Take all advise, tell her. I kept it from my wife up until 2 months ago. For me, like a previous poster, the bottle of wine helped me talk. At first I will say, she was put off, and I thought, what did I do? That lasted like a week. She always said 'Don't ask me to wear one' 'don't ask me to change a dirty diaper' I never got the incest or pedophile accusations like some do, thank god. She knows better. BUT, I just kept it to myself. WELL, on our last trip to Hollywood, I took my Bambinos (thank you Bambino company, your awesome) I was in the bathroom putting one on myself, she obviously heard the crinkly noises. And I heard those beautiful words.. 'would you like some help with that' ummmm yeeeahhh!! She diapered me a couple more times that weekend, and yes changed my wet diaper. No messies, I have promised her. But, now, its great. I can wear whenever I want. I can buy baby things, and have them sent to my house. She even went to the store a few weeks ago and bought me three packs of diapers. Last weekend we got into a little diaper bondage, she put a diaper on me, fed me, held my bottle (of beer), hehe, poured ice cream on me while she was feeding me, and damn. I wish I woulda said something to her sooner. I will say, the support I have gotten from this page has helped. She too googled Paraphilic Infantalism for that is the term I used to describe it. She found the Wiki site, which I think explains it pretty well. So, for me, I am a happy baby. At first she was a little put off as I said, but she is fine with it now. Oh yeeh, she put one on for me too. I asked her what she thought of it, she said 'Well, it IS very soft' thanks again Bambinos, you rock.