PPBear

mikey! you the man! is always some armchair cowboy thinks they can run it better, fact is you know who's who in this zoo and balance the conflicting demands of the few to make the majority happy to come here. it's *your* chat and don't you forget it!

on the south end of the biggest island on the west coast where we even got snow!

Maybe a little history is in order: These pants were originally developed and produced to stop removing diapers & poo smearing which is what they are still used for today. They are effective and not all that uncomfortable and can be employed where restraints will not work. Incidentally they act as a form of chastity enforcement which makes them popular in controlling impulsive behaviour. Being presented in them speaks to the wearers infantile behaviour. badgirl 2.tiff

There you are, allll done, anything goes drastically sideways , like you need bail or something i will do what i can but consider yourself fully routined and ready for the challenge! keep up the good work, carry on yadda*yadda byeee.....

you *are* a little & they neeed maintenance, look at this as a diaper change & the movie tickets are like the pat on the butt to tell you you are done

$50 cover it? and where do i send it

anything else that is threatening? is there anything that *you* would like for you?

Thank you mikey for dealing with all the stress of bills and keeping this place running. I'll do what i can to help, if you ever get really stuck, look me up, i'll do what i can. old bear over there...

i use the service, i can help to pay for it

that whole transaction went weird but mastercard did it's thing and you got it, which was the intention. I've been hanging out here a lot more lately and figured i should help out.

Been an active member of the diaper community pretty much from when the net went public. Was bounced off the walls a lot trying to grow up and that left me with more issues than a book stand but usually willing to talk about it, sharing helps understand. I am an adult child, really never grew up emotionally, knew i was supposed to be in diapers right from when i was taken out of them. I tried to stay in them but reality ruled until i retired and now i am 24/7 and happy to be that way.

To be broken enough to cry would seem to repeat the damage such spanking did to you as a child. Perhaps being encouraged to cry, asked to 'fake' it and given a little help to make it become real tears, is another way to get that cathartic release that crying provides without all the drama/trauma. It *is* a consensual act or it likely should not be done.

DailyDi, Thank you for providing a forum for our fractious community to connect with others, it's a dirty job at times and i am glad someone does it. Some points that occurred to me about this while i read about your distress: Never assume malice where ignorance or stupidity will serve, i doubt the 'friend' was aware that pic was in a mixed bag that 'shared' with someone. The site that has persecuted you is selling a pic for which they do not have a model's release... yes? Is that a potential avenue for redress? If there is anything we, as a community can do to help, please say so... Regards for a job well done: PPBear

Babykins.com makes all their own stuff and still make the best fitting, most comfortable plastic pants i've ever used.

Pee ferments, produces ammonia which can give you a chemical burn butt... if you eat cranberry (a handful of dried cranberries a day) it will take longer and be less stinky as well. My night diapers have a lot more capacity than is used in the night so i tend to stay in them until they threaten to leak , simple economy that also feels nice.

simple checklist: 1: do you have private space you can set aside for it, preferably a reasonably large area that can be closed off from casual encounters. 2: how large are you? if small enough, a youth crib that is 5' long might do. There were some based on a single bed mattress made by sears some years ago, you might find one in a flea market or by a want ad. otherwise getting one made, or making one yourself if you are good with tools are about it for options. 3: if it is just you caring for you, a crib & a room to keep all your stuff in should about do it, a rocking horse is good addition along with some mats to use on the floor for rolling around. if you have a caregiver: 1: changing table, hip hight, 5' long fitted with some simple retraints to geep you on it and hands away from interfering. 2: large rocking chair for cuddles 3: a large highchair, if you are small some made for bigger kids may work for yo. There are places to buy care aides like strollers & highchairs. 4: a playpen but in an adult size, mine uses gym mats so the 'floor' is 6'x6', the sides are like the gates for a crib and likely will need to have them made. ThrashBear does good work & delivers his products over a wide area, google him to find him. Good luck! PS: i wish i'd gotten a crib years ago, is the single best AB prop ever...

This is intended as a discussion of what some folks do to deal with their sexuality and how diapers may mold that into predictable patterns. I sometimes think that abies are one of the few groups that embrace selfex as their primary way to express their sexuality. This is not masturbation, which i see as doing what it takes to get off, shower up and carry on. The whole point of it is to 'scratch the itch'. That would be a fetish, in my view, diapers being a substitute for a 'normal' outlet. Making love to yourself is another matter & diapers enable that. it's not a substitute, it's a replacement for other ways of doing it. What i see as developing over time is the diapers stay on afterwards and eventually, wearing is enough to scratch the itch without a climax. It stops being an 'event' and becomes a lifestyle. Diapers become a reassurance more than erotic and feel like an all day *hug* on those parts. Very addictive and from where i sit, it looks like a progressive addiction. I strongly believe that we did not choose this but we do have it to live with, You are not responsible for the drive but you are responsible for what you make of it. Where there is no victim, there is no crime. This is discussion, flames are not appropriate,