Leilin

Honestly, the best you can do in that situation, if he does not want you to actually baby him (which I consider to be a very good thing), is to say that you love him no matter what (which I assume to be true, since you're here. ) and support him no matter what (which I will also take as a given). While he knows this, it's situations like this when that most needs to be said. Simply let him know that discretion is important in these situations, but that you're not going to tell him who to be because that's his choice. I made an assumption or two here, but you seem to be a very supportive parent, so kudos. You're doing the right thing by not flying off the handle.

Honestly, that just seems like a dodge to me. She can answer Paypal's message... but not yours?

Wow... less than a dollar a diaper, for me. I wont need to restock for a bit, but when I do, it'll be biancos next time, I think.

Wonderful, as always! You might want to note that the Plastic Mommy picture is linked with the ABhunnies link, however.

I remember you!

Hm. Well if you're in Northern California (The Bay Area, to be specific), you can go to Drug Barn, if they're still around. They stock Attends and are in Cupertino/Sunnyvale and Foster City, if I recall correctly. If you want Molicare, I've only seen them in one storefront and they still need to be special ordered, usually. They used to keep them in stock, as often as I ordered (as I wear for need), though, so perhaps they'd do the same for you. That was... darnit, I don't recall the exact name, though I can acquire it, but it was on Soquel Road in Santa Cruz.

Ah... 32 is edging into medium range anyway. She'd be a lot more comfortable in a Medium.

I -have- had plastic rip, but only when it's come off on account of too-adhered tapes (it happens frequently on Dry 24/7 diapers with me, as awesome as they are).

I'm beginning to wonder whether you aren't one of the people involved in the seemingly failed ABU venture. Their diaper looks nothing like and acts nothing like any baby or adult diaper and that is NOT a good thing. Your "experiences" with Bambino are so unique that you are either writing about them just to troll this thread or you are so singularly unlucky that your experiences are unique in your poor luck. We've heard your "Bambino are bad. ABU are good" schtick a few times and it doesn't actually stack up for anybody who's used both brands. Please, say something new or just say out.

What a great idea for him! ... as long as he doesn't mind living on the street after she kicks him out.

Another part of the review: As I worried, the small is too big on me. I'm 2-3 inches too small in the waist and hips for the velcro to effectively stick (due to limited range of the correct texture). The diaper itself is extremly comfortable, despite this, so I'm okay with it. However, due to the poor fit, which is no fault of the product's, I don't think I'll be buying another.

Well... the diaper arrived! It's very soft! Haven't used it, but I will upon sleeping. We'll see... For the sake of interest, I just popped a pic into my photo thread with me in the diaper. I may have to make it my profile pic. It's not bad-looking. :]

She'll take that as an indication that he no longer wishes to live in her house if she's even a partly proactive parent, so that might not be a wonderful idea. The simple solution is telling her the truth. Don't say "It could be worse. I could be gay" unless you know your mother to be insanely socially conservative and not have any gay friends because, frankly, that's flat-out insulting to gay people. However, "it could be worse and I could be doing drugs" might work better in your favor. The fact is that you need to judge for yourself how in-key, easygoing, and hands-off your mom is about letting you do your own thing and therefore decide whether she can take the information. It's up to you. But don't lie and don't offend her. Neither of those will benefit you or her.

I dunno. I find that article to be not only highly presumptive and full of overgeneralizations but also chock-full of misspellings and grammar errors. That is not something that I would use to exonerate our community to a thinking parent.

MMm... I used to do a lot of business with LSE back in the day because they were local to me. They make good stuff. If they made AIOs and got stuff out quickly, they'd be the only company that I do business with.

Hi! I noticed that there are no real reviews for this particular KINS product on the site, so far, and have ordered one. I shall have to write one, I think, but in the meantime, have any of you used this product? I'm very much on the small side, so I'm worried that it won't fit, however, it will be nice to have a nice cloth diaper in case of emergencies.

*shrug* Do what you will. Just know that from an outside perspective, it makes you seem very desperate and a little creepy. I know (or hope) that you are neither, but spamming like that gives the impression of both.

Is there any reason to repost this same thread four times? Why not just bump one of your old threads?

*grin* I guess that what I'm looking for in a diaper can be pointed out as something like Ebay's "Yuyun" with a few changes, then, to go the next step. I'd like to see something like that, but with prints, of course, and in cute colors as well. Are you considering a system of custom making each diaper, out of curiosity? What realm would you be thinking of charging in?

Interesting! I know that I've been, personally, looking for a decent All-in-one cloth diaper product in the US that is Velcro-closed (because I'm a very thin person and snaps tend to leave WAY too much extra room), and would personally love to see one of those in a decently thick form, as they're incredibly rare, it seems, unless you want to have them shipped from China, which I do not. The diapers that you make are very cute, so I'd love to see what you could do in that vein (which, for what it's worth, might capture the petite bedwetter who's aware of the ABDL community market. Namely, me. )

Hm. Well they're there now! It's just weird that it took so long. o_O I see the reasoning behind the moderator approval for posts, for sure. It just surprised me. D

This surprised me a bit...! Is there something in the Family and Friends forum that is preventing people from posting immediately? For some reason, a post that I made four days ago, and one today, are both not showing up and seemingly waiting for moderator confirmation. Is it me? Have I done something offensive to a mod without knowing it? ... or is this just normal and am I overreacting? Edit: Well this post came in just fine...

Odd... my post got eaten. Well I wanted to say that you need to be careful, here. Everybody here is giving you advice to do this or do that for your ex but the fact is that you need to be aware of what your ex wants. There are as many types of AB as there are people who might reasonably be described by the abbreviation, after all. Some of us don't much like the baby talk. Some people like it to be very sexual. Some like it to be not sexual at all. The important thing is to know what he wants and, if you don't, find out! Show an interest! That, alone, will help.

Errr.... I'd like to backtrack here. A lot of people are making generalizations to things that maybe you should do with 'all ABs.' If you did pretty much any of that stuff with ME, I'd freak out and run for the hills, so you should really make sure of what HE wants, not what 'all ABs want' before doing any of that.

Oddly, the smalls still feel exactly the same to me. *shrug*