Moogle, Thank you for this well thought out response. It is as you have described it.
First, Hot dogs. I read somewhere on an ab board about people that put hot dogs in their bum. I wondered if they could mimic making a mess. So I tried it a few times. It does mimic making a mess very well. I have no need to do this as I do very well in that department. We have read about people that want the feeling of being messy but not actually being messy. Bananas and oatmeal are common substitutes. Now weather you think it gross or not, you know about hot dogs. More importantly you read about hot dogs in the squishy and proud forum. You can expect to be grossed out here. Finally, though really not needed, the hot dog is not a sexual thing for me and something I am unlikely to try again.
I do live most of life as a boy. I have a Daddy, not a partner. Daddy does have a partner. For the most part that is how we live. We have a very large circle of friends though not part of the ab/dl community, support us and respect our Daddy-boy relationship.
We share our life on our blog with others, primarily it was for our own enjoyment, it has however morphed into something beyond that. Our motivation for the blog now includes "giving back" to the AB/DL community that has been so good to us. Judging by the hundreds and sometime thousands of visits each day, the AB/DL community get a lot out the blog.
Moogle rightfully pointed out why I do not write like a "boy" on most of the posts here. I do respect that most people here are part time babies and reading "baby text talk" can be very annoying. I save those comments and or writing for their proper place.
Again as moogle stated, I am gay and I would be quite surprised if anyone who has read my blog and or my posts here were to think otherwise.
One final point - Sticking something up your bum is not "just" gay. Lots of straight men and women do it. As someone that has worked extensively in public education around safer and healthy sexual attitudes and counseling individuals and those in relationships, I am aware that most sexual activities can not be labeled gay or straight.