Aurelius

Writing some major papers/reading is always annoying, but I normally get to it promptly. It would be worse getting a rash (although this has never happened so far).

Keep it up DD

With due respect, as long as these people have sorted everything through properly, there should be no reason they should not be allowed to pursue such an important desire of theirs. It's the odd little things like this that ultimately make us human beings. And nothing on this earth is stranger than human beings. That said, it is indeed odd! Then again, there are numerous ABDLs who have no problem making themselves incontinent, so. Vera does look amazing, I must admit.

I shaved around 15-16 and have ever since. I've been maniacally removing the rest of my body hair as much as possible too, recently. Recently I've been feeling much better about being androgynous, or possibly even transgendering, but I can't say for sure. It's early days for this for me. That hair's gotta go though!

I agree depends are awkward. Try something better

I've always been bi, but have had few opportunities to make anything of it (similarly there have been few girls I have ever been interested in). I've always known it but considered myself leaning straight, until recently. I've also always preffered to be mostly masculine in character but feminine in manner. That general way of being has been dynamite for me and worked excellently, until recently. There are several guys I really like whom I wish to become involved with (one of which is undoubtedly straight but we will still make great friends, I know it) but in addition I can so easily see myself as feminine, to some degree, in appearance and perhaps even form. And increasingly. I'm still not sure how far I'll end up taking it, but it is unnerving the hell out of me because it might just change everything and I could easily be carried away. And just when I thought my life had reached an equilibrium :/ It scares me even though the concept is very familiar to me (I have suspicions that someone I liked was transgendered, she was tall, lower voice than usual, ~masculinish hands but far more beautiful than the vast majority of girls, despite. Normally wore relatively neutral clothing.) and I've been thinking about it, on-again-off-again for a long time. When I was about 14-15 I considered the possibility of some level of transgendering but I considered it 'just a phase'. Now I'm beginning to wonder. I see diapers as feminine, if anything, so that won't be a conflict. But I really don't know where I'm going with this, but I guess I'm about to find out. Any input would be useful.

Wonderful. I wasn't able to try until I just before I turned 18 too. It was awful not being able to do much before I turned 18, but this is just what happened. I felt godly and enlightened when I first was able to just try and wear all the time with little fear. Truly one of the best experiences of my life.

Congratulations on discovering the best fetish! I initially bought at pharmacies/chemists (etc) but now buy at a specialist shop. See if you can find a specialist shop - it could even be decently close by. You might get some crappy store brands (depend, tena, whatever) to try to begin with. If so, all the advice we could give you is just to do it. Be careful and fast (but not suspiciously fast) and preferably wait until there is a register available so you can leave quickly. You can buy powder with other things without it being seen as suspicious, but wipes are fairly obvious. I've recently overcome all nervousness about this. Hypothetically (nobody has brought it up yet, out of due politeness) "Are those for you?" "Yes, they are my fetish. I wear them as much as I can and I adore them dearly, thankyou. You might try them sometime *smug grin*." "..." *strange looks, but not a care in the cosmos*

I feel awful for the environment, but it's worth it

I would normally have a simple answer here, but... Very recently, I've been having some (so far minor, but still concerning) gender identity issues, so my sexuality is going a little haywire right now. Partly as a result, I am wearing less often. On the other hand, I see diapers as feminine, so most likely my interests are compatible. No question that I love them as much as ever. I may end up just embarking on a path of mild androgyny, but honestly I have no idea where this is going. I've secretly liked many guys over the years but, although never really denying it, I never made anything of it. Consequently, I'm finding myself at another crossroads and I really have no idea how this is going to play out. At the end of the day, I'm sure my fetish will remain, but anything could happen. By and large I love diapers even more than when it all began. Normally when there's a dip in my sexual activity it is because of returning to work/study and stress. My sexual energy is generally not a problem. Comfortable as hell, as ever

It's very frustrating, isn't it? The part that concerns me most is that plenty of people are convicted on very little or even no evidence. At least with diaper fetish it is possible to conceal it to the extent that very few people will know or care. Plenty of other fetishists have it much harder than us! Although, I agree it really does hurt our ability to identify as ABDL in a way which is quite crushing, more so considering its relative popularity.

Not bad, not bad. I generally don't like popular music, but any likeable ABDL exposure is good.

Yes, it is annoying.

I haven't considered Assurance. May look into them. Thankyou.

That's odd. It's good enough that she tolerates it without engaging, but you might have expected at least a little transperancy. Congratulations, of course. As for my problems, well, I'm just going to have to wait and see. You never know what might happen, especially with me. My life has already taken some surprising and jerky twists and turns.

Odour is normally the biggest giveaway (more so than light crinkling). Make sure your urine is dilute by drinking lots of water and use powder.

Four days, I believe. Well worth it. I would do it a lot more but my biggest issue is that I can not easily buy them and therefore not that often, so I can't do it all that often.

I play games to relieve stress. Wearing a diaper doing so and listening to some chillout music (etc) is the way to go for me.

Why in the name of Satan's knob should you not make the most of this excellent fetish which does no harm to anyone? Take heart: Soon they will not matter. Why would you want advice from girls? What can they tell you regarding this that you do not already know? Girls are complicated, my friend, and no two yield the same situation - least of all regarding a fetish. Do you want to wear diapers and enjoy yourself? You might as well. What harm could possibly come? Having an ordinary relationship with someone is actually more likely to get you in some trouble somewhere down the line. Wearing a diaper is comfortable, safe and hot Be the best person you can be and do not be afraid of wearing if you see fit. If you are not 'ethically' allowed to do (reasonably) that then it's a dodgy moral system. The only reason I don't wear all the time is because it's fairly hard for me to buy them. Normally we have little to lose.

Those look excellent. I'd love to try them, but...

It is very tough to quit and you would need all the professional help you could get. I tried when I was 15 and it was a disaster and my desires were actually strengthened (at least 'consolidated') by that. Very bad idea. Here's an idea: Dump her ass. I would.

I dislike sneaky tricks too. A good idea is to just lie/cuddle together diapered and make her comfortable. If she finds it's too much then back down, but most likely she'll be okay with that. At least once in a while, and when you've settled in after a while you might try something more. Baby steps

I really don't know yet whether I'm submissive/dominant or sadist/masochist as yet. I suspect I enjoy both but it isn't something I've looked into all that much.

The other day I heard the song 'playground' by Sia on the radio. It sounds as though she could possibly be talking about AB stuff. Don't really remember the song though, I was just thinking at the time. Either way, it was a cute song.

I'm very aware that I have serious problems when it comes to the possibility of dating. My girlfriends record is not good - in fact it is blank. I have never had a girlfriend, although I have had one or two decent oppurtunities if I had been a little more agressive (although honestly both would have ended in failure - neither are in the country any longer and at least one of the two was just doomed to fail - not that hormones care for practicality). My close circle of trusted friends is enough, though, ultimately. I make what I can of every day and that's always enough. What troubles me is that I am way too suspicious of the vast majority of girls - even girls I get along with reasonably well. I know that if a relationship is going to be more trouble than its worth that it isn't really worth pursuing, with so many other great things to be doing. The end result is I don't date and just work-study-relax a little more. Actually that cycle is extremely effective now that I'm adjusting to life without a girlfriend. For what it's worth though, relatively few people I know are pursuing relationships right now - I am definitely not alone here.