Akira

You can use rit dye also. Use very warm but not hot water. I have using red dye made Comco's plastic pants from white to red (or pink, use less time), or blue into purple. If the water is to cold the plastic can crack, if to hot the seems can come apart. Let dry fully about 24 hours. Then wash 2 times in warm water or dye will transfer to your skin, diapers, or clothing. It works, but it is a lot of trouble.

Not Exactly. I have woken up sometimes because I am pooping my diaper, or have woken up and then pooped my diaper before I even have a chance do get up. Some times I just go back to sleep, sometimes I change and clean up. Most of the time I will just go back to sleep and change in the morning. Most of the time I wear cloth diapers, and they tend to leak the real messy stuff into my plastic pants around the legs. I have several pair of plastic pants that are stained as a result. Then there are some mornings I wake up both wet and messy, not having waken up during the night. I almost always wake up wet, no matter what. it is very rare that I wake up dry.

Hi, judging from posts in the meeting place, it looks like it their are not many diapered people in New Mexico. I am also interested in meeting other diapered people in or near the state. I live in the four corners region, near Bloomfield. I don't live in the city, I am out in the country. I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants at home, although I use disposables, most of the time, when I am out and about. I am incontinent and a DL, but I am willing to meet diapered people of any persuasion. Diapered people have that in common and can (I hope) accept their commonality no matter if AB, DL, incontinent, or otherwise. Not sure if I can travel far, my good vehicle needs a transmission and I am currently driving and older VW. It is cheaper to drive but may not be up to long trips. I am on Social Security Disability, so I do not have work to contend with, I plan on going back to college in January of 2010, at which point my time will be less free. I am also a cat person, I love cats. I am single and heterosexual, but have no objections to meeting gay people as long as it is not about sex. I have been in diapers for 18 years now from an accident in 1991. It is difficult for me to be this open, I have been burned in the past. I have experienced problems with some websites a few years back for incontinent people, and ran into trouble when I admitted that I like my diapers, but at the same time I was not my choice to start wearing, I just found out after the fact I like it. It would also be helpful if another diapered person could take a few pictures of me, I would like to post so people at this site would know what I look like, I had asked a friend a few years back, and that made things a bit awkward, needles to say it did not happen.

In my case my incontinence was caused by falling of a cliff while prospecting in southern Arizona. I fell aprox. 10 to 12 meters, (33 to 40 ft). When I came to I was both wet and bloody. Have wet myself ever since. The doctor I saw at the time said it was nerve dammage, but I would require an unaffordable MRI to determine the precise damage. Did not have the MRI as I considered any surgery for anything other than to save my life as to risky, and expensive. I don't trust the medical profession that well anyway, they just want to make a buck. I discovered latter that I liked wearing diapers anyway. Still have trouble with pain in my right hip since the fall, most of the time that can be taken care of with pain medication. I don't feel an urge to go, It just happens without warning. As a child I had a previous history of stress incontinence anyway, perhaps that is part of the problem, and the fall made things worse, I don't know. I have a stress related componet to my problem as physical activity will make me leak. If I am active I will discover that after a while I am wet anyway, if I am not physically active I will suddenly notice that I am wetting myself without any warning. Over that last 2 years though I have been having problems with the bowel also. I will suddenly notice that I have to have a BM, If I am near a restroom, no problem, if not I end up messy to. I don't have much time to react. Roughly 16 years between the two problems, the wetting I can live with, but messing my diaper is a different story. Don't like to go out much as a result, I don't want to stink. Society has trouble accepting adults in diapers anyway. Discrimination against the disabled. Someone with other disabilities gets more acceptance that the incontinent do, what a bummer. I have been in diapers for 18 years now, time is fun when you are having flys.

To all whom replied, Thank you for the welcome. It is awkward to be an adult in diapers, by necessity or choice. For me it is by necessity, but I never thought that other people who wear by necessity would be so judgemental over the issue just because I had found out that I liked to wear them. They thought I was crazy. I didn't try to check into any other web forums for several years as a result. Thanks again for the welcome. I did not lurk her for long, just a few days. The people here seem to be an open minded bunch of folks, as such I decided to take a chance and join. So far it looks like I made the correct choice. My best of wishes to all.

Hi, I live near Bloomfield. I am still trying to figure out this website, are there many diaper wearers (AB, DL or other) in NM? I am left with the impression that there is not.

I fell about 10-12 meters from a cliff in Nov. 1991. I have been incontinent ever since, nerve damage, I do not feel an urge to go, I just do. I have been wearing diapers ever since, 18 years now. I discovered very soon after the fall, that I did in fact like wearing diapers. In fact, for years I had more difficulty dealing with the fact that I liked wearing diapers, that the fact that I had to wear them! It took me a long time to accept the fact that I am a diaper lover. Incontinence can lead to the desire to wear diapers, I don't know if it is because the alternative is wet pants or not, but I do wish that I did not have to wear them 24-7.

I seem to be having trouble posting, hope this works this time. I have just joined today and I am confused. I live in the four corners region of New Mexico. I am incontinent as the result of an injury from a fall and have been wearing diapers for 18 years as of this month. I discovered that I like wearing diapers after my accident, I just wish I had some control over using them, and did not have to wear them 24-7. I guess that makes me an incontinent diaper lover. I am not into the adult baby stuff other than the diapers and plastic pants. Most people think one is strange, even if diapers are medically necessary. My doctor and closest friends are aware of the fact, but I don't share this information with everyone. I went to a website several years ago for incontinent people, but even they thought I was strange because I like wearing my diapers. One would think they would understand. I hope things are different here. I have read several posts prior to joining and I think maybe I am at the right place.