Miss Manners

agreed aleyxsis. i'd have to separate the two. for some reason the two cannot co-mingle together for me. any attempt to do otherwise would completely destroy the purity and sweetness, the emotional caring and protectiveness i'd have when diapering and caring for a little one's person....but i can only speak for myself on this matter.

i couldn't agree with you more. toon, and yes it does make perfect sense. i think you shed light on the subject matter perfectly and clearly. and surely the mindset of a little as a little has no concept of gender orientation nor awareness as that stage of matured development couldn't have been possible prematurely. the matter does become an issue in retrospect for some though when revisiting that early stage of life and includes the concept of sexuality manifested as a fetish. it's a matter of personal preference for individuals to decide on their own. Freud may have something to say about that. but i'll personally choose the emotionals over the fetishts any day compared to the two!

the above along with this recent following: Posted 30 April 2010 - 11:58 AM Do I get a spanking if I spilled my baba all over the floor? http://www.diaperspa...om/DiaperBadBoy aha! i read about this behavioral syndrome of these two little upstarts recently in a baby care book. it's called the "terrible two's!"

"fluff" what a cute nick! a giggly little baby is always a joy to be around. and going on trips and healthy excursions of which there are many with a happy baby enthused and curious is a double joy!

ionope, that has got to be one of the cutest activity songs i've ever seen! sweet blessings to you for sharing that wonderful piece. it's fun, it's healthy, it's upbeat, and its positive! one of the very best i've ever seen!

Baby Rescue, that song, "Hush Little Baby" is an excellent song when soothing a little one to sleep after a long busy day. there are numerous other lullalbye songs as well. one of the hardest lullabye songs to sing, probably because of the wide melodic voice leaps is "Rock-a-bye-baby" and if the mother singing it doesn't have good voice control it comes out sounding funny and off-key. which i would imagine is an opportune time to laugh and giggle anyway. either way, all these activity and/or lullabye songs should bring sunshine and cheer to both a mother and her little one.

Baby Tiana, don't ever feel silly about either playing or singing those two lovely songs at random. "at random"is the best time because it captures the extemporaneous honesty of the moment! that's precisely when to do it! "hot cross buns" and "the muffin man" are delightful songs to sing, and i would think any mother who cares for her child would be enthused to join with her little one singing them. one of the great things about any of these activity songs is words can be substituted to capture the activity of the moment, such as with the Mulberry Bush song. if a little one is helping her mommy sort laundry or sweep the floor, or do dusting, or bake goodies in the oven, those words can be fit into the song. whatever a mother is doing with her little one can be incorporated in that song and many more. humor and laughter would make it a wholesome healthy delight don't forget, and the result is gifting the day with bright sunshine and cheer for both a mother and her little one! thank-you for sharing that Tiana, and thanks to Lauren and Baby Maggie and others who have made positive contributions to a thread i find most enjoyable and meaningful! i hope others feel free to join in and contribute their ideas and reflections!

this undoubtedly is one of my favorite threads on DD site! the list of activity songs can go on endlessly and sorry! i'm the only one who brought up the song "here we go 'round the mulberry bush." i guess i didn't have any negative experiences from it. it was always a happy activity song that a group could do together. london bridges is a nice song and a tisket a tasket a green and yellow basket is another fun one especially with toddlers. the famer in the dell is fun too because kids get to mimic and immitate the different farm animals with noises and body motions. let's keep this thread going. it's a fun, healthy, and wholesome one!

i think that's wonderful you shared that babymaggie. the *little tea pot* song is very cute! there are so many many more! i wish more people would feel comfortable coming forward sharing as we have done here. always feel free to do so!

this is a wonderful topic you've brought up Mary-Ann. it's a shame more people don't discuss this more often. if you wish, you can find online song sites that give lyrics and often times provide the music, without charge. the songs you've mentioned are great fun...it's also nice to sing the patta-cake song with a little one. itsy bitsy spider is a joy, and little miss muffet is a wonderful opportunity to please a little one in a very gentle way. another fun action song to help make life's daily chores pleasant is "here we go 'round the Mulberr Bush," as that song makes personal care such as brushing our hair, or washing our face have enjoyable meaning. the list is endless and is only limited to one's imagination and creativity. but you've started a worthy topic and thread. i hope it continues because i'm going to take personal interests in it!

the first person i came out to was me. then my mother and family. i had to confront myself with the truth before i could confront anyone else.

BabyTiana, you might consider slipping a plastic cover over that mattress zipping it up to protect it from those horrid dust mites. and yes they are a reality. placing a soft cushy pad on top then should make for a restful night's sleep. pads are much easier to launder than mattresses anyday!

good lovely day BabyLauren! and welcome to the DD site. i'm a so. calif. girl as well, happy to be where it's mostly warm and balmy. hope you enjoy the site, and meet other wonderful people. my poetic wise advice is: "stay far away from the meanies of which there are many. the nice ones compensate for that though, and hopefully you'll meet many!" *sweet smiles and beautiful joys for you always* ~Miss Manners~

thank-you Baby Tiana, that was an excellent link you provided. and yes, he is a great chef having thorough knowledge of the chemistry behind food preparation. good job Tiana!

does anyone know anything about Johnny Cakes? are they similar to pancakes? if so, where would one find a good recipe? and what's the best way to prepare them?

if i were to dress and prepare my little one for beddie bye time, i'd definitely use 100% cotton cloth, diaper service quality diapers, with diaper pins. plastic baby panties would be a must of course. i've been blasted and scoffed at by others because of my choice for cloth over disposables, but i don't care. as a mommy i know what's best! as to pj's it would depend on the baby, as long as they have those convenient crotch snaps that make diaper changing an easy convenience.

i love making pancakes with crushed pecans. i usually put a bit of extra water in the mixture so it will make a thin pancake instead of a fluffy thick one. (fluffy thickness only counts when it comes to diapers, changing pads and other items baby is to be put on for his or her care) adding a bit of butter and topping it with a tad of 100% pure maple syrup is a culinary delight! i know it's a pricey grocery item, but well worth it. as to one certain little 2 year old baby boy, we'll find you! and i'm sure the one who does will see to it you get your proper comeuppance!

my partner and i aren't really into any physical sex. she and i enjoy *Tantra* a sort of spiritual conjugal co-mingling. very difficult to articulate with words. it requires a heightened and disciplined sense of spirituality but it far transcends anything physical by far. in fact, the physical act of sex seems so base and crass to both of us.

my vote: maternal Dominant not interested in sex gay girl (some people call us *lesbians* but i don't. never liking the way that sounds nor the negative images it seems to conjure up with straight society) not kinky or freaky