[Diaper Friendly Fanny Pack]

19 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

Good tip! I hate lugging a backpack around a concert, and not all venues even let you have a bag that size anymore, unless you clear it with security, which means having the dreaded conversation with some person, usually in their 20's, who had about a half-hour of training and works for some faceless contractor... "Yeah, so, I wear diapers...", as they open all the pockets on your bag to make sure you don't have drugs or weapons with you. 

Yeah I know I just say it’s a medical bag,  but it’s awkward for me, especially with a group of people. 

[Diaper Friendly Fanny Pack]

Hi everyone thought I would share this fanny pack. I started attending concerts and have tried this fanny pack as an alternative to a medical backpack so I can keep things more discreet and easier to manage. I've also used Scott E Vest jackets but need a summer solution. I can fit one folded in-half Rearz or Trest medium diaper plus some wipes in a baggy and some other items as well. 

It's a SoJourner bag. Click the link or just search in Amazon. Hope I helps someone else. I've tried like 30 different bags and this one works for me. The folded diaper is key! 

https://a.co/d/0ZDr7Gy

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

3 hours ago, BrownBobby said:

This can happen, as I'm sure the doctor mentioned - a revision might be necessary, especially if the original procedure didn't heal in the fully open position (by dumb luck or a catheter issue).  My first procedure didn't take either - I suspect partially because my catheter had to be removed early due to recurring blockages.  

I think this is a fair thing to highlight with this surgery as well - it by far isn't a guarantee it will work, especially the first time.  It comes with a whole list of risks that any major surgical procedure does, but especially one that involves the urinary tract. You're basically inflicting a lifetime of trauma on those muscles artificially, and hoping it's enough to make them incompetent at holding anything anymore. 

I'm comfortable where I ended up - maybe not a full time dribbler, but confident I couldn't go any length of time without a diaper unless I wanted to risk very embarrassing accidents.  To anyone reading this and considering surgery - I'd recommend trying out other things first - full-time diaper usage, hypnosis, catheters, etc. - if only because it helps in the event the surgery doesn't take.  Knowing how to cath myself has made things much easier, and having used hypnosis to help accept these life changes has been very reassuring and validating.

Here's hoping it is just swelling, @Reddy - but if it isn't, there's still plenty of options, including Round 2.

What hypnosis did you use? 

[24/7 startups, and unexpected pitfalls?]

13 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

That's an interesting thought. I have had a lot on my mind this week, and not a lot of it had anything to do with whether or not I would wet the bed, or, diapers in general. They were just kind of a background process - I wore them, wet them, and replaced them responsibly, but I didn't give it a lot of thought. I had a team of colleagues in the area and we did some site visits in tandem that, added up, constitute more time with my workmates and more time on site in the last week, than I experienced in the previous 3 months. 

So maybe not thinking about bedwetting is the key to bedwetting. That, and drinking more. I think I may be the man for this assignment...

Every once in a while. Most of the time, if they comment, it is entirely of their own accord - if I ask my wife if my diaper is visible under a particular outfit, I'm just as likely to get a potshot as I am to get usable feedback, so I don't tend to invite that unless I really need an opinion. For example, with dressy clothes for work or social functions, or, if I've bought something new, I might ask my them if "this looks okay" or if I can "get away with wearing this." A couple of times my wife has suggested wearing one of "your bodysuit thingies" (a onesie), for example. 

I don't often take my wife or either of my daughters out shopping for clothing with me, because our philosophies and objectives around that activity are entirely discordant. I like to go to the first place I think will have the thing I need, buy it in the size I know fits me, generally not try it on, and walk out of there, pronto. The exception to this are things that I know will need to be fitted, such as suits, or, if I'm on the ragged edge of a size, I might try a couple of sizes out over a realistic diaper, just to make sure I'm not fooling myself into believing that I've slimmed down enough to wear something that I will later regret buying. But I do that in the privacy of the dressing room. 

They like to go to 20 different places, try everything on, quite possibly buy nothing, and then go back another day and try stuff on again a few times, before buying it. They have taken me shopping for things before, and I'll put up with modeling a couple of items, but I'd rather be dragged behind wild horses than spend a day traipsing through a mall and looking at myself in a mirror repeatedly. 

On another topic, I am, I guess I could say, proud of myself today... I've spent the day in a cloth diaper and (printed) plastic pants. I am trying to push through my squeamishness about wearing them in front of my wife, although for the most part, I have been clothed. She did see me in them this morning when I was brushing my teeth, and later, I changed out of pajama pants and into jeans in our room while she was chatting to me about an upcoming trip. After that, I was sorting clothes and trying to figure out what could go away for the summer (on the probably incorrect assumption that winter weather is nearly over for us), and what could be donated or burned. During that process, she was coming and going from our room. 

One unanticipated side effect of being "the diapered one" in the house is that it's become harder to achieve privacy... I guess the general assumption is, I don't need it? If I'm in the shower or in the washroom with the door closed, usually I will get at least a knock before the door is opened, but in my room, no such courtesy is extended. Maybe it's because my kids and my wife are female, and so they don't worry about privacy much among themselves. But, whereas I would be loath to throw open one of my kids' bedroom doors without knocking and getting an affirmative response, they just toss the door open into our room all the time. Or, as happened today, my wife throws the door open and goes walking out without closing it behind her. I was trying shorts on and sorting them according to if they fit or would likely fit in the near future, or if they should be relegated back into long-term storage, and was in a t-shirt and plastic pants, when she left the room to go get something from our guest bedroom, so I went over to close the door behind her... and nearly came face to face with my daughter, coming down the hall to use our bathroom. Sigh. 

 

 

My wife opens the closed to to our bedroom and then leaves, leaving it open all the time as I’m changing my diaper or getting ready and it’s so annoying! 

[*2 Year Update - My 24/7 Journey*]

On 2/19/2024 at 2:33 PM, Beccathelittle said:

Having to change in public with friends is getting to be a nuisance, and while I still have not told them, It's getting harder to change / bring supplies in some situations. Honestly while I've done my best to keep it private, I do see the benefit in maybe telling my closest friends soon, though obviously not "hey i'm abdl xyz".. I just don't really know how to tell them without lying / having them become incredibly concerned. And I kinda enjoy keeping it a secret without being branded forever. 😶

I feel the same way. I do but do t want to tell others. I feel like my friends know but I’m still too embarrassed to bring it up. The hiding it is getting tougher for me 2+ years in as well. 

[24/7 startups, and unexpected pitfalls?]

On 3/6/2024 at 8:52 PM, Little Sherri said:

You might try ozone - if you can borrow, buy or rent an ozone generating machine and put it in a confined space with the stuff, it's a potent oxidizer and it tends to accelerate the aging of smells. They're not cheap but not crazy expensive anymore - I think they can be found in the $80 - $100 range for purchase, less for a used one.

Mixing hydrogen peroxide with, say, dish soap - something that cuts grease - and putting a spoonful of baking powder in the mix as well might help, IF the surfaces will not be damaged by contact with a liquid. 3% hydrogen peroxide of the type typically used for disinfection generally doesn't bleach inks and dyes, but you might want to test an inconspicuous corner first, to make sure. If the materials stand up to it, then spray it down and let it stand for a while, before spraying it with some hot water and drying with a towel or paper towel. 

I have not tried a Trest yet but based on what I've read about them, that's impressive! I figured a Trest would be a 12-hour diaper. 

 

I like hiking - I usually carry a backpack with water, snacks, and a plastic bag and a spare diaper. I tend to go cloth-backed - the Rearz Active Air is an excellent product for this - and I use lots of diaper cream. I have walked 10+ miles with no problem. I'd love to find somewhere remote enough to hike in just a diaper, but where I live, there is too much probability that I'll traumatize some innocent nature lover when I round a corner in my big diaper on a nice afternoon, and ruin their day...

I was chugging water a few hours before the Trest cap maxxed out and then proceeded to drink a few beers. My normal use case for a Trest is 6-8 hours with moderate fluid intake

[When Was The Last Time You Pooped Your Diaper]

Got out of a business meeting walked to my desk and now I have a full load in my pamps. Got to change here before others notice...

On 3/6/2024 at 3:59 AM, Moochie said:

 although normal, the pleasure never diminishes for me when I mess my diaper. Each poopy diaper is as unique as a snowflake.

🤩

[Are diapers a sexual turnon for anybody?]

I consider myself a "diaper-sexual" who is also attracted to the female form. So yes diapers are a huge turn on for me.

[How many "straight" sissies in here? Let me rephrase. How many sissies are into women (you define) only?]

Thanks for all the responses. SO I will ask this. Are there any sissies who would consider being into other sissies, so long as they are strictly feminine and keep their diapers on? I find myself sometimes attracted to sissies because of how ultra feminine they are. So long as they look like women. Sort of like I could be attracted to a trans female who looked like a female. Not sure if that makes sense. 🙃

[24/7 startups, and unexpected pitfalls?]

So for diaper bags, I have been experimenting. The biggest issue for me is 247 and going to concerts right now. I've taken the giant clear bags, or my Scott E Vest with a diaper pocket, but both are somewhat awkward. Hiking is another matter but I'll cross that bridge in the future.

I bought this for CapCon and am planning on buying a not-pink one for concerts. BTW 100% needed for CapCon. I wore a dress or just a t shirt and a diaper and I kept my phone, wallet, room key, some snacks in it and it was perfect!!!

Well... come to find out, I can fold a medium Trest and it will fit in the big pocket! It is a tight fit, at an angle, but it fits! This solution is WAY easier for me. Not going to work for multiple changes, but if I have a #2 accident I have a spare and if I end up maxxing it out (I maxxed out a Trest in 4 hours two weeks ago, I have a spare and dont have to be all awkward because I am waddling and about to leak! Also, I can keep it on my waist and if I have to go to the bathroom, it just stays on my waist! A fanny pack is acceptable as I keep my phone and a snack and some meds in there. I think this will be my go to moving forward.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07567V1HS?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details&th=1

 

 

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

2 hours ago, DAQ said:

You're using 3-6 because that is how manh times you are messing?

I drink an appropriate amount of fluids. I also mess 2-3 times per day. But what I am saying is that, I noticed this at CapCon because I REALLY tried to go #2 in the toilet when I could make it (about 1/2 the time I did) that I ended up urinating in the toilet while going #2 which is common for humans to do. I bet that decreases the number of needed diapers by 1-2 per day.

I just have read so many comments like more than 3 diapers a day - insane! Not needed! When well, that's what I need. To each their own, but to help set proper expectations, 3-6 diapers a day is a normal use case, regardless of the absorbancy. Sure, have I ever in my life only used 2 diapers in a day wearing 247 - YES. But I was sedentary, dehydrated and didn't poop or pooped in the toilet.

It's just not realistic for someone relatively active, who stays reasonably hydrated, who never uses a toilet, to only use 2-3 diapers a day.

[Capcon 2024]

It's terrible, don't even bother going😆. JK it's amazing. The staff was amazing. I got mutliple comments - from the staff on how beautiful my dress (with a bonnet, and pacifier in my mouth) I can't really describe it. I had no negative issues whatsoever. If you can go, you should go. I stayed off site which was annoying but there is a bag check and free diapers in the changing area. There is a meet and greet bench. I found it pretty easy to meet people even though I was very nervous. Sure, I tried to talk to some people that weren't interested in talking but you just move on and find other people to chat with. I complemented people whose outfits I liked and that led to great friendships. I loved just walking around the hotel.

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

On 3/4/2024 at 10:56 PM, Reddy said:

It does feel good when it's empty.  I really noticed that last week when I was leaking

Yes it does become a noticable diaper bulge in my pants when I wet.  I just hope nobody thinks too much about it.

Good idea for changing.

Yes the full bladder wakes me up.

It hadn't really hit me even when I was leaking.  I think because I hadn't fully healed yet, so I didn't feel like I knew exactly how things would end up.  I still felt like I had a huge throbbing uncertainty down there.

I had quite a bit of soreness still a week ago, but now almost none.

When I was in Mexico one of the diapers I bought there had a clean slice through it in the crotch and I didn't notice until I was leaking everywhere lol.

Oh yes that's a good point.  I wouldn't like having to take my shoes and pants off just to change in the bathroom at work.

It almost was, and now it's backslid.  But I'm still hopeful that once the blockage gets better, either through reduced swelling, or a stricture treatment, I will be enjoying incontinence again.

It was the full time need of diapers that made me want it.  Even though I didn't have experience with that, I knew I wanted it.

I normally never had that switch to not wanting diapers after I climax.  Similarly now, I felt no change in my mood about diapers after masturbation.

And thank you!

The first two days in the office were wonderful.  The last two, not as much 😄

No leaks and no difficulty.  I was surprised that I needed to change so often at first.  Later on I wasn't needing to change due to retention.  But at first that was interesting.

No real difficulty managing discretion.  The thing that was most difficult that surprised me was having trouble bringing a diaper to the bathroom.  I ended up hiding it inside my pullover.  It felt awkward.  I might want to use some bag or covering that doesn't arouse suspicion so I don't need to stuff it in my clothes.  I'm just not sure what that would be yet.

Thank you for the well wishes!  Things are still changing by the day, but hopefully I settle into a good routine soon.

Hope everything works out for you! I wear 24/7 and I have to change way more than it seems some people do. 1-2 diapers per day? Not sure what's going on there but I suspect they use the toilet for #2 and pee at the same time. More realistic for a 24/7 wearer is 3-6 diapers per day.

[Almost 2 years into the journey]

Welcome! 2 years in now.

[Capcon 2024]

I'll be there!

[Staying messy?]

I change within 15 minutes or I get a rash

[Just wondering what it feels like to be diapered full time?]

The only real big annoyance is travel and events. Sharing a hotel room can be cumbersome. Having a bathroom with a decent door that closes is helpful as I can change in the bathroom. Diapers are pretty normal for me now as others have stated.

[Over The Top Leaks]

I have this same issue. Thanks for the tips.

[Official "Looking for a Story..." Thread]

On 2/1/2022 at 5:53 PM, PuraVidaDip said:

The story is about an adult teen who gets sent to live with his aunt. I think he is sent to Germany but he's wearing a kilt for some reason. Or it could be lederhosen. Either way, he eventually attends a wedding and all the women are in charge. One of the guests tells his mom that his diaper needs changing and he is changed in front of everyone. There is another adult teen there who is tasked with changing this "boy" and he gets a noticeable erection. This other teen's mom then and there decides that her son will be in diapers from here on out as well and he is mad about it. Story from Petticoated.com. I have spent probably 40 hours trying to comb through this site's Archives trying to find it to no avail.

Trying again for this one! The story is about an adult teen who gets sent to live with his aunt. I think he is sent to Germany but he's wearing a kilt for some reason. Or it could be lederhosen. Either way, he eventually attends a wedding and all the women are in charge. One of the guests tells his mom that his diaper needs changing and he is changed in front of everyone. There is another adult teen there who is tasked with changing this "boy" and he gets a noticeable erection. This other teen's mom then and there decides that her son will be in diapers from here on out as well and he is mad about it. Story from Petticoated.com. I have spent probably 40 hours trying to comb through this site's Archives trying to find it to no avail.

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

Didn't someone else on here have surgery in December? Looks like the post was deleted: https://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?/topic/89012-surgery-for-becoming-fully-incontinent-in-mexico/

[Permanent stent for incontinence]

Wasnt there someone who just went to Mexico to have this done? I can't find the thread now.

[Formal wear...?]

I went to a fundraiser last night. I was wearing a suit pant with white shirt and tie. I was the only one not wearing a jacket, so I looked like an idiot in comparison AND the jacket would have hidden my bulge. Just get your pants tailored (buy them bigger than you need and have them adjusted I wold say) and when wearing a jacket, it should cover most of your bottom. I wear a suit every day to work and give presentations and stuff and no one has ever said anything.

Like another said, I would go with a thicker diaper for absorbency in lieu of bringing a bag, BUT I have been to multiple wedding with a camera bag (camera in top pocket, diapers and wipes in bottom) without issue. Though, the better camera phones are the more weir it looks to bring a camera bag. Or if you have a girlfriend of wife, ask to put a change in her bag.

It adds stress, but just remember to relax and not worry about it. No one will notice.

[Halloween fun? Did anyone have any fun this Halloween?]

On 11/2/2023 at 9:38 PM, Cissy Crissy said:

I was just wondering if anyone had any fun out this Halloween? I didn't see any posts from anyone on what they were planning or doing? I hope someone had some fun!

Let me know if you did! 

Cissy Crissy

Was that you?

[Capcon Room Share?]

Hi all! The host hotels for Capcon sold out in like 2 mins and my computer restarted so I missed the boat. Anyone get a room that wants to split it? 

[24/7 startups, and unexpected pitfalls?]

2 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

I'm enjoying my new, *slightly* lower weight category; it's making some of my correctly-sized clothes back into slightly oversized clothing again, which of course is the wardrobe trajectory of choice for the chronically diapered. Case in point, I slept in a Critter Caboose, woke up barely damp, threw some jeans on, and took the dog out, whereupon I ran into a neighbour who was out for a walk with his kids. I had no hesitancy in raising a hand and saying good morning, or, walking to the end of the driveway to pick up the newspaper, whereas if I felt like I was wearing leggings over a diaper, I'd have seen them walking towards us through the trees, and fled to the back of the house out of fear that my rotund lower half would give me away. 

I also had another "this is the new normal" conversation with my family last night. I was saying that we needed to get more small trash bags for the kids' bathroom, because neither of them are "kids" anymore. My eldest is away at school, but my youngest throws a plethora of items in there, everything from Q-tips to makeup wipes to feminine hygiene products, to pull-ups, that are best delt with via bagging - we'd run out of a seemingly endless box of lightweight, small bags we had that were perfect for the task, which left me finding myself holding a trash can upside down over a garbage bag, trying to shake a Q-tip out of the bottom that was glued down by a glob of some cosmetic product. 

For some reason, my wife decided that this request for more small bags was out of line, briskly stating that they weren't necessary, and, anyway, why was I emptying the garbage in their bathroom - my daughter should be doing it - AND, in fact, she should be emptying the garbage cans everywhere in the house. 

I cleared my throat. "Um, I do it because the kitchen bags always have room in them, and, uh, that's where I empty my diaper can."

Wife: "Well, her trash can has diapers in it, too - why can't she do it?"

Daughter: "PULL-UPS, mom, pull-ups."

Wife: "Whatever, she can do it."

Me: "My diapers are, uh, a little more of a responsibility than hers are. Sometimes they weigh as much as a bag full of dead raccoons. I will keep emptying my diaper can. Final answer."

I have no idea what her objection is to just getting another box of small trash bags - we can even employ the compostable ones if she wants to, although they will be full of things that don't compost, like nail kits where the packaging outweighs the contents by a factor of 4 to 1. I guess it's on my list to get the small bags, due to her conscientious objections. But she's fine with buying the large ones for the kitchen and garage.  

 

Congrats on this!!