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d_drew12: Bambino does not have a one tape diaper first off...second, don't even compare Bambino and ABU - ABUniverse is a horrible quality diaper in multiple ways...if anything ABU is a novelty diaper if that especially for the outrageous price of it. jed51 is right - you can't just continually make changes every month or take a huge risk on a product and it flounder...they would stand to lose a lot of money. I assure you though, they seem to be meticulously working on something as they hinted on their blog some time ago. They most likely want it perfect and have enough in stock otherwise if it weren't "perfect" then you know this would probably be the first place people would come to bad mouth the product. But, so far all of Bambinos products have been top notch and IMO the best. Just be thankful that a company was nice enough to design such a diaper to this market otherwise many of us would be stuck leaking all over the place with depends.

These biscuits are sooooo yummy!

Wanda smiles and waves back. "Hello Aunt Tracy. Looks like a clown car in here with all of us in here." Hannah looks at Wanda. "You would know about clowns. Since you are one Bozo." Jayme goes into the Build A Bear store and starts to look around. She rolls back and forth in front for the stuffed animals trying to decide. Before Brenda could answer. Wanda spoke up. "I have 4 stuffed animals from here. Mommy said it look like a zoo in my crib." April comes over to Tracy. "If we each get one outfit for each of our stuffed animals. Does that mean Bonnie gets two since she has two stuffed animals?" Bonnie runs over. "Mommy look. It is the same outfit that Bernie gave Molly." She was holding up a Seminole cheerleading outfit.

Life is all bunnies and Nuks when you're an adult baby Share http://www.nashvillescene.com/2009-11-26/news/life-is-all-bunnies-and-nuks-when-you-re-an-adult-baby/ By Lindsay Ferrier Published on November 25, 2009 at 9:16am Don't be fooled by the commercials. Babies are filthy little creatures. Their spit-up will absolutely ruin every last one of your shirts. The color, consistency and volume of their poop (and the uses they're able to find for it when left "napping" in their cribs) will horrify you. The distance and range they are able to spew vomit may very well have you consulting both an exorcism manual and a 24-hour crime cleanup crew. After tending to babies for close to six years, I've come to two conclusions. One is that love truly does conquer all, because despite my aversion to all things icky, I can catch my children's vomit in my hands and scrape their two-day-old poo out from under my fingernails without flinching. The other is that there's a reason our memories all start somewhere around 3 years old—we block out the early years because they're just too damn disgusting. The idea, then, that an adult would want to revisit that time—to wear diapers again and drink from a bottle and be totally at the mercy of others—pretty much blows my mind. So when I got an email out of the blue from a self-professed "adult baby," I did what any rational columnist would do. I interviewed him. "Bella," as he's known in the online world, is a 24-year-old heterosexual male. If you happened to see him out and about, he'd look and act just like everyone else. But at home, it's another matter. "Generally, I play the role of a toddler age 2-3," he told me. "I wear cute clothes, suck on a pacifier, drink from a bottle, cuddle with my stuffed animals and play with dolls. I wear a bib and eat with my hands. I love to play with crayons, and can draw some excellent stick people. To an extent it is a full-time thing for me. I wear diapers to bed every night, not because I need them, but because I want to. When I have adult things to do around my apartment, I often just go about them as normal but in my diapers and baby attire." I'm still trying to wrap my brain around the fact that a person could get enjoyment out of attempting to replicate the baby life, which is about the most boring thing I can think of. But Bella is far from alone. Once he started poking around on the Internet, he found a sizable online community of men and even a few women who enjoy doing the very same thing. In his real life, though, he's only told a few close friends about his habit, and has even managed to find a woman who's agreed to "babysit" him from time to time. "She does not interact with me as adult to adult, but rather in the way that a babysitter would with a toddler," he explained to me. "She makes me dinner and helps me eat, makes sure I get a bottle if I need one, plays with me, keeps an eye on me to make sure I behave, and generally just tends to my needs. While she visits my home for this type of activity, she becomes the authority figure. She makes the rules. Things like throwing food may result in a timeout. All in all it is very innocent role playing." That's right—innocent. Bella insists that for him and many others, playing baby isn't some weird sexual fetish. In fact, those who do get sexual pleasure out of the practice focus almost exclusively on the diaper element and go by another title entirely: Diaper Lovers. "To the best of my ability, I function and think as a young child," Bella said. "My mind goes away from being focused on adult things like sex, money and responsibility. Rather, my thoughts are consumed by far more important choices such as: Should I use the pink crayon or the green one? What is softer, my stuffed bunny or this pillow? Should I have milk or apple juice? My focus shifts from the horribly frustrating adult world to the simple and easy life of a child. My biggest concern is giving and receiving innocent love; my biggest fear is time out. My biggest joy is making 'Mommy' proud and knowing she is smiling because of something I did." I try my best to stay open-minded about Bella's lifestyle because he honestly seems like a nice guy, albeit one who's going to have a hell of a time finding a girlfriend. I mean, his situation really takes the "There's something I haven't shared with you" conversation to a whole new level. But according to Bella, you might have met an adult baby and not even known it. "The majority of us are very normal and productive members of society," he said. "We go to school, we work, we socialize and we pay our taxes. We stand in line with you at the post office, the DMV, the grocery store and the movie theater." Think about that the next time you're out shopping. On second thought... don't.

As always this munch was great. Getting to hang out with other down to earth ab/dl's at these munches has become a monthly event I always look forward to and try to make time for. The food at the Diner was good, and the company made it even better. It is quite an awesome thing when people with ab/dl interests can get together and be themselves around others with similar interests. The conversations are both more interesting and exciting as are the stories and experiences, when shared with people that can appreciate our unique interests. Hanging out at the mall was nice, riding the carousel (mer-horse) with my wet abena and plastic pants under my cargo's was good fun, and walking the mall, chatting and appreciating things with an ab/dl perspective included was great. Anyone thinking of coming out to one of these, but not quite sure, put your reservations aside and be rest assured that decent, non-threatening people are what make these munches/events a success. The more people there are attending these the better they get and the more ideas are shared making the next ones even better. So everybody let's make these gatherings interesting, exciting and memorable, come on out and join in on the fun, so we can really have a local ab/dl group where we can be comfortable being ourselves, meet like minded down to earth people that share our interests and create lasting friendships.

I didn't ask to be diapered, but I asked for diapers for Christmas one year when I was about 7. Surprisingly enough my parents granted that wish. They were the size 6 Pampers.. the biggest at the time and they actually fit. Needless to say it was a very good Christmas.

Drugs probably played a large part in his death, there just wasn't enough evidence to say whether or not they did. Stimulants and depressants put a huge strain on the heart. Eventually things just give up. But that is just me speculating. On the flip side, any sort of congenital defect of the heart or a failing system would have been detected during the autopsy. And any drugs or any other abnormal chemicals would have been found during the tox screen on the blood. So then he may have just, died.

Psychologically speaking, gay is who you love, not what you enjoy. On topic, I would just like some acceptance. Live and let live, so to speak. No need to diaper the world. Small steps people, small steps. *I here by claim page two in the name of BABYVR6!*

It just means that there isn't enough physical evidence to determine the cause of death. Some people just... die.

hihi, welcome to DD have fun and enjoy... do scotts love tea as much as the english?? *hugs* juniper xxx

yeah, get the abenda. Thats the best

Bonnie shakes her head. "I wasn't being hurtful. I just told them what you told me. That I didn't have to buy them things if I didn't want to. I was being honest with them. It was them who became mean and hurtful towards me after that." She looks up at Tracy. "Well you could have told Bernie that you didn't want me to have the money. Then that would have been the end of it and none of us would have known anything about the money. So there wouldn't be a rift." Bonnie shakes her head. "We aren't a family anymore. They have made it clear they don't want me in the house or in their lives. So I was giving them their wish. I loved them too much to stay around if they didn't want me to be there."

I kinda wish people would just be who they are and stop trying to impose it on others. We whine way too much as a community. I'd love it if everyone embraced the fetish however people are different and thus like different things. Go with the ebb and flows in life and enjoy the ride.

Yeah, young people are stupid sucky smart alecs! I think I'm going to make a really corny image with a self-gratifying caption on the side of it and send it to all of my friends to put the point across now. I mean honestly, is there any need in stirring the pot between old people and young people? You would at least expect the older folks to have the maturity to not participate in something so frivolous.

Mrs. Blanchard looks over the folder in front of her. "There is nothing in the file about her wetting the bed. You will have to ask the lady over the room Cynthia is in. Bedwetting is an embarrassing thing and she would know if Cynthia wets the bed and just didn't put it into the folder so it wouldn't be used as a reason she wouldn't be adopted." She nods. "Yes she does suck her thumb. She has all her life. We couldn't break her of the habit. If you want to try to get her to stop. You are welcome to try. I guess it could be worse. She could suck on a pacifier like a toddler does."

Yes. Do tell of your experiences.

Have a great munch, wish I can go but I can't make it out to see you. I tried to free my schedule to get there but it hasn't worked out. I have been wanting to go to that restaurant for quite a while now I have heard cool things about it, hopefully next time. Tell everyone hello for me Glenn thanks for keeping me in the loop, you are doing a wonderful job!!! Merry Christmas to you all, have fun Huggie

Glenn, Thanks for organizing the munch. I had a great time talking with you and Dawn. I hope your hike went well. It did start to warm up a little. I hope to see you at the next one.

JP you shouldnt be shy or afraid about going to an AB?DL party or munch. I went threw the same thing when i first started over 30 years ago. But the need to meet others that understand ya is FAR BETTER than sitting at home wondering what would of happen if i wentor what did i miss out on. I been to a few AB/DL partys & the host or hosts make sure u r comfey & have a good time. i realy recamend to go to the next AB party near ya. Its FAR BETTER than sitting at home wondering.

I am trying to clear my work schedule so I can attend. I'll know better in a day or two.

Hi Glenn, Looking forward to seeing you and the others. I am excited, sorry I can't make the hike but I'll be there to enjoy the party with jeffy & al. Getting my onsie, plastic pants & other gear together. FYI ppl better behave too cuz if not I am a spanker! I double as a Daddy too btw Huggie

Hiya AB/DL couple here! My wife and I will both be there! We're from and around the Woodbridge area. I think we are also bringing a friend but he'll RSVP himself

I'm sorry but Is the bestest.

I am just thankful that we have a company willing to at least go as far as they have. This is a quality diaper at a competitive price that performs well. This is a niche market and to develop these products is incredibly expensive. Are there improvements that could be made, but if I were running to company, I would only make those changes if they could be done with a reasonable expectation of a return on the investment.

Adrian, when are you going to post your findings on the similarities/differences between the bambino and secure x-plus? I'd be curious to know your findings. Also, I noticed something I hadn't before. I was looking at your blog called "rockin' designer clothes with diapers". There's a photo of you in a bambino and I noticed the tapes and the tape landing zone comes down much further on your diaper then it does on mine. I'm guessing yours is a small or medium while mine is a large. I'm sure the tape zone is the same size no matter what diaper it's put on and likewise, so the tapes would line up with the landing zone, the tapes are also put at the same distance down nomatter what size they're on. Escentially this means the larger the diaper, there's more space between the bottom of the tape zone and the front of the diaper and also more diaper below the bottom tape on the wings. This maybe why the bottom tape is about in the middle of the wing on a large so it lands in the tape zone where as in a small or med, they'd be closer to the bottom of the wing as it probably isn't as wide as a large. They probably don't move the placement of the tapes when they set up for a different size diaper as they all have to be in the same spot to hit the tape zone. Maybe this is why for me to have the tapes land on the tape zone, the tapes seem to be up too high for my liking as there'd be more diaper below the bottom of the landing zone. I've taped it down toward the leg before just to snug it up better but then I can't ever refasten, tears instantly. Bambino should really put a wider tape zone on the front of the diaper as the size increases and then the tapes could be better placed on the sides too for a better fit. Anyone else notice this. Not too many have different sizes but I did post the dimensions of a bambino on another thread hear a while ago and looking at the bambino I have right now, the bottom tape is darn near in the middle of the wing.

Not to start an argument but bambino to me really doesn't CONTINUE to listen to their customers. They came out with one diaper that was a replica escentially of another diaper already being produced. All they did was change the tape landing zone on the diaper and market it to ab/dl's. Yeah, yeah, maybe there's a slight tweek here or there over the secure x-plus but blindfolded you wouldn't be able to tell the difference between the two. I don't necessarily call making ONE white and ONE print tape zone really listening to their customers if SOOOOOOOO many want a new tape zone, thicker, thinner, pull-up style, different additional diaper all together. In the past three years the only thing they've managed to do is come out with booster pads and recently make a single tape diaper now!!!??? Granted many people like the current diaper but what about all the other voices asking for something new and different. If ABU, a start-up new company, can come out with a dozen new items in the same time frame, regardless of what you think of their product, bambino should've been able to as well. Call it what you want but to me, the sellers of bambinos have their ears plugged. For those that don't think so, it's probably because you are very satisfied with their current diaper and wouldn't change or add anything to the line.

some thoughts have occured to me after reading this. (Being the obsessive compulsive that I am, I've been giving it WAY too much thought, thus feeling the need to post here) I've been looking for something like the anal ring product that was linked in the first post for a while (thank you btw, I've ordered a set) Then thoughts started forming on how to make full use of this as a true incontinence simulator (or at least a realtively inexpensive experience). As I understand it with these in place, you would constantly leak through the rectum, rather than having full movements. Which wouldn't be quite the natural way one would want to simulate, feces moves down the line till pressure hits and you open up natuarally. I've wondering how a small barrier would work in this situation, allowing some build up until internal pressures for the barrier to give, opening things up for the ring to do it's thing. Perhaps something simple, like an inflated balloon, or plug. This would then give some time delay between insertion of the rings and bowel movements, thus keeping the subject unaware of WHEN it would actually occur, and very mindful of anything bowel related (at least until it first gives way... then it's just leak till changing time). Then... more thoughts started stirring in my head about how to create a similar scenarion for urination, eventually I came up with this. An inserted catheter would create the same effect, constant dribbling of urine. (yes yes, catheter BAD.. we've all heard it before..) What would happen if another barrier were to be placed on the end of the catheter to allow storage in the bladder till it gives way. My mind went to the plastic valve located on sport drink bottles (power/gaterade, etc). I don't know how much pressure would be required to open these, but with some wear and tear you could probly get it to be fairly easy opening. So... there it is, my current thoughts on simulated temporary incontinence... let the crossfire commence.

Think it's possible to put 2 girls in the same diaper? They would be lying down one on top of the other. I suppose it is possible but the diaper would have to be on properly, secured by lots of tape. When one stands up I'm guessing the diaper would just rip off, not good. Anyone ever try this?

This photo says a lot!

I have a different type of fetish and want to see if there's any girls out there that have it also. I used to babysit the neighbor's 2 year old daughter about twice a week. While there alone I used to sneak into her nursery in the diaperpail and take out a couple of her wet diapers but no soiled diapers only the wet ones. I put them on inside a normal size diaper and fantisized that it was me that had wet them. Her plastic pants fit me but rather tightly and a few times I did wet in them. I was always able to put them back into her diaperpail without being caught. I know this is a very seldom heard of fetish. Is there anyone else who has ever worn another baby's diaper? How about some that were soiled?

I's sitting on a coach (I like brrmbrrms) and didded poopoos and I casnt smell it! Silly lady in next seat eating kebabby and its horrid yuk! Now I knows U can do poopoos on a bus coz them gotted toilets. But I finked it bad 2 eat hot food and U casnt do it. Get telled off! Is there anybaby else casnt smell him poopoos on buses and things coz someone else is even smellyer ewww? Happynappies, Johnipoohs.

I tried to look after my 2 year old baby sister. I was babysitting her while mom went to the store for some groceries. After a half hour my baby sister started crying. Wow, what's wrong I thought. I gave her her bottle, no she didn't want that. Then terror struck. Sure enough, she had wet herself and needed changed. I figured I'd wait till mom got home. Forty-five minutes later she comes back. Once inside she hears my sister crying. Mom was furious when she noticed the wet diaper on her. She was really mad. She told me to get to my room. I was in trouble. On the way up to my room mom changed my sister into a new diaper and plastic panties. My door opened and my jaww dropped. In mom's hand was the wet diaper of my sister's. Mom told me to strip and lay on the bed. This is why your sister was crying, a soaking wet diaper. She also had a clean diaper with her and I was to have my punishment. She said you need to know what a wet diaper feels like so next time you look after your sister you'll change her, now lay on the bed.She put my baby sister's soaking wet diaper inside the clean one and proceeded to diaper me like a baby. Mom told me I was to wear it for the next 24 hours and not to use the bathroom only the diaper. Baby's go in their diapers and that was what I was to do. Over the diaper was a pretty pair of my sister's plastic panties. They were snug but I needed extra protection since I would probably wet a few times. I never forgot to change her again and now when I babysit her I borrow one of her wet diapers from the diaperpail and wear it when mom's not home.