Toddler Pampers

The wife and I were out some years ago when there was trouble with a guy in the parking lot, probably drunk. He was being very abusive from some distance away, with cars between us. I called him over, like you do to see if he’s serious. But don’t call if you’re not serious, because he just might think he’s calling a bluff, and then you’d better have a pretty good hand, right or left, it doesn’t matter, but it had better be quick. Well, I do have a pretty good right hand, and it’s plenty quick. That turd had a busted nose before he was even done walking over. And speaking of over, I finished by stepping over him, the ultimate insult to a man you’ve just bloodied. My wife and I don’t talk about that night, but she held my hand very tightly afterwards, and I know she hasn’t forgotten.

We're all 'just sayn (not judging)'. Of course, that's total bullshit. Now when you hear somebody say 'just sayn', you know they weren't just sayn, but judgn. If the point is that men don't know how women feel because men aren't women, I can't disagree. But men can and do know women, at least generally speaking. Obviously, they do. There is nothing wrong with hazarding a guess. Yes, it's just a guess. Nobody, I would hope, would claim to know the truth, though it might come out like that (just direct speech). Let's get back to the main subject, which we are all perfectly fine to speculate about, in spite of our imperfect vantage points.

Neighbor lady saw me in my own back yard once, and called the cops. I saw them cruise by, and they never come down our dead end road unless responding. I live way out in the country, on five acres, as does everybody around me. Went out to dump the compost, end of summer, nice morning, during the week. I thought for sure she was at work, but she wasn't, and I found out later that her daughter had had a baby and was there for help. Not really sure who saw. If the daughter saw, I think she was just freaked, overly protective and overreacted. If it was the old lady homeowner, then it has to be said she might not really have been bothered, but was simply coming back at me for making her put up a fence to keep her dogs off my property. She actually told me that in the country it was unreasonable to ask others to erect fences. I told her strong fences make good neighbors, it cost her some money, and resulted in her calling the cops when she got the chance. Bitch. Has to be said that I shouldn't have been going outside wearing only a diaper, even if I thought nobody was going to see. I might have a right to do it, but nothing would be worse than being hauled off to jail wearing just a diaper. People have to realize that the cop you're dealing with might just be having a very bad day. Not worth it.

A woman who is very dominant might like the idea of men, especially her guy, in diapers. Nothing says dependency like a human baby, and nothing says baby like diapers. Power and control are staples of BDSM. So there are definitely women out there who might go for diapered guys. But not even all the gals who want to rack a guy and rape him with a strap-on will delight in the idea of making him mess his pants like a baby, and wear his dirty diaper for a while. And, basically, if you like the idea of a daddy, you don’t want to see guys in diapers. On the other hand, lots of men want mommies, and while mommies don’t wear diapers, just change them (unless things get really kinky! ), these same guys are likely very happy if mommy transforms into diapered little girl, a playmate or a baby they are caring for. So, here it is: When it comes to wearing diapers, most men are switches, while women rarely are.

Just to be clear, I think that 'holding ourselves to a higher standard' could be a slippery slope. What you said, DailyDi, about the source of the pics, demands their removal. What I'm saying is that some people might say we need to purge absolutely every image of kids in diapers. I don't agree. That would include diaper commercials, and these always show adult females as well. Now, you can say it's the kids that really turn me on, but I won't back down, because that's not true. As I said, be very suspicious of media that shows just kids in diapers, but to delete everything showing kids in diapers is overreacting and the kind of self-censorship that is ultimately counterproductive.

You're right, DailyDi, we need to hear from more women on this. Naughty Ashes doesn't say why she doesn't go for guys in diapers, but I suspect it is precisely because she is female. I'll say it again, biology at work here. Now, I can add that my wife is more comfortable with me babying her than she is with me, the baby. I am very much the pleaser in the bedroom, but when I've done my job, and it's my turn, I love to see her suck her thumb. She does it for me, but a little reluctantly. She doesn't like to play the dependent one, but she's a lot more comfortable with being my 'baby' than she is with me being hers, that's for sure. And, again, this is perfectly normal if biology determines what's normal.

Again, I didn't see the pics, but I think they were probably pics of kids wearing diapers, nothing overtly sexual, but potentially misinterpreted. This is my whole point though. Self-censorship is great as long as it doesn't end up in recreational diaper wearing being criminalized. Lots of vanilla people see the worst in this, and if we give them more than they deserve, we only hurt ourselves, and only have ourselves to blame for our image. Again, there is nothing per se wrong with images of kids in diapers. I point to the old TV diaper commercials that also feature beautiful mommies. When we yank them, we are caving in, in my opinion. As for media that features only diapered children, like I suspect these pics did, yeah, that's gotta go.

What if you're wearing a diaper and a gun holster? Or, better yet, wearing a diaper and holding a gun? I think then my wife might just walk out. But, seriously, so much of life is a mind game. I do find it strange that my wife can compartmentalize it all so well. She's seen me diapered before; that's how we know she is really turned off by it. So why doesn't she 'recall' this image better? I dunno, but I'm glad she doesn't, cuz I need her just as much as she needs me.

It's a funny thing. My wife is an MD; obviously, she doesn't need providing for. It's not necessarily money. I do know, however, that she doesn't like being home alone. A man wearing a diaper just shatters her confidence in me as somebody who could defend her if needed. Of course, it makes more sense to just dial 911, but the point is that this is all rooted in biology, not rationality.

Do you mean prints all over, or just a colorful landing strip for the tapes? But, yes, generally speaking, adult diapers look like they belong in the nursing home, not the nursery. I don't wear Bambinos, etc., but that's the right idea. Gotta be something about them that says, 'I wear for fun, not because I'm infirm.'

I didn't see the pics, so I don't know if it was truly a problem. While I in no way condone pedophilia, I want to make the point that just wearing diapers with pleasure is pedophilic in the eyes of many. I have long believed that TV diaper commercials are fine, even though they show kids in diapers. They also show the glorious mommies, so loving and caring, and discussing diapers. That's what I go for, not the kids. So it's a slippery slope. I think we have to stand up to the vanilla world at some point and say, no, your INTERPRETATION is invalid, untrue. I think if we don't, then just enjoying diapers, which so many of us do for making us feel like babies, will be evidence of pedophilia at some point. Final words: Give them an inch, they'll take a mile. It's not what they call you, it's what you answer to.

In a word, stereotypes. My wife is just fine with me wearing diapers. We even talk about it some. What she absolutely can't stand though, is seeing me diapered. What I know about her explains why. She has this image of me as a protector, a guy who will take care of her if she's threatened. That image completely disappears if she sees me diapered, and it unsettles her given her main image of me. If there's one thing that explains why women don't like seeing men in diapers, it's that it crashes their image of them as protectors or providers in some way.

No, , is what I said all along. To me, What the fuck? implies that you think what the other person has said is flawed. What I should have said is what I've been saying ever since that first post: Don't put a post about being diapered into a ball in the BABY forum. To me it sounds double kinky, and goes in the BDSM forum. He doesn't have to put it there, of course, but I still don't see why it's so condemnable to suggest that. If you don't like my style, fine, I can understand that. But lots of people 'correct' others about where they are putting their posts.

For Christine Daryleanne: You're making the assumption that everybody who plays baby is pretending to be themselves. BAD assumption. If I was pretending to be mini me, you're right that disposable diapers would be inaccurate. But I'm not pretending to be me, just any old baby, a girl actually if I had to choose. IS IT WRONG FOR ME TO PRETEND I'M A GIRL WHEN I WASN'T AS A BABY, AM NOT NOW, AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE OUTSIDE OF PLAYING BABY? Is that what you're saying? Again, I believe there is such a thing as realism when it comes to playing baby. There is a fair amount of 'slop' in the definition of babyishness, but being diapered into a ball, like wearing burlap, falls more into the BDSM category, in my opinion.

The point has been made that we all have different realities. In that we all have different histories, that is true. But what is so wrong with saying, 'That doesn't sound very babyish to me.'? Indeed, maybe I go on to say, getting diapered into a ball sounds more like BDSM. Is all that matters is that the OP said it makes him feel like a baby? Why can't I say There's even an emoticon for my reaction!

mooglelove, your spin is that when somebody invokes realism ('make me feel more like a baby'), they don't really, or necessarily, mean what that says to the average person. Maybe the OP didn't mean a REAL baby. But maybe he did (and I think he definitely did). Now you're right, lots of people in the ABDL world are doing things that would never happen in the real world. Mommy would never diaper with burlap but I like to fantasize that she does, not because I claim it makes me feel like a baby, but because I kinda like the idea of being tortured. I really have to disagree with the statement that babyishness isn't a function of similarity to genuine articles. Again, I'm not saying the OP couldn't be getting a charge out of being diapered into a ball, just that it's not babyish, even if he claims it is. Good lord, this place is just too PC for me I think.

Christine Daryleanne makes the point that because I was born in the early ‘60s, I can’t feel babyish wearing disposable diapers. What rubbish! This all got started because I called out the OP for claiming that four layers of oversized prefolds was a babyish look. Not even a babyish feel I would say. No baby ever wore a diaper like that, because no mommy would ever think to do that. Did a baby ever wear Pampers in 1980? Oh, yes. Did I? Unfortunately, no. But realism is defined by the diapers, not the person wearing them, genius! To use your analogy, you’re saying Civil War reenactments can never be completely (or even all that) real, not because they can’t look completely real, but because the people in them aren’t that old. Lotsa dull tools in this shed, I’m afraid.

Naughty Ashes says I’m bad for saying that the OP can’t possibly feel babyish in FOUR OVERSIZED prefolds, because no baby ever wore four, and because no loving, caring mommy would ever think to use four. Of course, to each his own. I’m not saying the OP can’t possibly be turned on by what he does; I said it sounds like a kink on a kink, sort of like saying you like burlap for diapers. I have no problem with that. I just think it is a complete flight of fancy to say burlap is babyish to you. It’s sort of like when people post in the wrong forum. Lots of people, myself included, sense a relationship between diapers and bondage. For me, this connection is very mild, basically the mind game that I’m a baby and mommy decides when diapers are checked and changed, and maybe I don’t think I need to be diapered for bed, but that isn’t my call. The OP is probably enjoying a feeling of being tied up with so many diapers, perhaps even humiliated. So, Ashes, if I had said that the OP’s fantasy should be expressed in the BDSM, instead of the Baby, forum, would you have liked it better?

Why a diaper that a baby would never wear (and a mother would never use) would make you feel like a baby, I have no idea at all. FOUR OVERSIZED prefolds? I have to say that I would call this a kink on top of a kink, which is fine, but it's absurd to claim that something so ridiculous would make you feel like a baby. Now, I realize you're into cloth, but if you were into disposables, this is what I wear to feel like a baby, and I think why is pretty obvious: REALISM.

Sorry for 'spamming'. Here's the reason I did it: I think that people tend to visit just one or two areas of the forum. I didn't want to miss anybody with information. You can be the spam police if you want, but do you see it's not really spam in this case? If it was, I probably would have posted in 24 categories, not just the four where I reasonably felt people with information might be.

I have heard a rumor that Gerber once made plastic panties in adult sizes. If they did, it was quite a long time ago. I have called Gerber to try to solve the mystery, but nobody I’ve talked to knows for sure, one way or the other. What is known is that the ladies who ran Vinyl Incontinent Products worked for Gerber, and that VIP’s pants were more like those made by Gerber (for babies) than any other manufacturer of adult sizes. Sadly, VIP has been out of business for about three years now, and, somewhat incredibly, people pay BIG $$ for that label today, even used pairs: http://cgi.ebay.com/...em=150508785273 Anybody with any knowledge concerning Gerber-made, pull-on plastic panties in adult sizes please comment. Thank you.

I'm a purely recreational wearer, fortunately. I actually think I'd stop liking being diapered if I was for incontinence. I wear diapers because I enjoy pretending to be a baby, and I think the mother/child relationship is behind it, but I can't be specific. I've got memories of other kids in diapers that go way back, well before I decided I wanted to wear them again.

It is a rare, perhaps unique, ABDL who has not been distressed at some point by their opprobrious, objectionable and otherwise frowned upon use of diapers and baby accessories. “You know it’s wrong.

Very cool. Sometimes the underdog wins. That's why they play the game.

This will sound strange, but I suspect it’s not uncommon: I like to converse with myself about diapers. I’m AB, but always a man, which is to say I love roleplaying a baby, but don’t fantasize about actually being one. My conversations involve a woman who has just become aware that I’m diapered, the babyishness of the diaper leaving no doubt that I’m roleplaying. Rather redundantly (because she is quite surprised by what she sees), she asks me if I like to wear diapers, if they make me feel like a baby, and if I like how that feels. She is somewhat shocked, but also intrigued, even understanding, definitely not hostile (how my wife feels about the whole thing, actually). Anybody else like conversing with themselves?