That's awesome for you. I know I am an adult baby, and I am diapered permanently, and even now, I am not allowed out of diapers. I am in them and I know I am not allowed near the potty
If that is all you do, it will give you a smelly bed
I wash my diapers in lukewarm water, like I was everything else in. I am told that hot water is not necessary except now and then to "strip" them. I use a double rinse cycle. I use Tide. I learned this from a site that deals with cloth baby diapers. I avoid all "anti-bacterial" washing products as they bring about more resistant strains of backteria
My better half's family own a ranch just outside Lead. Her brother, who manages the property, does the same thing during the rally. Spearfish Canyon is a nice ride.