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i watched the video and turned on subtitles, and she said that "trichophilia" is specifically the diaper fetishism. that doesn't check against all the other sources i can find; i think trichophilia is a hair fetish. so i think she got her notes mixed up. :-)

i don't know why some people have such a phobia about private messages. it's like being left a voicemail; you're not obligated to respond. they're useful for sensitive or personal topics and long "sidebar" conversations, but general chatter is what keeps the place lively and interesting. i try not to let chat become a place where people go just to split off into separate private messaging sessions. i agree with the difference between ab chat and dl chat. abies seem to have a persona that they exercise in the chatroom; dls just like to talk about their favorite underwear. it gets kinda repetitive. so i encourage all kinds of conversation in the same chatroom. does anybody know if you can get to this chatroom through an irc client?

my wife accepts my diaper hobby. surprisingly, when i told her that i like to wear diapers, the most memorable part for her wasn't the message but the fact we were an hour away from her house on a road trip to texas, and the way i opened the conversation so hesitantly made her think i was going to tell her i was a serial killer or something :-P i tried to be confident and non-apologetic, but i still made her really nervous. then when i did tell her she basically said "oh, is that all? i've known guys who like a lot stranger stuff than that." :-) don't wait too long, or make too much of a big deal about it!

i've thrown away quite a few bags of stuff that would now make me some good money in vintage resale... but it's not like i would have kept it in good condition anyhow ;-)

adult baby nurseries aren't the kind of place someone visits out of idle curiosity, or on a dare, or just because it's in the neighborhood. a person is either a potential/former customer, or has absolutely no interest. so all things considered, i thought the comments were very positive! "ew, i can't imagine doing that! but whatever, more power to them, it's generally harmless, who am i to say they can't." :-) and it plants the seed in random people's heads that makes the idea a little less scary.

i'm sure he didn't mean to hurt the feelings... of the diapers. ..?! good luck with the bph, pads n pullups! i hope you find a way to be comfortable (or at least not mortified and reclusive!) while you find a way to manage the trouble. and don't worry about "working on becoming" a dl; we'll be around either way in case you want to chat. even those of us with annoyingly reliable bladders :-)

i agree with pangaea.

it's a monthlong series of four evenings, and it would be purely awesome. you are requested to fill out the application by hand (with crayon art encouraged) and name your own price($333-$999) to contribute. and it's in brooklyn, new york city, u.s.a. but check out the website and experience happy jealous joy :-D http://michellejoni.com/preschool-mastermind

part of "15 people who shared too much on facebook": http://www.playboy.com/galleries/people-shared-too-much-facebook/slide-5

i identify as straight, i've got a wife and three kids, sex is fun and feels good, and i especially enjoy giving her oral sex, so i figure i'm straight. i'm not effeminate, and i don't go around talking about sex. i don't like sex videos, or naked bodies in general. i have never even looked at a girl or guy and thought "damn!" except maybe when watching a nicely muscled guy in gym clothes, especially one who can climb up things monkey-style... but that's just because i know that level of fitness took time and practice and it is impressive. i don't like women in diapers, and never wanted a "little girl / daddy" relationship. if my wife suddenly started needing diapers that would be okay, i would not mind at all, and i would give her no hassle about that, ever. but it just wouldn't turn me on. i do very much like wearing and wetting diapers! and i also like "diaper rubbing/humping" videos starring guys in wet (not poopy) diapers. never any visible private parts, and sometimes no visible diaper either, but you know it's there. and the guy grinds on his pillow, or rubs his crotch (no slapping it though) or wiggles around on his bed... and you can tell when he explodes into his wet diaper. and i imagine afterwards maybe he falls asleep, or takes a shower and changes, or just goes on with his day. it's perfect and clean(ish) and harmless, and not even really pornographic. :-D so, i guess i'm a straight diapersexual!

silicone foley catheters are amazing. an infection that made one of my testicles the size of a kiwifruit was indescribably painful and was far beyond the opposite of amazing. so, no more catheter play for this guy.

welcome to dd :-) there's bunches of cool people here! and also me. :-D

no. i do find myself rubbing other people's diapers, though. and then i find myself waking up on the floor with a hurt face, a tooth missing, and a bad headache. how strange! just kidding! :-P

i am more likely to have a conversation here on a message board, and only take it to private messages if it really becomes necessary. e-mail seems a bit sneaky and stalkerish when i'm already on the forum. it's almost like a forum conversation is happening at one table in a large room, so anyone can hear if they want to. private messaging is like when you and someone else step out in the hallway; you're still in the same place but nobody else (except those who review the security tapes) can hear you. e-mail is like asking someone to hop in your car - it's the most private but it's a different place. so please don't worry if nobody has e-mailed you. i notice that you're 18 and joined three months ago. welcome! your other posts are really solid, though i'd recommend you introduce yourself sometime ;-) you'll make plenty of friends after a while if you are easy to read and you let people get to know you.

if you're willing to build it outside, you'd end up with something like a tire swing but different. find a tree branch with sufficient strength and bounce, a piece of steel pipe, and (most difficult) the same kind of harness rig. it actually sounds hella fun! i remember my little sisters using one of these, it was called a "johnny jump-up" and it attached to the top of a door frame. good luck!

i wish i could pop by fort wayne just to visit this store!

i pee whenever i'm pooping too. it's partially because i'm bearing down on my pelvic muscles so they're both easy to do, and also because i'm conditioned to - where my poop goes, my pee won't make much difference. no problem. what i find more annoying is if i go jogging in a diaper and i find i have to poop. if i do, sweat and friction will cause skin problems and undesirable cleanup issues, so i usually don't. but each time i try to pee my diaper a little bit my body reminds me i should poop too! arggh! ;-)

i don't picture a mummy or daddy, but i might enjoy a road trip with a "big brother". my three favorite things to hear would be: 1. "don't worry little guy, that's why you have a diaper on!" 2. "we're in a hurry. just go in your diaper." 3. "we have a whole bag of diapers and some extra shorts in the trunk, when we stop for gas you can go change if you need to."

wow, you've been lucky, lumia! all i can usually find at thrift stores are variety bags of unknown-sized kendall wings, or depend underwear. i have had more luck on craigslist; i search for "adult diaper" once in a while and hit up garage sales if they're interesting. the last one i went to i bought 4 packs of 22 plastic attends for $20 :-) the funny/awkward part is that she noticed i went straight to the diapers and picked them up to look at them, so she asked if i saw them on craigslist, and i said yes and blushed a little ;-) i was on lunch break and was wearing my work outfit with my nametag on the front :-)

i'm still hovering around 190 for years now as a 5'7" 35-year-old. down to 175 briefly, up to 205 briefly, 189.6 as of this morning. i am happy that i'm in the "overweight" bmi range and not "obese" at the moment, and that i can run a mile in 8 minutes and a 5k under 30 minutes. i am running often but i need to start doing some weight training too. my current goal is 159 pounds because it is in the "normal" bmi range, but i have no reason to get there in a hurry. i don't want to starve myself either. good luck to everyone and good health!

cool story bro! ;-)

if you see someone buying shoes, do you ponder who they're for? what size they are, if they might be for the buyer or for someone else, if they're gender appropriate... maybe you wonder if the person who is buying the shoes might look really good wearing them? you might! and anybody might. having "a thing" for shoes is more common than having one for diapers. but who is more memorable, a guy who just buys stuff at the register like it's normal, or a nervous guy who has "shoes size 10 red" on his paper list (like a little kid) and in the middle of the transaction he says "uh,they're for my girlfriend"? so i recommend not starting down the slippery slope of pretending you need a backstory, shopping list, or especially any kind of excuse. it implies that by buying diapers you're doing something wrong, and you're not. :-)

i recommend doing it until it doesn't feel so weird :-) i have bought diapers in crowded stores, at lunch rush, in my work uniform with my name on it. i've kept them in my car even though security could search it. it's not illegal, and it's only as awkward as you make it.

my friend shippofox is usually more literate than the above poster, who joined [dd] two days ago and has made only one post (above) so far. shippo, if that is you and you were just drunk or tired or something, then never mind :-)

... now with extra spain!