diapergirl80

I put read it, but now that I've thought about it for 30 seconds: Of course I'd have to buy it to read it; I doubt the libraries here are going to pick up that one. So unless someone else buys it and loans it out to me, I'm sure I'd have to buy it. It would also depend on the angle of the book. If the author treats the ABDL community as circus freaks, I'm not really interested. I'd go more for an intelligent treatment of people who incorporate diaper play into the rest of their lives, and some interviews demonstrating the diversity of the community. Yeah.

I met my diaper-changer/boyfriend online. Neither of us was exactly looking for a relationship, but we hit it off well enough to want to meet up, and things just snowballed from there. On the opposite end of things, I do know two guys who managed to come out about their diaper wearing to their quite regular girlfriends. The women accepted it on different levels, but both of them are able to wear as they want. Unfortunately, I also talk to a lot of guys who are still looking for someone special. My best advice is not to give up hope, and not to be "blinded by the diaper." Online relationships are difficult to start and maintain and require a certain sort of person, and I know not everyone is up for confessing their innermost to a "regular" person. I don't know what the answer is, really. Patience, persistence, and politeness can't hurt.

It's nice to let them know that their product has gone downhill, but I doubt it will do much good. We (the diaper-wearing-mostly-for-fun folk) don't buy enough diapers to make a dent in their business. Products in the USA are designed to meet the needs of hospitals, nursing homes and other long term care facilities who are required to change diapers/briefs within a short time frame (usually something like every 2-3 hours). These companies won't pay for a quality brief that will be thrown away anyway. When they demand a cheaper brief, they'll get it. That said, I'm sure a few rational, calm letters from diaper wearers (avoiding the word "suck") are not completely without merit. I hope you hear something from the company--that alone would be encouraging.

I've always WANTED to wear, but it took me a long time to act on it all. I put 2 years, since it's been that long since I started wearing on a regular basis.

I'd hope such a place would have disposable seat covers or something... Or I could hope against hope that maybe "babies" could refrain from doing certain stinky activities in a restaurant (the incontinent are excused, of course).

^Red Bull Makes me puke. >Sitting around the house, taking up space. V What's the best book you've ever read?

^ 7 times > stressing over finals V Where do you want to be in 5 years? (oooh, serious question! )

Abena X-plus or Molicare Super, depending on what's in the house at the time. Pjs vary from a tank top to a onesie to pajamas with Tinkerbell to nothing but the diaper! I sleep with my Carebear, my bison, two cats and my boyfriend, when he's not at school.

Weird, I've been wearing diapers to work for well over a year now, and NO ONE has ever said anything to me about it. I've never told anyone, don't intend to (because it's not their business) but the average person will never notice unless maybe you're changing in the stall next to them. And if you're only wearing for fun, you have the luxury of wearing but not using or timing your wettings as to fit your break schedule, etc Second, most adults are not really aware of diaper/AB fetishes and that would not be the first thing they thought of if they saw you were in a diaper. Tell them you have poor bladder control, you were in a wreck, you have an infection, whatever--or just say you don't want to talk about it. If they are normal adults, they won't dwell on it either. I know that goes against the hopes of people who want to get "caught" but most people don't know, don't care, and won't bug you. Why on earth would you tell someone you wear diapers when you're applying for a job? Do you tell your future employers that you prefer boxers over briefs? Full-cut panties over thongs? Unless someone plans on walking around at work with no pants on, or with 5 Molicares somehow strapped to your butt (which indicates other larger problems that might make them unfit for work), it's not something other people will know about, or care about.

Hey, I didn't know you were a bedwetter! Add me to the short list. I can't seem to have a dry night anymore (not that I was ever really reliably dry)

I know this is a little old, but here is my warning about HDIS: They have sent me many catalogs in the mail since my order, and have even called me to ask how I was doing with their products! XP and Magic Medical are good, and have never sent me anything, ever.

You should register an LJ name, tell me what it is, and I'll add you to my friends list, and then you can read the whole thing. Right now I only have a few public entries, for various reasons.

Yeah, I think this poll has room for an "all of the above." Also add-- "Are you wearing now?" and "Do you poop them?"

There are some great replies on this thread. To throw my two cents into the pot: I am currently in a diaper relationship. It's actually how my boyfriend and I met, but it's not why we stay together. Ultimately, there has to be a lot more there besides a mutual affection for a certain butt covering. Your desire for "play" will ebb and flow over the years. Think of the purge cycle. Not saying you'll go into a full-out purge, but sometimes after a time of having needs fulfilled, the diapers will fade into the background for a while. If you have nothing else to talk about, it's going to be hard to keep things together. I wouldn't discount "regular" girls, if you find one who is super-adventurous or had a kink of her own. It depends on where you want to settle. Some people are thrilled if their partners will allow them to wear occaisonally, some want their partners to wear with them, etc. Have a realistic goal. Most of us will never find someone who wants us to wear 24/7 who is also compatible in other ways. Balance is key. Morv made some great points about mutual compatibility outside of diapers. There's also nothing wrong with dating women who aren't into diapers at all. It would probably go a long way toward buildign up your social skills. Best of luck!

Yay, another hot Kentucky diaper lover! Great pics, you are very lucky (but you already know that!) I wouldn't push the issue. Make sure she knows that you love it, and she will most likely continue to wear from to time....but a true diaper lover has to come to that on their own. She may never love them as much as you do, but again, be thankful for what you have. Btw, if you wanna talk (as a friendly face in the area) my email's on my profile. Good luck!

I'm not a mommy, or a true AB for that matter...I consider myself a DL and of course consider diapers to be a sexual item. But for a long time, I only liked looking at pics of girls in diapers, preferably wet ones. Now, I can also appreciate seeing a cute young man in a soaking wet diaper--even better if he's a little aroused underneath.