rosie, what you said made sence but there is one thing you can do. you can have someone (member(s), obvioulsy) monoter the chat when they can and if some 13 year old keeps annoying someone then *wham!* kick em out. other than that there isnt anything. and as for people not talking to eachother theres, as you said, nothing you can do. oh, one more thing, chat may be more interesting if there were some diffrent rooms.