having a mommy or daddy brings the fantasy to real life, as for me ive never had a mommy or daddy although i now know women have more luv to give i look for ladies that cant have kids but want them then introduce them to the ab side of life h aving hugs and luv is great and every baby in here deserves luv and hugs no matter who u are thats why most of us are babies cuz we come from homes that nobody in them knows how to luv and comfort so i think we turn inwardly to find that luv at least for me thats what i want out of the ab lifestyle is sumbody that actually luvs me for me no matter what ive done or said or how bad im a screw up neways having a mommywould be great for me