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A little about me: I'm a real abdl. Yes, I'm really 'into' this. Yes I wear diapers when I'm off camera too. I'm kinda like you only a kinky exhibitionist who enjoys playing & shooting this stuff with my super hot & kinky friends. I consider us all friends & part of a small-ish community...so from one DL to another, WELCOME!! I really hope you stick around, diaper up & enjoy ;-) xo- Natalia http://clips4sale.com/67197/

Moderate by need, severe by choice with it very hard to achieve moderate any more. But loving every minute of it with no desire to be any different Bettypooh

I'm like Stevewet once you wear diapers all the time as I have done for several years you gradually lose control cause control does not matter.

I have diabetes which has affected my bladder control. I have to be honest I have made no effort to stay dry and once my bedwetting became a regular thing I have helped it along with deliberate wetting. Now I have very little bladder control at all.

Correction, some girls in the ABDL community are absolutely pathetic, as are some guys. There are plenty of women who star on the kind of sites you mention who are perfectly well grounded, and more than capable of holding an interesting conversation. I'm in touch with one that I met on here a few years back pretty frequently, and she's an absolute blast to keep in touch with, and not at all an asshole, at least not in my experience. While others do let their (perceived) fame go to their heads, and definitely deserve the same kind of humbling that the Fine Bros. were recently subjected too, I don't consider them to be the majority of ABDL females. I also don't see anything wrong with charging to create content, or paying for said content. I wouldn't call my friend an SJW (she will play devil's advocate to her own position and is capable of forming her own arguments,) nor would I call Ally an SJW, but there are plenty of SJW's in this community who are incapable of an original thought that isn't the popular talking point from their sides point of view. You can usually separate a SJW from someone who can actually form an argument of their own if they deviate from the common talking points of their side's arguments and aren't afraid to take flak for doing so. Some people do this well, while others simply do not. Also, while having a tumblr doesn't automatically make you an SJW, tumblr is a breeding ground for SJWs, especially in the AB/DL and DD/LG communities. I can't remember where this was, but I once saw tumblr rather accurately described as "porn and misandrist filth," and while that might be a bit hyperbolic, it's really not far from the truth. There's a reason why people who don't run a tumblr but view tumblrs of others tend to frequently look at it like a freak show, and that's because it tends to get pretty crazy pretty often. The primary problem is that while there are some exceptions, it really panders to a groupthink mentality where anyone with an original thought that doesn't follow popular opinion is immediately clobbered for not falling in line. As far as the pay-for-porn sites go, I see nothing wrong with them, although I would like to see higher quality (pressed) Blu-Ray content aimed at this community. At the end of the day though, I don't have anything against porn sites, so AB/DL porn sites aren't an exception. I'm in the creative field and I actually disagree with you on this. Rule #1 is to give just enough away to generate consistent repeat customers, even if you could make money off of some of that content. The short-term loss is always outweighed by the long-term gain if this is done correctly, as the free content can be the difference between someone paying for lots of your work, or someone going with someone else whose given away more material that better showcases what they do. As I mentioned above, there is someone in this community who I genuinely consider a friend who would fall into the category of people that we're talking about. I don't consider her needy of public favor and attention by any stretch, and I appreciate her work as well as her creativity and ability to have an original thought. Additionally, I would argue that it isn't the need for public favor and attention that rubs people the wrong way with certain models, so much as it's the random gross lack of tact when the tin cups are out. Now my friend is gracious and polite regardless of whether or not she asks for something, but a lot of female AB/DL models are just as socially awkward as AB/DL males, and equally lacking in self-awareness when they ask for something, especially if people aren't buying their content as frequently as they might once have. Some become incredibly abrasive when they don't get their way and then can't understand why some of their followers could possibly be assholes. (Well duh, if you're an asshole you're going to attract other assholes!) The reason my friend has such wonderful followers is that she treats them like people instead of ATMs, and they in turn treat her like a person too. Now to be fair, there is an exception to the "asshole rule," which is that if you start out intentionally behaving like an asshole on day one, people already assume you'll act a bit nuts and generally just roll with it without any real backlash. This is sort of what Howard Stern did when he first made it big, he shocked everyone who heard him, alienated the people who were never going to like him, but built a fanbase around being a bit of a jerk. When I created my first blog for friends, I immediately set a tone of "fuck you, and if you don't like it, fuck you harder," because I knew that if I started by being a dick, the expectation would be that I'd occasionally be an ass and everybody knew what they were in for and couldn't reasonably bitch that they didn't, and it worked exactly as I'd hoped. This only works if you do it from day one though, it's not something you can do after you've established yourself as someone whose not a jerk. Also, while I don't mind the use of the DD/LG label, I do appreciate it when someone embraces the AB/DL label, especially the DL portion of the label even if they also do DD/LG stuff. It's okay to cater to both crowds, and to focus on the DL portion of AB/DL as frequently as the LG portion of DD/LG. Yes actually, and I'll give you an example. NBC loves to promote its new shows to the point where it beats viewers over the head with upcoming shows until several people who were interested might decided not to watch just because of how annoying the constant promotion is. ("The Blacklist" managed to recover from this, but several other shows never did, with "The Player" probably being the most recent example.) Some online services do the same thing, ("Buy our crapware, we keep promoting it every three seconds!") as do other businesses. If I feel that a business promotes its crap too often, I make a note not to buy from that business just to deprive them of a sale for something they spent a fortune beating me over the head with ads for, and yes, they're attention whores too.

Oh this thread is a hoot! I can say out of the orginal list of girls only one sticks out as a troll in my opinion and I am sure she thinks the same way about me . As far

You coming with me young lady I take you to a nursey

*Gets out my tin foil hat*