idl john

hi bradly nice to hear from you . sorry to hear mom does not like diapers.. i wear all the time. maybe you can email me ltjjks50@yahoo.com hope to hear from you, john

hi im in grand rapids so yes there are people that wear here ... if you like email me at ltjjks50@yahoo.com

im am incon and do not us under wear.....

i live in grand rapids michigan,,

ive been a member here for 1 1/2 years and in continant for five years now, i have learned to except the diaper wereing all the time , at first i was very shy and i felt people were always looking at me and laughing because i had to were a diaper,well i found out it was all me and what i was thinking, you i know i have a diaper on bot othiers dont know this. there where times also i did not want to bend down because i was afraid my diaper would show, now in dont care because over a period of time i have learned that being paraniod is just that all in my head, sure there might be some people out there to poke fun at you but that is there problem, i wear a diaper so i dont make messes on store floors and thier places i go and if people cant see i want to take care of my problem and laugh about so be it... you see what im saying im proud of my self and im not going to let othiers hurt me because im in a diaper.... i have been getting out and meeting othiers who are icon.. thanks to dailydiapers... if your icon or just love to wear its your business and not othiers be proud... idl john

hello all, im just reposting to thank some of the people for some good advice given to me. and also to say that the same ole things still happening to me like being dumped because im incontinece and wear diapers. i would think it would make people happy, just to know that i am taking care of it instead of making messes, but they think im a weirdo. i am happy to say i am a weirdo and proud of it. some people think thet are so greart but it could happen to them to.... its hard to find someone who will love me in my diaper. ive even been told my pic look like im an axe murder.. i am not. just me.. i wish all of you luck in finding a person who can understand incontinence ab/dl we are all human and have feelings to... idl john

thank you i have moved the comma..

i have been on the diapers chat room on and off now for just over a year now, i have heard people saying that they are to ashamed to wear diapers in pubilc, why? im incontinant and have been wearing for 4 years now and i used to feel the same way, but now i dont care what people think or say, it does not matter. othier people dont live our lives. and dont feel the we do. we have feelings to, but they dont care about that, they just think it makes them self look good to put someone else down. i have people say things to me all the time, sure they laugh, but when i ask them would it be better for me to stand in a store with urine running down my leg and making puddles on the floor for people to walk through and maybe slip and hurt them self, they answer well o no that would be a bad thing. i also ask them what kind of a person walks a round judging othiers. they walk away.. im saying if your incontinant, ab dl... so what do what you feel is right for you and be happy..dont worry what othiers think, they dont live your life you do. and if your friends are really a friend they will stand by you. i guess over 4 years i have learned a lot about being ashamed, dont be its a waste of time there's nothing to be ashamed of but shame it self...... wear your diapers and be proud of it....idl john.. p.s its not othiers peoples business what you wear under or in the open..

sounds like to me you have a real, good friend jennifer. they are hard to find these days.

the funnest thing that ever happend to me was i was church and i just got back up from kneeing down aqnd i lost my balance and sat down to fast and the plastic thats on the outside of my diaper popped, you could hear the pop sound all through the church, boy i got some funny looks...

i live in michigan to, im in grand rapids. i have been here 49 years. yes also in diapers. drop me aline if you feel like it, ltjjks@yahoo.com, be cool.. idl john

hi, i have a spinal disease, and can do nothing about it, i have had all kinds of test done. my problem started all at one time, my daughter and i walked down the street to check out a house fire on the way home i felt a pop feeling in my back, not a lot of pain with it ethier, by the time i got back to my house i was wet. so yes things can happen to you suddenly. i wish you the best. idl john

i have had both done and the ct scan is nothing, but the punchure does not hurt when they do it, its after the numing wears off the fun starts. yes it does hurt like hell for a little while after words. you will do fine. my incon is from my spine, good luck, idl john

hi, i only read a few of your reply"s, i also say go for for it, take a day for your self and do so. there:s nothing wronge with giving it a try. if you do like it good for you, just maybe your boyfriend might surprise you and like it him self. good luck, idl john.

hi, when i first bought my diapers i was the same way you are, i didnt want anyone to see me buying diapers, after a while people seen me buying them and then gossip started, i was so ashamed, i thought i would never go outside again, after a while people found new things to gossip abought, now i go outside in my diaper when i get my mail or news papper.people just smile amd wave now, im incontinent and proud of. i feel if othiers dont like what i have to do, i could carelesss. it ant thier bussiness. and i said this many times before, ant no shame but shame it self, so walk with your head held high, .....

hi, i dont let it botheir me, there,s always someone out there to put down a person wearing diapers, i have bebeen through all that, now it does not matter anymore, no one is anybetter then anyone else in this would, go out and enjoy your self, theres shame but shame it self...

i got back in to them at 44 years old, went incont. idl john..

i use prevail pull ups during the day and at night i use prevail night time. idl john

just relax and let it go, i would think after a while you do it out of habbit. and i dont blame you for not liking to go number 2, poop, i is very messy, good lick, idl john

hi, im in grand rapids mich, feel free to give me a email at, ltjjks@yahoo.com. maybe ill hear form you. idl john..

yes i still do us the toilet. when i poop. im incontinent, urine only. i dont think i could mess my diaper on purpose. to each there own, idl john

sometimes i can feel something, but most of the time just a warm feeling on my skin. like what was said . we all have diffent feelings. idl john..

i have been incon for four years now and its not that bad, at first i felt like my freedom was over. i have spinal problems, and diabetic. theres nothing thay can do to fix me, i felt like my life of freedom was over, now i have gotten over that, i dont care who knows that i wear diapers, i do it because i like to keep my self dry. otheir people dont run our life, we make our own life, theres no shame exp shame it self. hold your head up and go out and enjoy life.......

i also had a nurse change me, i thought of it as a medical thing.... but i must admit, i did enjoy the changing, lol the nurse was nice lookin to. idl john