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What is the least embarassing way to do this i hate my doctor, come to think of it i dont like doctor's in general, but i need to register what if i end up in hospital or something o.O i wake up to a wet bed i would not enjoy telling the nurses that

More to come soon my friends.

Zoe curtsies as well, seeing that the dress looked good on her.

Good luck with the surgery and best wishes for a speedy recovery with the results you want being there forever

Mei, we could open this in the INCO-medical forum and maybe get more response since the subject here is introducing new members and it could get missed.

I think too that what is available over the counter is a huge disappointment.

I get lost a bit in the replies, working my way backwards now... Well thanks, I like to write indeed. But I never wrote anything larger than a couple of pages. Maybe I should try that once. Maybe it's more "finding a place where you can talk openly *and where wearing diapers isn't the only thing you share*". That's always hard because people differ in what they want, in the way they accept themselves, their background. Some are friendly, some less. For all sorts of reasons. I never would have guessed that! From everything I've read I thought that my situation was rather unique. Maybe not even so much in the situations and objects but certainly in how I I experience it? There's no problem with the regular, everyday part of dealing with incontinence. But there's two areas that I would love to be able to talk about with others: the (non-sexual) feelings that come with being inco / needing diapers etc; and practical issues with diapers and plastic pants. I'm especially concerned about how incontinence products are marketed. I think that because inco people don't exactly stand up for themselves and tell what they need, that the suppliers can pretty much do as they please to maximise profit. I don't think that that necessarily results in better products. Take for instance the recent change to "cotton feel" disposables: I'll be damned if the idea came from an actual user, or even if any user was consulted in this decision. Call me cynical, but I think the only reason for this switch is that some clever bozo has calculated that they'll sell more diapers that way. Of course it's marketed as having the Great Advantage of being "breathing". But is there anyone who really believes that a diaper can be both breathing and still be waterproof (or worse, stink-proof if you have the misfortune of being bowel inco)? I've got a tiny spark of hope that by at least talking about these things the chance increases that there will be some opposition against developments that threaten to only make it more difficult to find the right products to manage our condition with. My biggest gripe has always been the free fall of the quality of plastic pants. Maybe it's not so obvious to people who haven't continuously been using them for more than 30 years, but it is beyond me how a highly technologically advanced civilisation manages to forget how to make a good, comfortable plastic diaper pant. I seriously don't know if I should laugh, cry or become angry when I think of how those horrid PEVA garbage bags or ridiculously overpriced red glossy see-through pvc clown pants from the online fetish store compare with what you could pick up in any department store for five bucks - up to about 1990. But it's too sad for words really. So yeah, I try not to dwell on that too much. But I wish I could do something about it.

Life is all about finding balance. To deny your urges is to deny yourself.

i'm in Reading (the town that thinks it's a city)

I started coming here because I liked wearing diapers and wanted to understand my fetish now I come here to chill but I get shy and leave also come here to try and make friends and eventually maybe meet up with another liked mind person hasn't happend yet but I'm hopeful laterz y'all

I came for the chicks man!! lol no. Only place I feel comfy talkin about things openly besides at my psychiatrist.