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It's really a marketing thing. Parents are looking for the best value when they buy diapers. So to get (and keep) customers companies like Pampers and Huggies have to make a product that is high capacity and high quality for a decent price. Babies are wiggle factories... so their diapers have to be very durable to handle crawling, running, rolling, falling over, etc without busting all over the place when wet or messy. Baby diapers need to be thick and thirsty b/c they often aren't changed for several hours or overnight. As much as we hate to admit it... most adult diapers are still used by the medical community. Typically by hospitals and nursing homes that are trying to make a buck off of a dying person's last remaining time. They aren't going to spend the money on a high capacity high quality product... so the adult diaper companies make their products thin and cheap. They don't need the capacity b/c (by law) patients are supposed to be checked on every few hours day and night. Adult diapers are also mainly designed for individuals who are bedridden or have limited mobility, so they don't need to be very durable. I think the closest we have come to an enlarged baby diaper is cushies. Which are good, but very expensive... and they still aren't thick enough.

There are MORE guys/girls who have find the ABDL/Mommy love of their life by dating normally. All of the only communities scare away many decent people (its not you, its me hahahaha) Step by Step Trial-and-Error Guide (those who cannot get to #1 have problems beyond the fetish, but you gotta start somewhere): 1. Get Girlfriend/Boyfriend. 2. Treat her/him wicked-awesome. 3. Utilize a balance of masculinity and cuteness. 4. Have *smart* conversations about the concept of fetishes and how common they are, citing examples of things you have randomly read online, friends, ex girlfriends/boyfriends, etc. Talk about vanilla fetishes to the most extreme (eg. Handcuffs --> being electrocuted in a bunny suit) 5. If she inquires, don't give in easily. Don't deny it, but don't let her think its something big. Kinda brush it off and say you'll tell her when you are ready. This will spark her interest hopefully instead of weirding her out. When prepared for weird, it won't be so weird. 5. Give *smart* subtle hints over time if you want. Or just come out with it at an appropriate time when you can explain yourself. You have to understand that you are a victim of the fetish and also the master of it. It is a burden and a gift, and explain it to her as such. Its a love hate relationship for a lot of people. The next steps can vary. What could happen. If she breaks up with you, you have either explained it horribly and weirded her out for not being smart enough to explain your desires in a respectful manner, or she is a dumb bitch and you don't need that. When I hear stories of older dudes who hid this from their wife for years, it sounds like a horrible way to live life. Divorce is likely cause you keep it in for so long. When I told my girlfriend after 6 months, she was 1. Relieved I wasn't going to tell her I've been cheating on her and 2. Pissed that I kept it from her so long ---> but a KEY is to explain why you haven't told her or what its so hard on you. Use your real life examples growing up; feeling alienated from society, worried that no one could ever understand it. Once again, we are victims and masters. ------- Easier said than done? Yes, definitely. Maybe I'm just lucky? I don't know. But it is a good process to attempt. Its a long shot for those who have never had a real relationship, and there's a ladder to climb to feel confident enough about yourself to go after some women. I don't appreciate the "OOOOH POOR ME!" Approach many of us take, but I think its part of the psychological affect that the desire to be a baby comes from. We are babies, so we SHOULD HAVE MOMMY! Get in shape, get smart and go play the date-lottery. the Jackpot isn't as hard to find as you'd think, and its a fun journey going through it (Note: telling a girl within 2 weeks of dating her and having her tell all of her friends when I was in high school was a good lesson, don't you go and fuck that up! 6 months might be too long. Be the judge.) If she peaces you out, go find a cuter and better girl. I believe that it can be unlocked in girls, and there are MANY who have yet to have someone to 'unlock the treasure chest' (of diapers, bottles, pacifiers, and more). Woo Hoo. I've left out various things because I was back and forth on this. I reckon its good enough to post. PLEASE DEBATE THIS WITH ME, but cite some real life examples.

I've been meaning to write this for a while and now I finally have the time for once to write it. Dear DL Community, It seems to me, a rather new addition to the world of wearing diapers, that many of you are overly judgmental even though many judge you for wearing diapers. I have found that many disagree with the way others go about their wearing, what they do diapered, weather they wet, mess, or wear 24/7. We all can't seem to be able to accept that wearing a diaper is different for each person and many try to press their style of diaper wearing on newbies who don't know what they like just yet, it is something each person should be able to find for themselves. It's been hard for me and I'm sure that I'm not the only one, to accept that I sometimes enjoy being diapered. That the desire will come and go and that it is just a part of my life. And I believe that this site does a poor job much of the time in welcoming newbies and allowing them to openly ask questions if they have them. We are all here because we have a common thread, we love our diapers. Why can't we be more welcoming, extend a clean diaper and handshake, and be more civil with one another?

I wonder if the tornado was surprised to find the freight train sounded like a tornado!

I honestly don't think a swim diaper for adults are going to be that popular. Even with my non-chalant attitude for other people knowing I wear diapers at a place like a beach or pool. I will not just wear a swim diaper by itself - I just think it would be too different for people - I dont know. Of course you could wear it under your clothing...IDK what I am talking about. There must be a reason why there are not many made for adults though.

I just wonder if the train engineer said ,the tornado sounded like a freight train.

CoOl! I wanna move to that town! ;D

Going back to the folding issue, I've tried but I just can't get that method from the video down. It's awkward and always seems to leave wet padding facing out which isn't good for the smell or ick factor. I stumbled on a better solution earlier and it's so blindingly obvious I don't know why I didn't see it earlier. Fold as normal* until the point where you'd stick the two tapes to secure the ball. If you do this like I always seem to, you'll probably have the rear waistband exposed at this point. Just fold it back out over itself to expose the cloth inside of the waistband, pull the wing tight and stick the tapes to that bit. Job done, no exposed padding. Simples! * Normal, IMO at least is to lay the diaper out flat, fold in the front wings, fold the padding of the diaper from front to back twice leaving the padding sat on top of the opened out back wings, pull one wing over the padding, then roll the whole thing tight and secure with the two remaining exposed tapes. It occurred to me while I was writing this post that maybe not everybody's version of the normal way to fold a diaper would be the same as mine

I disagree, DSpace has one of the best members search engines. I can find more DL's in my community on DSpace than any other website (except maybe DD).

Gee....I can't answer the question without having tried the product first. I don't have a point of reference (diaper) to compare it to. However I can speculate. IF the diaper was on par, performance wise, to Bambino's AND the case was indeed a 72 count as opposed to the 48 count of Bambinos currently offered by B4NS then a price around the 130 dollar mark wouldn't be out of line IMO.

While I am not the one getting spanked, I prefer to hold my little one over my knee. Calling her over to me, or pulling her to me, helps to build the anticipation of what is about to come. There is something about her ineffectual struggling to get away, even as I hold her in place continuing the spanking, that adds to the reinforcement of her being little and the humiliation of the punishment. Of course, some other things can be done with the hand on the arm wrapped around her - thus adding to the mixed confusion and feelings that arise from her spanking...

Oh no, please don't take it in that light. I mean, if I wanted to be a prick and milk a niche market, I would just ship it in and charge $150 a case and say "Hey, that's the breaks, if you want it, you'll pay for it". Couldn't be farthest from the truth. Sure my outwardness is a bit odd and out of place, but the entire idea here is to build an outlet that serves the community as a whole and gets them the product they want in an affordable range. Tomorrow I'm supposed to hear back from Dry Care with a finalized price on cases shipped directly from their factory, and my logistics/customs brokers will have me a quote on the ship and rail transport costs to our location. Factor that to what people are willing to pay, and if it's in the negative, well, then it doesn't work - and we come back to the community and see what they think, do we bring it in at a higher cost to them, or do we move on to the next product. That being said, if people vote $140 a case and I can actually sell and ship them for $130 AND afford all the bills then you bet I will! I've been in business for myself for 14 years, yes, I opened my first when I was 18, so I know the importance of a good customer relationship. It might come across as weird to care so much about customers but damnit, that's what I do. That being said, if I don't get any input at all, then it leaves me in a bind to know if the product will actually sell, so please, do vote and keep the comments coming. I've gotten a few by E-mail and they are very appreciated - sales@cdtmedical.ca The more open you are with your comments, the better this company will grow. Cheers!

Even if I wanted to, I couldn't. Many times I have tried to quit but its just who I am, its a part of me. I think being an AB or DL is similar to being homosexual, you can't help it, it's psychological.

so i got changed by a cute blonde 20 sdomething lesbian(or maybe she was bi she didn't say) doctor at a hospital today! and befreo you call bs let me give you the details then you can decide if i'm tryignt play you like nintendo. I had to go to the hospital to get my medication refilled today( i had some when i left home but i cna't contact my nor mal doctor back home and i need my meds to get by)and to do that i had to get interviewed. the doctor i get is a cute young brunette fairly easy on the eyes if you follow me. She asks how old i am and when i say twenty going on 21 she says "just a few years younger than me then" then we go on with the interview and she asks ifr i live here in twon or what and i say i'm staying with my friend ricky, her reply shocks me a little "Ok if you don't mind me asking, is ricky a boy or a girl because my girlfriends name is ricky." we continue through getiting me prescriptions and all that and i ask if they could help me get some diapers since i no longer have insurance, and i'm trying to save every penny i can. then she says"oh you're incontinent? no problem i think we can help you out a little bit, do you need a change before you go?" i blushed at that point and mumbled something in the affirmative. I expcected her to just direct me to a bathroom with a lock on the door, instead she has me lay down on the exam table and pull down my shorts. i started to say i could manage then she points to my broken hand and says it would be easier if she did it and she very professionally diapers me! thats the story guys and if anyone else has a story about why being incontinet isn't so bad share it herei'd love to hear it.

Sucks your mom may have found your "stash" but I agree with others. If you don't want to be caught by the parents, don't live with them. Otherwise, expect it to happen. It's usually not a matter of if but when. It happened to me when I still lived at home and I was a freak about being careful and hiding it. Then one day accidentally left a used diaper in the bathroom after I had showered. Overlooked it when I left the bathroom(good size bathroom) and mom found it. She never suspected fetish but thought there was something medically wrong I was hiding so I played it off as it was. There was the "go see the dr" talks and a whole crap ton of nonsense and hoops I had to jump through for my "medical" condition. I finally just had to be rude to her and say "MIND OR OWN DANG BUSINESS AND LET ME WORRY ABOUT ME!!" I got so angry about the constant questions and what not that I exploded on her and she left me alone about it since. Later told her it had "cleared up". Shortly after I moved out and it was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. Nothing like the freedom of your own place. NOOOOOO worries about anything but paying the mortgage. Delivers, who cares, hiding places, nope, discrete, nope, wear whenever, yup, anyone to report to, nope! Went from $250 a month rent at parents to $1000 mortgage payments which was half my monthly income. Rest of my money paid for utilities, car, insurance, phone and whatever was left over for food and entertainment. I scraped by but made due. You learn to start picking up shifts or overtime when you can, anytime it's available. Get a second job if needed or cut back on entertainment and cut coupons to save money. It's amazing the mentality shift you go through once you have real responsibilities. Darkfinn is absolutly correct though about moving out. Couldn't agree with you more. Take birds for example. Momma bird kicks baby out of the nest to get them to fly. If they don't try, the fall flat on their face and die. Harsh reality. People need to get their "stuff" together and move out at least by 21 unless you have some very unusual circumstances or are currently in college. If you are a normal able bodied person and not going to school, you should have no problem moving out and making due. It's your debt if you got yourself there so you figure it out and stop taking charity from your parents by staying home. There's never a time when you will be comfortable moving out and paying bills but that's adult hood. It's what your parents had to do and are doing. What kind of children are parents raising these days. A bunch of users with zero ambition or motivation and massive debt accrued in a couple years of life? Too bad these parents don't do like the birds and kick them out so they'll have to survive on their own. Instead, they allow themselves to be taken advantage of by the 20 somthing and even 30 something year old children. Like Darkfinn said, nearly everyone who's now 40 or older moved out by 21. They'll probably tell you all the crappy places they've lived and beater cars they owned at first and not knowing how much money they'd have for food but they made it work budgeting every nickle they had. Now it seems every 20 year old is in debt up to their eyeballs and so the best solution for them is stay at home to "save" money, all the while they're still acruing other debt because they have zero finacial responsibilities and parents to still bail them out. Okay, this doesn't apply to "everyone" but quite a few, I know, I have friends who are the same way and I find it pathetic. Raising a family of 4 in your parents flippin' house, one of them does, because they "just can't get on their feet" yet drive newer vehicles, go on vacations and out to dinners often enough??? She has her hair done, nails and tanning but nope, can't afford to leave mommy and daddy's. I just don't get it, the parents or my friend. Live within your means and cut up those cards, learn to say no to spending money you don't have or don't NEED to spend and budget, budget, budget and don't waver from it until you can afford to. Just my two cents or probably about a dollars worth.

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No offense... but at 21 you should be out living on your own.

If you are trying to hide an alternative lifestyle, you need to be up and out on your own. Otherwise don't complain about being discovered by your parents. What goes on in their house is their business. Sorry to break it to you... but if you are 21 and still living with mommy and daddy the rest of the world sees you as an unsuccessful loser. People these days? Go talk to your parents and grandparents, or anyone in their 40's or older for that matter. Guarantee you they were out of the house by the time they turned 21. It is called becoming an adult... and it has been done for hundreds of years. Only in the last 20 years or so has it become popular for children to stay with their parents until they are 25 or older. You aren't going to learn what the real world is like when you are living with mom & dad.

Amen to that. If the money ain't in the account, don't let the transaction go through. It is that simple. These crooked banks have been getting rich for years on overdraft fees. They are worse than loan sharks.