Billy987

How much caffeine is needed per day and what length of time is needed to actually get oab? Are there any other methods that is a sure thing to get permanent oab?

How long does this take? If you are consistently moving up in size to say a large and keeping it in? I’m going on a cruise at the end of October and was wondering if it’s possible to be stretched out past no return? Would like to be dependent by then.

Thank you everyone! I’lol be contacting carnival and taking into account your recommendations.

Heading on a cruise specifically Carnival Valor end of October next year 2023. How do we go about taking all the necessary supplies on board? Any have experience in this?

Anyone have any recipes you do once a week? Or maybe consistently for continuous messing?

Well due to some trauma years ago, I’m loose back there. Have had some streaks in boxers. Been on n off wearing for 1.5 years. Think I’m going full time 24/7. Just to have things checked out, as I’d need to anyways with going 24/7, have an appointment December 21. So we shall see how thing go until then.

I have the small Meo anal stretching ring in and nice to just not feel anything. Sat down and felt a squish. Plan on leaving in for a good week then upgrading to a medium. Going to try and have muscle memory take place and having it stretched for a good few months should get me to my goal.

I was messing around about 10 years ago with a glass toy. And used plenty of lube and in the middle of everything decided to sit on it. Since then, I’ve never been as tight anymore. So just recently with trying out the Meo plugs, I’ve noticed if I have loose stools, or smooth, I’ll leak out a little to where I would need to go wipe again in like 5/10 minutes.

I’ve been able to put in a 24, but I was aiming for enlarging the sphincter over the course of 6 months to allow the bladder to shrink, but only kept it in for a week. As it was getting tough especially at night with the draining that much liquid into the mega max.

I love the feeling of getting up in the morning, or any seated position, and then letting loose. The warm feeling is amazing. How do all of you who have obtained dribbling feel? Is the feeling different? Do you miss the warm feeling of your bladder emptying everything?

I ordered the Meo anal stretching rings. I am already partially fecal incontinent. If loose/semi firm, I’ll have leakage after just from walking around for an hour or two. Anyways, I will be receiving the medium, large, and x-large. Plan is to have the x-large in by September and leave it in for a good couple of weeks. has anyone else tried the Meo rings?

Have an appointment set up with gastro doctor due to leaking after bathroom and scratching at night so wearing 24/7. Whether the doctor puts incontinence in my files after testing and so forth, I’ll still be wearing 24/7. I really enjoy the summer heat and being outside. I know being padded will warm things up for me. I’m used to sweat just running down my legs, but now it will stay trapped in my diaper region. What do you use for diaper rash? Also anything else to use to make the best of the heat? Live in the Central states so can get upwards of 105+ with heat index, but not willing to give up the outside life for wearing 24/7. almost should’ve started in the fall/winter time, lol. What’s kept you going in this heat? Why didn’t you stop?

I have some incontinence from trauma years ago. Thinking of loosing the rest of what I have. Have any of you ever had partial incontinence and wanted to losose the remaining control and succeed?

Urologist went well. He wanted me to be on flomax then come back in July. Then try a medication for OAB. Not going to take flomax. “Going to take” medication for OAB in July. Tell him it works, then I assume I can be diagnosed with OAB. This would be much easier with friends and family that would need to know or find out. May end up going to a doctor about rectal trauma that has caused leakage this year. Since I’m wanting to be in diapers for the rest of my life, (goal is to become completely dependent) this would help with family and acceptance on they are absolutely needed.

Have an appointment setup for February 11th. Long time but hopefully with wearing 24/7 until then I can help my situation a little bit.

So I’ve been on n off last year, and decided to finally go 24/7 yesterday. I’m making an appointment Monday. I’m almost for sure I will have nocturnal incontinence in my charts. I’m not as tight as one should be in the rear end. There has been damage to the sphincter muscle. And at night I often will scratch. During the day I always have leakage after going #2. So I’ve been wearing at nights which in turn has me wetting. I’m a heavy sleeper so that part helps me out. Not sure if all the tests that will be done, but hopefully if the nocturnal sticks, maybe I’ll be diagnosed with oab or another form. I’ve been drinking about a gallon of water each day for years already, (I’m an active person) so frequently peeing is easy to come by.

Everyone is different so go with what you are comfortable. I’m sure it would make you dribble after so long. Being held open for that amount of time, I’m sure the muscle would be stretched to a point to where you may or may not be able to strengthen it back.

How long were you dribbling after this?

I’m currently looking into diving into this. Although I have had a 22, 18, and 16 in to simulate incontinence, I’ve taken them out after about a week. From what I’m seeing, you’ll have to keep a catheter in (obviously changing when needed) for a good 6 months to allow the sphincter to be stretched out enough to not return back. Better with larger sizes as the stretch is more. But to brink at a good amount of cranberry juice everyday. 40-50 ozs. I’m debating on trying this method right now.

Thank you! Didn’t know cranberry juice was useful on the bowels as well. Ok, I’ll be getting both your suggestions. Thanks!

Wow man, I’ve had a 22 in for a few days, wasn’t bad putting in with lube but taking it out a little discomfort. I’d like to eventually get to a 24 or 26 for months and to do some stretching. Can’t imagine two 22 caths in though.

I’ve been drinking coffee to help move bowels and bladder along. Now that I’m trying to grow breasts, they say caffeine will slow the process. What’s something I can replace caffeine with?

I just had 20 prunes about 2 hours ago and just let loose big time. I’d stay in only except about to head out with the wife. Gonna eat 20 more prunes and hope to fill again soon. Hopefully while we are still out. Then I could stay in it for a bit until she says something about the smell.

What swim diaper is everyone using?

I’ve been on and off this year since March. Tried to go the catheter route. Used a foley 16fr. Put in Saturday and had to take out this morning. Urine was coming out around the catheter. Also blood was coming through the catheter when urine did flow through it. Although I tried to drink plenty of cranberry juice. One reason why I thought to go the catheter route was to stretch the muscle but also because if I’m sitting for too long, pressure builds up until I stand and then my diaper gets filled up. I was going for dual incontinent but messing the diaper while the catheter is hanging in there didn’t seem like a good idea. Years ago, I did damage my anal sphincter muscles I’ve notice before I started my journey on diaper dependency, that after I went on the toilet, I’d have to go back soon after to clean up again. Also if I eat a lot of sugar, when I sleep, I’ll have leakage of some sort of mucus when I wake up.