , wash them in a mild detergent and hang them out to dry. Never use any petroleum products on them and they will last for years.

  4. I would do some research on cathartic release. Find something that's deeply emotional that's been pent up inside and needs a release. When i`m going into a spanking scene , i tend to get myself in a head space that's relaxed. I love spankings and like fun spankings over punishments but i know there`s a place for them too, doesnt mean i got to like them , they are just consequenses for bad behavior . I don't know if other spankees are like this but i feel for you to reach that emotional level of tears you have to work past that comfy relaxed level and hit that emotional nerve. It might take some careful prodding and digging into his or her past. Of course its going to be different for each person. He or she has to be open and honest with you and give up some information that's useful to you .I think maybe you have to be tactful and skillful in getting just the right info because some are`nt going to readily give up something painful or deeply emotional .

    As a little boy i`m much more emotionally responsive than when i have to be adult and wear my big boy undies and deal with adult things and wear a tougher skin so to speak. Our inner child part of our personality holds alot of emotions. Maybe thats a point of interest worth exploring? If i`m going to be brought to tears i have to be in my little space. Thats the key for myself but not everyone is a little .

  5. I just have a few questions that you could answer very quickly. Thank you!

    How old are you? 52 cronologicaly 3 ish to 5 ish is my comfy little age

    Are you married or single? happily married :)

    What do you do for a living? Toolmaker

    How often do you wear diapers? every nite all weekend

  6. Hey :) Okay ,, i`ll give a try at this :) agrees`s firstly ...communication is key . If you feel shy bout talkin openly about your kinks and desires ,, maybe find a kink list off the internet , fill it in and let him read over it ,, you might both fill one out. Everything from a to z would be in this list. Be as honest and realistic as possible and give some good thought filling it in. You can google "BDSM checklist" and find many to choose from.

    Lets say now we`ve talked and he`s agreed or found some common ground you both like. I would suggest taking babysteps first . Try to setup a roleplay so both ya can get in a headspace (possilby??) this works for us if she Tops me :) Keep it fun and be safe. Do some research online , there`s vast resources at your fingertips . Trust me when i say the door you are about to open together has been opened many times before by others and you can benifit from others experiances by researching first . Technics , safety in the scene and etc etc .

    Do take it easy at first ,, simple lil scene ,, see how it goes .. Later talk about it with each other. after timne you`ll be able to refine things ,, read each other and know wats good and whats not .. When to stop ,,when to go farther.

    Submissives can make good Tops simply because he/she wants to please you and make you happy :)

    Explore , have fun and enjoy !!!

    be safe always ,,,

    hugs lilstevie :)

  7. Hi Mommie Silver and welcome . You`ve got some good advice so far . Just go with the flow and communicate with each other . This is new to you so it`s important to test the waters . There`s so many directions the two of you can go . Be adventourous and try new things when you`re together .The stereotypical Mommie / AB that you might hear or read about does`nt nessasarly have to be you or to make you "Mommie". Think about when you are together or later ,,, what things you`ve done that puts you in "mommie headspace" or some things you do that puts him in "baby headspace" It`s a symbotic relationship and both feed off each other. It`s a very special relationship that grows with time and a deep bond can form between the two of you .

    You ask "Am I into Mommie or baby?" Take it slow and see how you feel . You may find you have some "little' in you . ageplay 3 to like 12ish. You dont particularly like wearing diapers but you like fun kid stuff . Playing with dolls , coloring ,,, etc.

    Can you be little and be Mommie? Why not! Relationships can be multi leveled . My wife is little and I play Daddy for her but I also have a little side . So we switch. She plays big sister for me and I`m the 3 year old. We also have a Auntie that`s come in the picture the last year . Sometimes when we get together , I`m all in my Daddy headspace , other times I just want to be little . She`s always little and never has had a desire to be Mommie. This is what we`ve found that works for us . It may not work for another couple.

    You just have to find yourself and what makes you happy and fulfilled. It just takes time .

    Hope this is helpful and wish both of you the best,

    lilstevie

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