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  1. With each item (regardless, whether it's hear, hand, tight or foot restraint) you have effectively 3 sections - the middle one, where the restraints you tie to the body are and the side straps. The side straps, moving in the direction from the middle section to the end, has:

    • special strap split and eyelets for the brass pin

    • eyelets through the whole strap to lock with the brass pin

    Both of these are further from the middle section in the Extended version.

    Hope that helps

  2. I have Segufix extended version and it easily fits double bed. There is still spare length, so I guess they should fit king and queen sizes as well. The extended version will definitely NOT fit single bed as the eyelets are some length away from the beginning of the straps.

    Hope that helps

  3. Can't agree more with all that's been said in this thread.

    Love is a strange beast and likes to surprise us when we least expect it ;) I remember the time I met my fiancée. As all of us at some point, I always had had this brilliant idea that I will find my partner on DD or similar place. This was not the case though. And she had absolutely no idea what an AB or DL may be (or any other of my fantasies). I have loved her from the very beginning and always wanted to be honest and open. So I told her everything. And she was OK about it. However, I've made a big big mistake. We are living in our private world, but for others it's completely alien place. A few words is not enough. In my case it appeared, that when I was talking about what I did or wanted to do, she thought it's a pure dream and nothing to be realized. And when at some point she realized, there is more to that than just a dream she was shocked...

    Thankfully we loved each other very much. And we talked and talked and talked. And now she understands most of it. It's unbelievable how difficult (if possible at all) it is to fully express one's feelings in the way other person can fully understand it the same way.

    So - keep talking. Keep expressing your feeling and listen to her feelings. A good exercise is for each of you to express your feelings and then the other one telling the same thing as she/he understands it. You'll soon discover that what is obvious for you may be completely unfathomable for her.

    From my experience I guess she may have the following reservations:

    • Is it something safe? Does it hurt you in any way?

    • Is it something more important than she is? Will she need to compete with it for you?

    A good starting point is that you understand it yourself and convey that she is the most important, no 1 in your live and you are ready to give up your diaper side if necessary. (If you are not, maybe she is not the one). It's a really good foundation to mutually agree you are the most important to each other. Once there, everything else is just being self. Diapers is the way we are. And since you accept each other fully she'll happily accept this part of you.

    Good luck :thumbsup:

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  4. It's been a while since I last visited [that site]. I remember it was one of the 1st sites where I found diaper stories. I guess it makes a lot of sense for one of us buying it and making sure it will not offer a disaster for whoever visits it.

    Any idea, how much do they want for it?

  5. I've been ordering from segufix-shop.de and airoliver.de and the former one, though a bit more expensive, proved to be a way quicker to deliver. Though both had no problems and were extremely reliable. And I agree - the feeling of a good set of Segufix and a thick nappy is reallllllllllllllllllllllly greaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!!!

  6. Indeed this is not easy. There is no a silver bullet, but you may try the following tips:

    - Try gradually from a standing to sitting to almost lying position

    - Try to visualize the flow of your urine

    - And last, but not least, try to have running water somewhere nearby. If e.g. your bedroom is close to a bathroom, the sound of water filling a bathtub is a great help.

    Hope that helps,

    Good Luck

    Closet Baby

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