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Thanks Firefly, I appreciate your response .

This is my first time considering a Daddy. Where do Boys looking for one go here in Daily Diapers?

I have been shaving my privates for a number of years. I prefer being smooth, and now hair seems very weird and uncomfortable. I simply use soap and a disposable razor while taking my shower with no problems. If you may experience a little bit of a rash in the beginning , but that will stop after a while.

Warpiper , thanks for responding and giving me a contact for the 5 snap onesie a babykins.com

Eight years ago I bought a onesie at adultdiaper.com in size small Tshirt style.

I have urge incontinence and need to wear disposable diapers more often lately.

So far I have purchased and worn Priva vinyl pants over my disposable diapers, but now I would like to try a new brand to compare. Would appreciate any recommendations of preferred brands, why you like them, and where to purchase them on the internet.

Glad you got up the courage to tell your wife, now you will have the chance to expand your desire of wearing diapers and other needed products to accompany them. I have found wearing a onsie is wonderful when you are out in public preventing any chance of your diaper ever showing at the top of your pants. Having it on also keeps your diaper nice and snug if you end up wetting.

I have tried my first onesie and like it very much. The company only offered it in baby blue, pink , or white. I bought white, but would also like to purchase a black one. If any one knows of a company that offers a larger color selection I would appreciate the information. Thanks, Gerald

I have read several times that using a Foley Catheter continuously for a number of years will weaken the sphincter muscle to the point that one becomes incontinent. Has anyone knowledge about this?

George: I agree with the majority that you should consider an alternative mean of becoming incontinent. As many have suggested, have yourself catheterized with a Foley indwelling type catheter. First, you will loose all control of your bladder and will have to wear a diaper or use a leg bag. If you continue catheterization for a long period of time I understand that it will weaken your sphincter muscle to the point that you will naturally become incontinent. If you choose, I have read that this may be reversed by certain exercises to strengthen the muscle again. Yes, you will have to be very carefull to prevent UTI , but this method will leave you with an option in the future.

Hi Phil: Don't feel alone, I believe so many of us guys sooner or later start to slip into incontinence in some degree before we realize what is going on. Once it has our attention we have to start learning ways to manage it. I also experience "after dripping" and lately have developed "urge" incontinence. I also use male guards and sleep in diapers. In the last 8 months I have gone to using some of the time an external catheter during the day. In regards to standing and urinating at home, you might try using a hand urinal and then emptying it into the toilet. For me it solved what you were talking about, no more wipe ups and splaters.

To answer your question, I recommend that you definitely use a disposable diaper not a pull up under wear style. Even though you are a thin man, I believe "small" must snitch up nice and tight around your waist, leaving you plenty of room in the pouch area to get an erection. As us men know, that is one of the plus points of wearing a diaper to bed or even during the day, we can masturbate and enjoy it knowing we have full protection. Don't forget, masturbation keeps your prostate healthy, so use those diapers .

I am courious of how many of you men got up the courage to finally admit to your wife or partner that you had a desire to wear a diaper to sleep in. Then once you got started wearing you discovered over time that you do drip during the night and now "they" expect you to be diapered when bed time comes, leaving you no choice.

Once you have decided to wear a diaper you will find it more enjoyable in several ways to have your pubic area completely shaved. Soon you will become addicted to being smooth and keeping your skin treated with lotion, oil, or powder.

I have been wearing a disposable diaper now to bed for the past three years. I believe a complete shave is important to enjoy the full sensation of the diaper, especially with the use of baby powder, lotion, or oil. Being smoothly shaven is much easier for washing and cleaning yourself if you choose to wet, basically more sanitary. The practice of total pubic shaving is becoming more and more popular for many men in general out side the diaper world. Once you done it, you will more likely find yourself hooked on being smooth from then on. Pad

Sparkylites: I am glad that you got your diaper desire resolved with your wife. You have a good strong marriage as long as each other is open minded and willing to understand the others needs, especially when it comes to a very personal non hurting topic as you wearing diapers. Now that the topic is fresh don't delay, buy your diapers. It sounds a though you want to wear them to bed, so once you start, be open and communicate how you like wearing them and the protection they provide you during night. However their protection factor may be more of an issue and need that you may have as a normal male , a fact that you never realized prior to wearing them. Glad to have you in the site, keep us posted on your progression. Pad

Hello, I found this site four years ago and was very surprised and amazed that adults would want to wear diapers. But , a few months later I found myself signing in again checking out the pictures and reading the postings. I found myself getting the desire to try a pair of disposable diapers, which I was internally ashamed of. So, I avoided the site for a number of months before revisting it again. Once back , I could no longer fight the desire. I have been a diapered man with plastic pants for added protection at bedtime for the last two and half years. For you men wanting to be diapered but afraid that your wife will not accept it, you may be surprised how your desire can come true very easily. Pad

I have been told that Kins is a good place to purchase plastic pant to wear over my disposable diaper. Any other places recommended for quality at a good price?

Tinkles, When you refer to "painful" in relation to being incontinent, is it just a slight uncomfortable feeling from bladder pressure, or is it much more? Is it the same feeling that non incontinent men feel when they have a over loaded bladder? Pad Pad

Does anyone know how to contact the person who has posted a picture in the coppermine photo gallery. In other words, do the pictures link to a profile?

Hi, As a parent and having raised my son, this is something I feel you don't need to inform your parents about. Because they will more likely sooner or later figure it out, and if they find it important they will approach you about the subject, which should be easier for you. But be ready with your response and honest with them, telling how you prefer diapers as your choice of underwear. Besides, your mom will more like the fact that it cuts down on the laundry. Pad

I definitely have the strong desire to try diapers for the purpose of a brief, therefore being "just a diaper" member. Never having one on before as an adult I think I would enjoy the thick padded feeling of them. I am sure I will love wearing them and would like to have the freedom to purchase and wear them whenever I want. And also about getting plastic pants to wear with them if I want. However, I do not know how to bring up this subject to my wife, as I know it will definitely be a shocker to her and I am not sure she will agree to the idea. In fact I am concerned that she will think I have lost my mind, or maybe a little to weird. I am sure many of you men have been in the same position. I would appreciate any suggestions that any of you may have to help me on what to say to her. Thanks, Pad

I am learning about diapers, and interested in wearing them as briefs , and not wanting to actually wet in them. Can those who wear them for the same purpose tell me how many times on the average I can expect to wear a diaper before I have to throw it away.