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For anybody looking for Segufix gear, bondage straps for the bed, try: www.airoliver.de. It's Save Express from Germany, the prices seem fair and they ship to the US. Have fun!

For those looking for Segufix gear, try: www.airoliver.de It's called Save Express, from Germany, and prices seem fair. They ship to the US and have lots more than this bondage gear.

For those looking for diaper bondage gear, especially Segufix, it is readily available from Germany from Save Express: www.airoliver.de. Look in the Reha file, left side of page, toward the bottom of the index. Prices seem fair and they ship to the US.

Fabulous article on diapers as bondage. Primo. Brings to mind all sorts of fun scenarios for me that have been rattling around in MY cranium for a long time. Question came up about Segufix equipment? Available readily from Germany at: www.airoliver.de also known as Save Express. They ship to the US. Prices seem to be pretty reasonable, too.

Male, 52, DL, north of Muskegon. Open to meeting anyboy like-minded in the area. Prefer no farther than Grand Rapids for meeting.

What do I love about diapers? What makes me a DL? I LOVE being IN diapers, and USING them, fully as intended, under regular clothes. That makeds me a DL. What do I love about diapers? At 52, I love cloth diapers. I love the need for plastic pants over them. I love the way it feels as wetness wicks up into the diaper, you can feel it, you can savor the hot wetness(until it cools down, and then it's just clammy. LOL), you KNOW when the diaper is used up BEFORE it starts to leak. I love the bulk when I want to be bulky. I love the way a cloth diaper traps a BM way better than disposables - there's more room for the poo to go. I like a lot of disposables, too. Very practical, very handy. I just worry about the amount of waste we add to land fills, and more, when garbage is dumped into the ocean to get rid of it!I love to be different. I love to feel decadent wearing and using my diapers under my regular clothes with no one else knowing unless EYE want them to. The more normal we make things, the more normal they may become to others.

Wet and delightfully messy cloth diaper that I actually bought at a baby diaper service that had adult diapers, and delivery to adults, 25 years ago. Yes, they've been repaired but are still serviceable. Plastic pants and pins came from via mail order. Cloth diapers, plastic pants, pins, and disposable diapers are all available mail order via the internet.

I AM a DL because diapers, their wear and use, ARE my main focus. Yes, there are shades of grey, like maybe using a pacifier or bondage mittens. But, I don't want or need baby props, games or scenarios. I am fulfilled wearing and using diapers, especially under regular clothes, out in public. And, it gives me a sense of decadence to tell society - with whatever standards IT would impose - to blow it out their nose! Diapers rule. I've known that and enjoyed that for 40 years!

I identify myself as DL. That says it all. I am a diaper lover. I love to wear and use diapers for their intended purpose. Fully. While I have things that would spill over into the AB world, like a pacifier, or bondage mittens, my primary focus is wearing and using diapers to my heart's content, with no one else knowing. I'm discreet, but love feeling and being decadent, by society's standards. ABs have their thing, and I applaud them for exploring that side of themselves. THAT says it all, too. Adult BABY - with all the ramifications of what a baby IS and a baby DOES and how a baby LIVES. And, of course, there will always be shades of grey in any kink or fetish. We can always split hairs, but for this forum, it will be nice to talk just being a diaper lover, with those ramifications, and not have to deal with those who choose to regress and spend time in the baby world. And, the more normal we make our world, maybe the more normal it will become.

I met my current SO at Chemistry.com. I've been so naive and uninformed, living in the sticks in Michigan, I was never able to tap into any fetish pipelines or AB/DL pipelines beyond DPF back in the snail-mail days. I knew this woman was special, so before we went very far, I decided to make my "revelation". I had some relationships, via online dating, Yahoo Personals, American Singles, Match, eHarmony, that definitely weren't "the one", and I decided in each case what to say and WHEN. Some embraced my DL, some did not and couldn't handle it. I decided I wouldn't waste time and risk breaking my heart - I don't WANT to ever put my diapers away again or hide them - and reveal my "deep dark secret" early on. If I knew then what I know now, I would have had more opportunities to hook up with a female DL I've so craved over the years. But, I have acceptance, with the promise and hopes of more, and have met my soul-mate. So, I will enjoy my diaper life and not have to compromise. If she loves me, she will accept me as I am. She says she does, and says she has.

Fascinating thoughts. I am a 40 year DL and love it. I love my DL life and wouldn't change a thing - except my diapers! - though I've beaten myself up for being "different". I can remember at age 5 being entranced by the puffy underwear babies wore, and the swishing sound the plastic pants made and how the plastics looked encasing the thick, soft, white diapers, with the intoxicating aroma of the "diaseptic process", of diapers coming from a diaper service. I was too big for baby diapers, but already I had generated a desire to be dressed again in those puffy diapers with plastic pants. No conscious memory of WHY. My ex chose to use my diaper fetishism against me in the divorce, even though she had participated with me, encouraged me and was acceptant. Of course, as time went on, and the marriage deteriorated, and I became more willing to be diapered at my whim, which was frequently, she accused me of loving diapers more than her. She may have been right at that point. I sure wasn't getting much out of my marriage. I blinked, of course, and it cost me 175K in the divorce. We never ended up in court, and I was not exposed. My lawyer assured me that I was NOT the first he'd represented that had diaper fetishism involved in a divorce proceedings. I was stunned. To keep from losing my kids, I had a psych profile done. Cost me $600 and I still haven't seen the results. It was to be proactive for court, to prove that I was sane, pretty normal and fit to be able to keep custody of my kids. The shrink assured me that as long as my fetishism was not interfering with and keepinf me from normal day to day activity, it wasn't a problem. I would be classic if I wanted to try and eliminate the fetish/leaning/HABIT/ADDICTION from my life. He said, unfortunately, it would take lots of time, lots of money, and merely TRADE one HABIT/ADDICTION for another! Refreshing, eh? A different slant on what the fetishism IS. I finally decided that I can't rid myself of this thing. I had my first conscious self-induced orgasm in a make-shift diaper at age 12. I'm sure I sealed my fate with that. And, I decided I'm going to sit back and enjoy. I love being diapered, albeit discreetly, out in public, under regular clothes. I delight in wetting and messing, having it all contained, with no one else knowing. I love feeling decadent as I do, scoffing at society and society's dictates. I'm hurting no one and with all the incons out there that NEED diapers, diapers are merely absorbent underwear, and can be used by ANYBODY, needed or not. The tough part is deciding, in quest for another relationship, if I am willing to sacrifice my pleasure derived from diapers for the sake of a relationship. Am I willing to compromise? Am I willing to put my diapers back into hiding if necessary for the sake of love for a partner? The answer is NO. So, embarking into dating and relationships, revelation of my "deep dark secret" comes early. With that card on the table, some relationships have ended immediately, and some it didn't matter, ending later as the person was definitely not "the one". I just wonder if the more normal we make our world and leanings, the more normal they will become to others in the grand scheme of things.

Male, 52, straight, long time DL, with SO, north of Muskegon.