Rue Rue

Being wet I can understand that you might want to be able to know when you want to change. Is something that most people want to be able to know. Respect that, I really do. There are times however that a high absorbency diaper is more effective than one that is not. Rather being a diaper that I can use multiple times, and not have to worry about changing it as much come because changing a diaper is not that hard to do, but it is a pain, Because it seems like the lower absorbency diapers just don't work as much as they should.

That's why I'll say it once and I'll say it again:   I DON'T LIKE OR WANT Any diaper that is not high absorbency, nor do I want a diaper that is cloth backed! Cloth back diapers to me are a joke! Don't have any absorbency, they don't have any order control, and they just would end up stinking up the place when you don't want it to, and when you want to unload a full load into your diaper, these cloth back diapers don't even make the grade, much less be able to be used! There are many diapers out there that can be used for this purpose, but a cloth backed diaper just doesn't help if you're fully incontinent and you're severely incontinent! You have to go and have ABM in your diaper? Those things aren't gonna hold anything, and they're going to smell like something really bad, because it just doesn't have the ability to hold back the odor. I have taken off a diaper that I've messed in for example, and the diaper that I use, which is the mega Max, will hold the order in, and you can smell it from the outside of the diaper's plastic, but it doesn't really smell that bad, because it has the order control that any of these cloth back diapers lack.

I can understand you wanting to have the lower capacity diaper because of the fact you want to know when you want to change. Having a mega Max is the best option or having a diaper that can take what I throw at it. I consider to be a good diaper is a diaper that will allow you to use it to its fullest potential, not worry about if you have to do a number one or number two, and then have to worry that it's going to either leak all over the place or smell up the place. If I have to worry about that, the diaper I'm wearing isn't very good is it? The fact that I like the diaper that I like is simply because of the fact that it never let me down! In the worst conditions even when I totally blow out and use the diaper, at least I know that the diaper that I'm using will be able to absorb everything that I'm throwing at it. Example of that is the one day that I had a bad bm the bm was bad because I had to let it all go, but when I was through, and I took the diaper off, all of the liquid that I had released was absorbed by the padding and everything that was in there was in the padding itself and it wasn't that bad. Wet and it smelled but at least I wasn't wearing most of the evidence on my backside!

I have learned that there are many diapers out there! The best diapers are those that work for you in your case my friend, whatever you're wearing works for you, and whatever you use is appropriate for what you use it for, because you know when you need to change, and you're able to change when the change is necessary, as I am, but the problem is when you end up having CP and you're constantly running to the bathroom or your incontinent like me and you're constantly worried about whether you're going to be wet, you want the best diaper so that you don't have to worry. Sure you're gonna have to change, but changing every time the diaper is wet is kind of overkill in my mind, but in yours it would be effective because you know when you want to change, because you feel it. The reason you have a diaper is because you want the diaper to absorb most of it, and you don't want to be running around constantly in the bathroom. You have a baby for example, you're not going to be changing the baby every single time it's a tad bit wet, but you're going to be changing the baby when it is appropriate to do it. Most mothers will change their babies when they notice that there is a problem, or they can smell it, or it becomes a problem and they have a wet baby that's crying or whatever. And they changed the baby and they put appropriate Barrier cream and powder on board.

The point here is is that changing your diaper every single time something happens is kind of overkill. Using your diaper to its fullest extent sometimes can mean that it leaks, but in my case I want the protection and I want the ability to know that my diaper will hold whatever I throw at it. If it's not doing that, to me it's not a very good appropriate diaper for what I need. Cloth diapers just don't work for me: the reason is is because there is so many things that can happen, so many things that I don't want to happen: I don't want to end up with a humongous rash, I don't want to worry that my diaper won't hold, I don't want to worry about the things stinking out the place because I have an accident or I have to use the diaper! The reason the diaper exists is to help you, and if you have to use it you use it, but you need to have the diaper that you need to be able to hold it in order to be able to change it. Rather have the diaper fold to the brim, and then be able to take it off and have most of it in the diaper rather than all over me and all over everywhere else! To have it be all over everywhere else is really way too far to go, so the thing is you want to take and make it happen: you don't want to have it blow out, you really don't want to mess, but you want a diaper that's capable of holding what you need to hold, and you need to be able to know that when you have the diaper on you are not afraid to use it! Sure even with the best diapers in the world, you're gonna end up with leakage, that's the way it goes: that's why you have leak guards and stuff like that in diapers, but it still can cause a problem.

I never thought that wearing diapers would be so liberating! How I can use the diaper whenever I need to and I don't have to worry about running anywhere! I don't have to worry about what people think or what people are going to say, I don't have to hide it any more, and that is part of the problem is that three years I was hiding what I was and who I was, and not being able to do what I need to do. I was worried about what would happen if this happened or that, but it's not really that bad it's something that I can handle, but it is a pain.

Take care and enjoy yourself and feel free to message me should you wish!

Brian

I understand your points. I manage my bedwetting with the diaper that I wear. It is usually a tena, but I do have and wear MegaMax dips sometimes. For example, when I go on car trips of will be asleep for any extended period of time. Megamax is extremely helpful then at those times. 

At night I just use a Tena ultra or super. It covers my bases and covers my asses. 😁😁😁😁