hotpeepeeboy

I use shapeware to help cover some of the diaper bulge of the Abena X-Plus with a Pamper size 6 baby diaper doubler I enjoy wearing out in public. As this diaper combination get wet, it starts to sag, and the shapeware panty helps with the sagging like a onesie. I usually purchase these panties at Kmart in size 2X, mostly in white, but I have some in pink. When wetting my diaper I don't flood it, I'll let it out in short spurts to give the diaper a chance to absorbe the liquid. I have been using shapeware panties, with plastic pants over them, for several years now. They work well for me without any leakage issues, and no one has ever asked me if I was wearing a dipaer. This is just my 2 cents on this question.

For short outings of several hours or running errands I like to use Depends Adjustable Underware. I usually use a Booster pad with this to help absorbe the pee and try not to flood it. I've tried other types of underware and have found that others don't have the padding in the front for a male. I do like the bulk between my legs this product gives me. If I feel there is a chance I may leak while wearing these underware, I will ware plastic pants over them. I did learn the hard way some time ago about how these will leak. I made a fast trip to Home Depot about 8:00 P.M. one evening with a damp one on. While I was looking at some hardware I started to slowly pee, thinking I was safe. Next thing I know the pee is running down my left leg and dripping onto the floor in a small puddle. Luckily for me no one was in the isle, so I spread the puddle out with my shoe and went to the checkout. I was embrassed that I made a mess of their floor, and mad at myself for not wearing plastic pants when I knew the underware where already wet. As for briefs, I perfer Attends over Depends. The Attends 10, I purchase at a local medical supply store and feel I can wear one of these twice as long as a Depends, especially if I use a double or baby diaper inside. The cost trade is still higher, but the product, for me, is better.

I have 2 cloth pull-on diapers, one is a large and the other extra large, and each is 6 layers thick. I also have a 6 layer contured extra large stuffer that I put inside the large pull-on diaper. Then I put on the extra large pull-up over the rest. Now this is some serious bulk and my belly and butt are well padded. I could not close my legs together and had to waddle when walking. I wore extra large plastic pants over this diaper bulge. I used this as my night time diaper several times, when wife was away visiting family. I had some difficulty sleeping on my stomach and my back due to the bulk, but it was fun. Once all this cloth mass was wet with pee, it had to weight 8 ponds. Wet cloth diapers also sag alot, so I was thinking of using some suspenders to hold this up the next time I get to wear this. LOL!!!

Yesterday, Saturday, I left before dawn to attend an outdoor antique car parts flea market. After leaving the house I stopped at a secluded stop to change. Instead of the usual Attends 10 diaper and size 6 Pamper stuffer, I decided to try something different. I pulled on a belted undergarment and stuffed it with 2 extra long maxi pads; these overlapped slightly in the middle, but ran front to back and were taller than the front and back of the undergarment. Over these I tapped up a large Attends 10 diaper and a figure control panty to keep everything snug. This mix of pads, undergarment and diaper was thick, but not to bulky to hide under some large shorts. (75 and sunny here in Florida). I carried some snap-up plastic pants with me to use incase I felt I might leak or fill my diaper with a No. 2. After 7 hours of wearing this I stopped and changed on my way home. The pads, undergarment and diaper were very soaked, but no leaks. This was fun to wear and worked well. I like to wear thick/bulky diapers, so the next time I do this I am going to double up on the maxi pads, using 4 instead of 2. Enjoy your diapers and keep them wet!!

Currently I am at home and have my adult clothes on; can't wear diapers around the wife. However, last Saturday night I attended an outdoor tractor pull with my son and his very pregnant wife. It was cold, even in Florida, but under my jeans, t-shirt, sweat shirt and jacket I was wearing a Attend 10 with a size 6 Pampers as a doubler, and some clear snap on plastic pants to prevent any leaks. Over these I wore a white figure control panty to help hold all close to my body as I don't own a onesie. By the time the event was over I had made 3 large wettings and the Pampers was swelling up nicely. (I love wearing a thick, wet diaper in public without anyone knowing it). I stopped at a local bowling alley and changed before going home. My diaper wearing has been my personal secret for 52 years. Most all my wearing is done discreetly in public under my street clothes. In all though years no one has ever asked or said anything to me, even though I like my diapers thick. As I am now a senior citizen at 62, I could use the excuse that I have a bladder control problem, when in truth I love to pee and sometimes poop my pants in public. Be brave, wear your diapers discreetly in public and keep them wet! No one is going to say a thing, unless you want them to.

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Let me add my 2 cents here. I also enjoy using a butt plug before diapering. What I have found is you need a plug that has at least 1.5 inches of length between the rounded base of the plug and the end of the plug. This allows your anal ring to fully close and lock the plug inside. Most butt plugs don't have this length at the base and thus will nut stay in for any length of time. Size is also important; small ones will not stay in at all, they are to slender so your anal ring cannot hold onto it. A good medium size plug shaped as stated above, will fit most users very comfortably for extended periods of time. Color and overall shape is to you own liking, as is length and material type. I always cover my plug with a rubber and use plenty of lube. As you become use to having a plug inserted, and stretched, larger plugs can be used with added enjoyment. Finally. I like to wear a lady's thong panty over my plug to help hold it in place, especially when my body wants to push it out. Thie is worn under my diaper. I also wear a figure control panty over the outside my thick disposable diaper with doubler to help hold everything in place and reduce sagging, especially when very wet or pooped. This works like a onesie, but easier to remove and wash. (I especially love to poop the plug out and then have it slide back in when I'm done. The thong panty helps to hold the plug in. It's a big, big mess to clean up afterwards, but very enjoyable for me). With the correct shaped butt plug, you can have lots of fun and enjoyment.

I use both snap-on and pull-up plastic pants over both thick cloth and disposable diapers. Some of my snap-on pants are heavy vinyl from Comco and some a thinner from Fetware. All work well if you take care when unsnapping them so as not to overstress the snaps and tear the plastic. To me the snap-on pants are more babyish, I'm from the old school when all we wore was cloth diapers. They are much easier to change out in public and do allow air to cirulate. However, as stated by others, they do leak at night when sleeping on you side, as I do. The real point here is to enjoy what you purchased. No one can tell you if you made a good purchase or not, you must use them and judge for youself. I have been wearing diapers and plastic pants for avery long time and have my likes and dislikes. Others my or may not like or use what I like to wear. Example: I like thick cloth pull-up diapers over pin-on diapers. I sometimes wear two of these, in two different sizes, for extra bulk, while at other times I will use a 6 layer diaper insert/double in one pull-up. And depending on my liking I my use snap-on or pull-up plastic pants for day wear. I have purchased good quality items that did not last like they should. I've also purchased cheaper plastic pants that I was very happy with. Use the proper care and they will last, and make you a happy wearer. Don't forget to wash all cloth diapers several times before first wearing them. Let us know how you enjoyed your new items and how you rate them, so others will know.

I have been a DL for 50 years and I have worn about everything there is for a diaper. I have never told my wife, of 38 years, about my love of diapers, so I always have to wear out in public. Most of the time I use an Attends 10 with a Pamper size 6 as a soaker and plastic pants under shorts. Sometimes I will put on a thick cloth pullup with an cloth insert, makes me slightly waddle, under some baggy shorts and no one as ever said a thing. Of course, now that I am a senior, people may think that I need them so they don't give it a second look. As everyone has said, put on whatever diaper you want to wear and go out and have a great time!!!! Wet in it, mess it in and enjoy yourself. As long as you behave yourself no one will ever say a word to you.