So what is the best diaper you have used? I have tried a lot of different brands, name brand & store brand. The name brands always do a good job, the knock-off store brands are not as well made. They tend to tear easily or the tabs are not secured properly. But none tend to hold up to to the capacity I like. However, I recently found my absolute favorite, this is not an endorsement, but the MEGAMAX Tab-Style Briefs from Northshore Care are the BEST! They claim to hold 6500ml, and they do! They also come in a variety of colors, including Tie-dye. I can wear the same one pretty much all day without leaking. If I really want to have a fun wetting ay, I will add a couple of their Booster Pads. But I do still enjoy leaking