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You know Vic, I DID go to your area on heidilynnsworld.com. About three paragraphs down you talk about respect and giving people common courtesy. Having never met me before, did you give me these things Vic? Let me make a few quotes from the material. "There seems to be a total lack of respect for others here." I agree. One manifestation of lacking respect for another is labeling them something when you don't know a THING about that person. Another manifestation of lack of respect for a person is using them as a punching bag to vent your frustration about problems that occurred in your own past. Problems that they had NOTHING to do with. I'm not responsible for your past buddy, so stop making me a target for your frustrations. "When you are talking to someone(online or in person) you need to give them as much respect as you want them to give you." Your first post towards me was so disrespectful it was like a punch in the face. According to your own words, wasn't my lack of respect for you merely what you EARNED? "We are a rather small community." "When people turn others off by being rude and inconsiderate, it hurts our whole community." That we ARE Vic. And that it DOES. I wonder how much bigger our community would be if we weren't destroying ourselves from the inside by rabidly judging complete strangers. Doesn't make us seem too approachable does it? When people are RUDE and INCONSIDERATE it hurts our community doesn't it? Did you even stop and THINK about how it would make me feel being accused of "getting off" to children in diapers? I hate to tell you Vic, but you declare one set of beliefs and you practice another.

Thanks for the compliments regarding my writing, but did you read the previous posts? Pissed off because I didn't find the material I wanted? Any other time I would applaud your attempt to douse the flames, but several people accused me of being a pedophile and one person tried to arrange to meet me to fight... I'm not going to sit by and let people slander my name without coming to my own defense. Accusations like that would anger anyone on this board and I take them very seriously. Especially in this community... Everyone here knows what it's like to be judged UNFAIRLY by people who won't even TRY to see things from your point of view. Besides, if I don't defend myself then the reputation sticks, and if the reputation sticks anyways then at least I did what I could. As for Vic... I'm at a loss for words on that last post of yours pal. You're a real piece of work... You gave me a sob story about your life and your "reasoning" behind judging me unfairly and, in the same breath, tried to give me the macho routine. First you cry about the cards life has dealt you then you flex your muscles. You have a severe case of what we in the country call "small man syndrome." You don't need to feed me some BS about boot camp then try to arrange a meeting to fight to prove to me that you're tough, alright? I get it, you eat nails for breakfast, lunch, and dinner... or whatever. "You've lived too damn long, and too damn hard to have some young punk threaten you" eh? Yeah, real tough Vic. I think John Wayne said that once... to his horse... when he was drunk. I chuckled just now, do you know why? It's because somebody tried to arrange a "fight date" with me once. It was in middle school... he wanted to meet at the playground. Are you sure you aren't twelve? My predictions for the future are that Vic will press the "fight date" issue.

Man, it just bothers me that people on this board assume so much and are so negative I just want to pull my hair out. You negative people are contagious. And please, would you all stop mentioning that word on this board? It makes me cringe each time I see that word or phrase mentioned. For people who supposedly want to avoid being associated with that kind of thing, you sure bring the topic up quite a bit. Do any of the previous posters have any tact? The more you mention that kind of thing on this board, well meaning or not, the greater the odds of people associating this site with that kind of thing. Its called the power of SUGGESTION folks. Its not your place to go on a freaking witch hunt. The moderators of the board can deal with any situation quietly as they see fit. I mean come on, 10 or so replies and roughly 8 or so were not only NEGATIVE but also included some mention of the word, phrase or situation in question and thats in THIS POST alone. Seriously, are people that dumb? I think pamperspete was the ONE person who didn't immediately jump to conclusions and reply in a negative fashion.

Thats not fair at all Vic. I'm not "getting off" while thinking about children in diapers. God, It's so offensive that people keep suggesting that. I just want to scream obscenities at you people. Seriously, i wish I could punch you in the face through the internet. Its THAT insulting. I, like most people on this board, like to imagine myself as being younger or at least my own age but having never been potty trained. The people who created the audio file did so in an attempt to aid myself and others in making the imagined scenario more real. When I'm listening to audio files like this I'm imagining that the women are talking about ME. Whats wrong in thinking that I'm a fourteen year old in diapers? I can imagine myself as being any age I want thank-you-very-much. The majority of the people on this board, most likely some of the previous posters included, have imagined themselves as being much younger. The whole point of the audio file is to create the illusion that the women are discussing the LISTENER. Nobody suggested getting off to kids in diapers. God i dont even like to type that comment out. It simply gives you negative people more steam.

Sarah, the women weren't discussing a REAL PERSON. It was a narrative that can be found in many of the stories on THIS SITE. Are we going to delete a third of the story section?

I understood what they were saying completely. And I'm saying it wasn't justified. Nowhere in the material was a REAL person discussed. It was a narrative much like many stories that could be found on THIS SITE.

Apparently my reply disappeared. Or was removed. Which really bothers me. What was risky about the video im looking for? It wasn't sexual in nature AT ALL. There were NO MINORS involved and the sound track that was layed over it was NOT about a real person.

I was watching a video on DD Tube no more than two days ago and there was an awesome video posted that is now gone. The video was of a man in a cloth diaper that was rolling around on a bed but that wasn't what was so awesome about this file. The audio of the file was two women talking about how one of the ladies' son was fourteen and still in diapers. The usual diaper content dialogue ensued... "That's a lot of diapers" "Hopefully he'll potty train soon so I can quit changing diapers" etc... Does anyone know where this audio file came from?? Its driving me up the wall! It was so good and now its gone I hope I'm in the right section. Im sort of a forum newb. Not my first post but I definately dont have alot under my belt.

A few days back I ordered a case of Bianco's. I posted earlier about a couple mishaps I had. But, In the same post I also pointed out how I absolutely fell in LOVE with the way these things puff up. It made me feel just like a toddler. Diapers these days are designed to keep you from feeling too wet unless absolutely soaked. But the way these things swell is a CONSTANT reminder of the fact that you're wearing a wet diaper. Decided to buy a case and give em a proper trial. Its going to be nice seeing babyish looking diapers(that I didn't make myself ) in my diaper cubbies for the first time in over two decades. Try this diaper, if you haven't already.

I completely understand why you're baffled, trust me. I was a bit baffled myself. The diaper tore, so did the booster pad... what can I say? I too have worn several different types and styles of diapers and have NEVER had one tear... not even close. I mean, my regular setup is two attends with about 8 slits cut in the inner one and even THAT one doesn't tear. Now, I have never worn the same diaper/diaper-combo for 24 hours, but I HAVE worn some 12+ hours doing the exact same things then as I was when I was wearing the bambino that tore. As far as what I was doing.... nothing too rigorous. Just every day stuff. Sitting at the computer doing homework, getting up to do laundry, or start the dishwasher... every day stuff a person would do around the house on a normal day. I mean, its not like I was doing jumping jacks when it happened. The only thing I can think of to possibly explain it is my body style, as you mentioned earlier. The reason I say that is because I know weight is NOT the issue. I'm roughly 5'11'', 195lbs with a 34'' waist. Mediums go up to what, 44 inches? Also, I mentioned earlier that the diaper simply doesn't fit me properly. A sad thought considering that these are, in theory, my dream diaper(Minus the taping method. Four tapes? I could be wrong, but from every diaper review Ive read, four tapes are a unanimous thumbs down.). Before you ask, let me remind you once again that I've tried many many MANY different brands as well as styles. I mean, you name it I've tried it. so I know how to diaper myself. But body style only explains the diaper tearing. I've never tried a booster pad, ever, so this isn't my area of expertise. In my opinion though, I think the design of this particular one is flawed. This booster pad has a strip of adhesive on the bottom of it. When you think about it, the fundamental reason for having a strip of adhesive material on something serves what purpose? The answer is simply to keep it from moving when you know that its going to want to move. I know, I know, not exactly rocket science. What this boils down to though, is that when I'm moving, both the diaper and the pad are moving with me. Every time I get up or sit down, every step that I take, every time I bend over, each time I turn around the booster pad and diaper were moving in some way while the adhesive strip was trying to prevent that from occuring which most likely resulted in a tear. When you stick two things together like that, something has to give at some point given enough movement, right? To me the idea of putting an adhesive strip on the pad simply doesn't hold water(no pun intended). I understand the logic behind the adhesive strip, but that same reasoning leads to the thing destroying itself. Anyways... Maybe I'm just more active than most. Like I said, I wasn't being rough on the thing, but I'm not the kind of person that stays in one spot for hours on end either. Of course this is all just speculation. It could just be the simple fact that things break occasionally. But TWO incidents from the SAME shipment? Maybe their quality assurance guy called in sick that day?

I just tried my second sample pack of classico's since bambino went in business and I must say I was dissapointed. First off, they came with two booster pads. The booster pads are scented and bambino claims they will not bunch up or tear. As far as the scent, I didn't really like it. My opinion is a bit biased on scents, though, so don't read too much into that comment. If it doesn't smell like the modern LUVS diapers, I don't like it, heh. Just to drive my point home, I didn't like the "mommy's diaper fresh scent" either and many AB/DL's love that stuff. Personally I think their secret formula is baby oil and hand soap. As for the "never bunch/never tear" part, I find it ironic that, within the first few minutes of having the first diaper on, the largest booster pad did BOTH of these things lol... This left me and the first diaper covered with gunk and it was very uncomfortable. I had to take that diaper off after the first very slight wetting and felt like it was a waste. The stuff got everywhere too, there was quite a cleanup. So I tried the final diaper and managed to wear this one for awhile and was able to get a few good wettings into this one. However, after a couple hours just doing stuff around my apartment, this one tore down the back!!!! Not a little tear either, a HUGE tear!!!! It tore from the rear waistband down to my crotch! Once again, gunk got everywhere!!! Also, despite having an overall softer feel than last time, the fit has not improved one bit. Ugh, why do people make four tape diapers? I had both the bambino's on as snug as I could get and every time i bent over the diaper felt like it was falling off. Summary: 1: All of the products in the sample pack seemed to be defective which lead to some pretty fun(sarcasm) clean ups. 2:Fit was tearable. (get it? the fit was BAD and the diaper TORE) This was a huge letdown because I want so badly for these diapers to work out! The reason I want them to work out so bad is that these diapers SWELL.... A LOT. I managed to get some use out of the second diaper before it had a huge gaping tear in it and the front swelled up, making me feel more babyish than any other method of regression I have experienced(Bottles/clothes/pacifiers/other diaper brands). I don't even think my obvious infatuation with the way these things swell is enough to drive my point home. It really took me back to the days when I was in diapers as a young child. This was so incredibly awesome that I nearly bought a case despite the fact that BOTH the diapers I got practically fell apart!!!! Also, I love the blue waistbands!!!! Incredibly babyish. Too bad they don't go all the way around or at least a little more to each side. Please Bambino, do something about your fit and durability and I will never buy another diaper again!!!

Nice to know we have at least a small representation in Tulsa. Its easy to feel alone as an ABDL, heh. I was born in Tulsa, and lived in Jenks for 25 years.

Cool, she got ahold of me

I just recently signed on to ebay after a bunch of my freinds seemed to like it and my first EVER purchase was a onsie from a person called sybil256. I'll leave out the real name because im not sure if it's legal to post it here or not : / I paid 6.50 for priority mail and two and a half weeks later it still isn't here. I tried to contact her four times, with a few days in between each message to give her time to reply. Nothing.... So I opened a Paypal dispute and get this, all it really is is another form of messaging service. Has anyone ordered an item from this person? Her feedback ratio is 99% positive. Just my luck I'd fall into the 1% of her buyers having a negative experience my first time EVER buying off ebay P.S. - This blows! I was so psyched about my first ever ebay purchase and first ever AB clothing purchase and now this

Hey everyone. I must say, having a pacifier in my mouth is a huge part of the AB experience for me too. It just makes me feel so juvenile... almost on a level with diapers actually... The only thing is, I rarely have one in.... There are a couple reasons for this and I was hoping i might find some advice here. First off, if I have one in for too long, I get pretty out of breath. Im not sure if this happens to anyone else. Its almost as if im been running or something. I have to take it out and take deep breaths. Before you ask, its not as if I breath through my mouth or something.... I don't. Thats why im kinda puzzled at this... The final reason, is that the biggest pacifier I found at a store near me is a Nuk 3(i think) orthodontic pacifier. There was no real reason i chose orthodontic other than it seemed to be the biggest of the ones all the stores around me had. The nipple on it is fine, but I found that the guard is waaaaaaaaaaaaay too small on the top. It feels almost as if the guard is going to slide -under- my upper lip at times. Does anyone else have this problem? To counter this i have to slightly roll my lip forward and kind of latch on to the pacifier just so it stays in. Anyways, Im turning to you guys for wisdom and advice. I so badly want a pacifier that feels like it was meant for a person my size... not just in nipple size but guard size as well. I want a pacifier just as badly as I wan't diapers sometimes